Friday, March 13, 2009

Friday

Dang, I missed another entry.
Things got a little heated up around here - I washed my hands of it and disappeared into my bedroom.
Basically, the tenant that is leaving got into it with Mary last night, and was yelling at her some things that - I won't repeat here.
However, it turns out, the newer tenant isn't exactly a barrel full of truth and honesty.
I only say that because after it was all done - including Mary banging on my door asking for me to "do something about this" (I referred her to the police) - I went back out because I heard some banging noises outside. It was 9:30 so I thought it a little late for the neighbors to be making that much noise - but that's exactly what it was.

However, I heard some people talking out in front of the house, so I walked up to the gate and looked through a crack in the slats of the gate. There was the new tenant and Ken - my other roommate - smoking a joint, in front of the house, on the street, in open view! Mind you that this woman told me that she "used" to smoke pot in Oregon, where she came from, but stopped when she came here. I say THAT because my ads are VERY clear about drug and pot use: NOT. Now that I know she has lied to me, this mixes the pot quite a lot. Who is telling the truth about what? IS Mary smoking meth in my house, or is she not? And all the rest of the stuff.

I am not going to confront the new tenant about smoking pot because she will be gone shortly. She can smoke all the reefer she wants in her new house. She can blow the smoke in her little Pomeranian's face and get them high along with her, I really don't care, she won't be HERE.

What it does for me, however, is that I must take her statements with a huge grain of salt. Why would she say the things about Mary that she has? Maybe some of it is the truth. There ARE people on this planet - lots of them - that take pleasure in making life difficult for other people. I simply don't know. I probably never will. I caught her in a lie - that means she is capable of lying, therefore, I can't take her word for anything. BTW, she doesn't know that I saw her and Ken out there smoking dope, and unless she knows where this journal is (possible) she won't know cause' I ain't saying nothing, unless yet another situation arises that warrants it.

So, anyway, Mary calls me while I'm at work this morning. She started right in. I started right out - I don't have time for this, I told her, I am at work, and I am NOT dealing with this now. I ended up hanging up on here. She called again. Same thing. Half hour later, she calls again. This time, she's sobbing and crying and saying she didn't do any of the things that this woman claims, on and on and on. This conversation went on for a while. I laid out my known issues with her, since we were going there. Besides the meth issue, there is the electric issue. I know from seeing it for myself that she cares not one iota about the electric consumption in this house. I went on that line for a while.

Anyway, long story short - I did not confer anything one way or the other. I have another tenant coming in here either this weekend or next week, and I flatly warned Mary to LEAVE HER ALONE. Don't even TALK to the woman, excepting hi, how ya doing, etc. No asking for rides, no asking for ANYTHING, thank you.

Onto other things. I have been toying with the idea of this next party to also invite the neighborhood and see about starting a Neighborhood Association. Get a Board of Directors together if there are those that are willing, get it registered and start writing requests for money. Not for me, of course, for things for this particular neighborhood. Is there money available right now? Dunno, but it would be the perfect opportunity to get this thing started and at least get a foundation going. I currently have about 50 people lined up for the next party, which doesn't include neighborhood people because - I haven't gone there yet. Half the people coming have said they are bringing food. One person has sent me money PayPal towards costs for the party. More have said they would donate money as well. I have started a blog just for party, actually, and - it's had a LOT of visits.

Now? I actually got some overtime this week. Yesterday, I went out to the middle of Nowhere, Africa - literally - having to pick up some pipe that had been delivered there a long, long time ago. Seems that the company that bought it from us suffered the problem of the developer pulling out. Meaning the contractor was stuck with thousands and thousands of feet worth of pipe, along with a lot of fittings and alot of other stuff. All of it was sitting in the desert. It was all messed up, as one co-worker that drove another semi out there said: This is a Cluster****. In my line of work, foul language is heard constantly.

Umm, I left in the morning on that run and didn't get back until 4:30pm. That's because it took 5 hours to load the trucks, then instead of heading back to my yard, I had to take the pipe to our yard Buckeye - which is out west. WAY out west. Coming back? LONG trip.

Interesting rumors concerning my company. I am not going to divulge anything because - well just not prudent to say that here. Other things, though. More talk of combining a plumbing branch with our branch. A building we occupied has now been closed - plumbing was operating out of it. More people out of work? No necessarily. They are offered to go to work at the huge, downtown branch. My company cares about it's employees, even if it has to downsize to stay alive. Yes, people are being let go - I'm just holding my breath here, hoping I am not going to be one of those people.

I'm just trying to catch up on my journal - there's a lot on my plate and I'm hoping to dump some of that this weekend. I want to spend some time doing things outside. I will be buying 3 or 4 rolls of sod tomorrow and putting it over an area in my back "yard". Grass definitely grows on the other side of the house - wild grass that I didn't plant, so I have some confidence that it should take over on the west side. The only problem is, will the dogs, peeing and pooping on it, kill it? You know, if it can survive the summer - for the most part anyway - I won't care. I would rather have them doing it there than all over the friggin' place.

I'm done with this one, as I haven't watered the plants in several days - they are getting thirsty.

Hope you all are doing well.
ben

7 comments:

  1. You did say that your "soon to be gone" tenant offered to give you her entire security deposit to use to get rid of Mary? Despite the fact that she herself will be on her own and gone and not dealing with Mary?

    Paying that kind of money to "stir things up" or 'make trouble' is not the way it is usually done. To me, her willingness to pay a virtual stranger a rather large amount of money just to have Mary evicted gives her a huge amount of credabiity.

    Further, for all you know, the joint she was sharing with Ken might have been at his invitation and might have been her first puff since she left Oregon. Therefore, no lie.

    And now you have ANOTHER female on board to come live there? ROFLMAO

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  2. Yes, Fin, it's very funny. Walk a mile in another man's shoes.....

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  3. I'm sorry, I have to comment here again, I fail to see what's so funny that you're rolling on the floor, laughing your ass off. I mean, your view of this is VERY narrow. This woman has money to throw away. She doens't work and doesn't have to. People don't always look at money the way others do. Plus, you did NOT, apparently read what I said: Ken offered the joint back to her, she said no, I don't want anymore, just keep it. It was QUITE obvious who the owner and the author of the 420 smoking was.

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  4. If you can not find a single qualified male tenant, than it is not funny. But given the fact that you have had to go to court with two female ones, it just seems like you like excitement. A lot of other people beside me told you a long time ago they felt it was looking for trouble you didn't need to have women there.

    So,good luck again.

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  5. Sorry you are so steamed.

    Nobody, least of all me, is unsympathetic to your economic situation and reasons for taking in roomers.

    If you truly could not find a suitable male tenant, it is not funny. It is very sad.

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  6. I take what I can get when I can get it. If it must be female, then female it is. I don't hate women, I actually like women quite a lot : )
    I've had some great lady tenants in here - 2 of them anyway. This newest one could be a satan in disguise, no way of telling. Same holds true with any male tenant. One guy was supposed to come over - perhaps he drove by and simply didn't like the look of the place, I don't and wouldn't know, since he never called again. Another guy called that owns his own "construction company" - his words. The whole thing sounded very fishy to me and I didn't even consider him as a tenant, didn't feel right and I trust my instincts, especially when the story doesn't add up.
    The lady that is moving in tomorrow has a very calm, peaceful air about her. At least in the meeting we had. People are, I have been finding, desperate to find places that will take their doggies. I'll cater to whatever, whoever, whenever to get people in here. She works all of 2 and a half miles away from here at a Bank of America building that does the accounting stuff. She freely admitted she that "I don't make big bucks", but she must be making at least enough to survive living in a place that is only $400 per month. We'll see. This money - well I'm going to save some of it but I am focusing on finishing this property. I have a couple hundred saved up so far towards getting caught up on the mortgage. I won't need 3 tenants forever - but I'm thinking probably 6 months of it to get through the hot summer (high electric) and try to get caught up on the mortgage. Everything else is paid up now.
    Anyway.........

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