So, Caleb and I left this morning at 9am to go to mom's property, have a little party for Caleb and a food fest and visit for a while. It will presumably be the last time Caleb and mom see each other until whenever next year. When we arrived I was wondering what the heck all the caution tape was around the trees for? My brother's 4-wheel drive Suzuki was in the way, had to wait for him to move his vehicle and then, getting closer, I realized my mom went all out on this affair. She bought yellow ribbon and put it around trees and on fences and then up Luau signs all over the place plus she had Lei's for everyone.
I was helping my oldest brother do some repairs on her driveway - anything I guess to get close to him, he's just off on his on world forever I guess - but he was being cool. Chris and Linda - my brother and his wife - basically came up this weekend to do the party, they were not otherwise going to come up to their cabin this weekend, they apparently had other plans that they had to alter to be there. So that was really pretty cool and nice of them to go out of their way to go up there and be a part of it.
It was a huge feast. My ham and ribs plus a lot of other stuff. I brought up so much meat there was a lot left over, both my mother and my brother have food to eat for a while, lol. It was kind of a sentimental thing leaving there today - we did not stay overnight - just because I knew this would be the last time mom sees grandson for a year and of course life, who knows what may happen.
Caleb also dropped a bomb-shell on all of us today, something I had not heard before. He will have no internet access on the Salvation Army compound in Hawaii. Meaning he can't send us emails or update his Facebook wall or anything like that at all. The SA does that on purpose, but a lot of missionary organizations really do that as well. They want you to focus on the Lord and the reason you are there, not on all the technology and junk that the worlds thrives on nowadays. I remember going through 5 years of having very little access with the world and travelling around Mexico with NO access at all. I did not miss TV - and I still don't, lol - Facebook and the internet did not exist at that time or if the internet did exist, it was in it's infancy, laptops and all this other stuff we have now simply weren't around. You remember, the days when payphones were everywhere? Yeah, that era, lol.
It is really good for them to do that with the recruits they bring over there, but for a parent, that's kinda hard to take. So beit and such is life, but I am not going to sit here and say it isn't going to affect me. They did tell him on the Sabbath Day he can take a bus to the library and use the internet there if he likes, otherwise, it's not a happening event. Knowing my son? Probably won't be hearing much from him. It's basically write letters and send them out. I didn't write letters when I was on the mission field but I did make phone calls here and there to talk to my mom and my dad. Well, this is just something that we're all going to wade into and see what happens.
Going over to visit him will not happen, not the way they have it set up over there. I mean, I have always wanted to go to Hawaii so I could go anyway and spend the day he has off with him, but other than that it just won't work out. It's okay, though. But on my bucket list are to go to the 2 states I have never been to: Alaska and Hawaii, and I really would like to take a cruise ship up to Alaska. I know, seasickness. I don't really think that's that much of a problem on a giant cruise ship that isn't getting tossed around as much by the ocean. I could be wrong, however.
I'm winding this vacation down. It has not really been one of those relaxing type of vacations, but I didn't expect it to be. It's been go, go, go. The drive today up there and back wasn't really that bad excepting on the way back it was raining so hard it was hard to see the road in some places. I'm just tired of traveling/driving and now the car has a heating issue of what the problem is I don't yet know. Fans are working, there are no leaks, the engine is running fine as far as I can tell and so, I assume either a clogged up radiator or a faulty thermostat. I am going to start by flushing out the cooling system and replacing the thermostat and see if that fixes it. If it doesn't, I will either pull the radiator and have it cleaned out or I will take it into a shop to have it evaluated - does it have a blown head gasket? It doesn't act like it does. I have seen plenty of cars with blown head gaskets and they don't run well at all.
Start with the easy - and cheap - stuff first and go from there with it. I have no more long drives to go on at the moment, just getting to work and back and it's not overheating type of thing, it's just the temps are getting up there, much higher than that car normally operates at and I know cars: you don't deal with them, they will deal with you.
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I wrote all of that yesterday and just didn't finish. But no sense rewriting what already happened, so there it is. It's almost my bedtime and yes, I would love to have a few more days off. I have realized in the last 2 days that I am getting bored at work. Yes, I keep busy, but it's the same thing every day and we have been slow for quite a while now. I think it's the slow part that is getting me bored and the fact that I rarely get a longer run. I am kept in-town with a few out-of-town runs but nothing too far out of town. I am also realizing that this isn't my life's calling and that ministry is what gets me going.
I am also hating living in the desert. I like tall trees and streams/water. I don't want to live in a desert. I really don't like it here anymore.
Whatever. I need to get a plan and get with it.
Goodbye vacation.
Soon, goodbye to my son.
ben
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Friday, August 16, 2013
San Diego
Okay, finally getting a chance to write up an entry on the trip.
First, it was 5 hours there and 5 hours back. That's including stopping to eat and get fuel. Lol.
My sister-in-law wanted to drive but after seeing how slow she was going to go, I opted out of that. It would have turned into an 8 or 9 hour trip and I am allllllll about getting trips over with. Not that I wouldn't have minded being a passenger, but adding THAT much time to a trip like that was just not in my plans.
We arrived at the hotel and I was pleasantly surprised. The King's Inn San Diego is a very nice hotel for the price. Not a 4 star place, obviously, but FAR better than that hell-hole down the road - Motel 6 - and only a little more per night in terms of cost.
The rooms have central AC/heat, not those window units and there was a mini-fridge. 2 Queen beds, firm but comfortable mattresses, a couple of chairs and table. The bathroom was small but who cares. I mean, okay, I liked that bathroom at the Marriott I stayed at last year in North Phoenix, it was a treat unto itself, but this hotel for as low as $73 per night or even lower depending on when you book and if you do it online, is definitely a keeper. Our room had no front window, which didn't matter, because it would have "overlooked" the wall on the other side. We were at a part of the hotel where it curves. The window in the rear of the room was wonderful. Nothing fancy, but it was a hillside covered in vines and various landscaping.
I did not, however, sleep that well the first night. I have no clue, no explanation. We got on the boat that next morning and I took a motion-sickness pill - they don't work on me but I took one anyway - and expected that I would drink several beers, which worked last time to get rid of any motion sickness.
However. I know that's not a sentence, but it's going to have to do here. Sea-sickness started hitting me only 2 hours into the trip and I didn't want to drink beer at 8 am. It got worse, too, until the point that I couldn't DRINK or EAT = anything. I did not have a pleasant trip on the ocean. But no matter, neither did anyone else. The captain of the boat couldn't find a school of fish to save his life. He drove that boat for a solid 4 HOURS before stopping, claiming he had found some fish.
But we only stayed there 5 minutes and away we went. No-one caught anything. Second stop some 30 to 40 minutes later. Same thing, 1 person out of 51 pulled a fish in. Away we went. This went on all day long. I didn't drop a line in the water a single time, but Caleb was all over it every time we stopped. He tried to catch fish and he couldn't land a single one, but that because the captain simply wasn't finding them. In fact, most of the anglers caught nothing that day, I was on the ocean for 14 hours, 12 of them extremely seasick and I can only think of one other time when I was REALLY happy to get off a piece of machinery and onto solid ground - it was a flight for execs on a new turbo-prop - new back then anyway - about a 30 seater - I turned white as a sheet and I literally got out of that plane and kissed the ground when we landed.
Regardless, back to the motel, that has 2 pretty decent restaurants. Prices a bit stiff but what else is new at hotels and their prices on things. Not to mention California. I hadn't eaten since the evening before - there was no way I was going to eat anything on that boat, I would have just lost it all over the place.
Interesting thing, though, Caleb, on the 3 hour trip back to land after fishing, had his Bible out and a minister stopped to talked to him. They talked forever. I was too sick to even listen to what they were saying, much less attempt to join in the conversation. But after we got off the pier, we all stood in a circle and prayed. It was really cool, actually, and I was already starting to feel a bit better after being on dry land.
Oh, the restaurant: Fajitas. EXCELLENT. They were very good.
That night? I got into bed and yes, I slept 10 hours, only getting up to go to the bathroom.
Next morning. Seaworld. I had to think about that for a while. I ended up heading to the Waffle Spot restaurant and having a LOT of water - I was really dehydrated and didn't even realize it - and numerous cups of very good coffee, ordered Eggs Benedict. I decided that I would just get my mind into the idea that I am going to spend the entire day there and might as well enjoy, no matter how strung out I was from the previous day's - mal-adventure. Not saying I won't ever go seafishing again, but I guess if I'm going to go, I better start drinking beers the second my foot hits the deck of the boat. Tammy states emphatically the it's a proven fact that beer will stop sea-sickness.
So, we get to Sea World. Not familiar with the place at all, I just started walking and we found the first hing and went in and started looking. We went to ALL the shows - WELL worth the walking all over the place and the rather hurried pace when realizing the show was about to start and yes, they shut the gates and won't let anyone in after a show has started, with personnel standing there refusing entry. Fortunately, we made it in time for all the shows and all of them were funny, very-well orchestrated and the orca whales; seals and dolphins were so well-trained. It was amazing to watch them in action.
It was a very enjoyable day and we went to every attraction and every show there, sans the Mantra ride. I was NOT going to get on a roller coaster after what I had gone through the previous day, but I did tell Caleb he could go if he wanted to. No thanks. Lol. I'm here to say that Sea World San Diego is a class act and anyone going to San Diego, if you've never been, should add it to your itinerary.
The shark exhibit was awesome. You walk THROUGH the aquarium with solid plex-glass walls and rounded ceiling. The sharks are swimming beside and over you. We were quite impressed with a very large Sand Shark, I think it was, that was about 8 or 9 feet long. It was the biggest thing in that tank and it just slowly swam around in a somewhat huge circle. This was a massive aquarium.
I dunno, I had a great time and so did Caleb and my sister-in-law at SeaWorld. My sister-in-law did not go on the boat with us the previouis day, instead, she went on a whale-watching boat and she said she got sick as well -but throw up type of sick, like puking over the side of the ship. The swells in the sea that day were pretty large, I will attest to that and apparently even that large ship was getting knocked around, she estimated over half the people on the boat were throwing up off the side of the ship. It was so bad, they gave them all coupons for a free ride the next time they wanted to go.
Well, I won't be in San Diego again anytime soon for that. My vacation is over, my money for it is gone and moving on. Slept very well that night, too. Like about 9 hours of good, solid sleep, the likes of which have eluded me at home for quite a long time.
So it's over, we're home and I am cooking BBQ ribs and a ham for tomorrow's affair up in the mountains. Yup, the travelling ain't over, as we are going up to mom's property for a send-off for Caleb. Grandma needs to see her grandson before he leaves for a year. As expected, my middle brother isn't going to show up but my oldest brother and his wife will be there. It'll be good regardless, though I think it a bit of bulls*** that my middle brother isn't going to show up, considering he has had ample advance notice.
But that's him, we don't talk and life goes on.
Next? I am going to post a review on the hotel on here. It will end up showing up somewhere on a Google search for people looking for hotels in the Mission Valley area and I want people to know that if they are on a budget yet still looking for a decent hotel in that particular area, this IS the place to go.
Going to slow cook the ham - the only way I can cook the thing and actually take it up there in a cooker to keep it warm. I have heard slow cooked ham is quite good, I will be finding out soon enough. I will cut the ribs into three-rib sections and probably just have to micro-nuke them up there to heat them up. The ribs I want to take to give my mother a taste of them. I have not had anyone ever tell me my slow-cooked ribs are somehow less than good. Most people devour them like it's Porterhouse steak.
Although I am on vacation - and only 2 days left of it - it's been pretty busy.
Saw J.D. last night. I was up later than normal and came out to find him on the computer. We talked for quite a while. He was talking about the night when I had told George to turn the freaking surround sound down. He witnessed Mark and George getting into it, with George starting the altercation. J.D. was surprised at the time, he stated, because they were yelling at each other. I heard nothing. If I had, I would've been out here (here - my kitchen where my computer is also at) in a flash to deal with it. Probably just as well I didn't hear all of that, I was already fuming from the inconsiderate nature of a person to not take into any accounting how other people might feel about turning up the sound level on a system so loud, you can't even hear the TV in your OWN ROOM.
Enough. I have a lot to do today and not much sunlight left to do it. Mark took care of the dogs and watered the plants once = which is all I asked him to do, however, the ponds were WELL down in water levels. Between the plants using the water and evaporation in extreme heat, it doesn't take long for them to go down 8 to 10 inches or even more depending on how long you let them go without refilling.
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Long interlude. Filled up the ponds, turned on the landscaping drip system, ribs coming along nicely, ham back in refrigerator. All sites I read say it only needs 6 hours on low heat. Sort of a juke motion. Can't wait until I get there to put on the ham, it will be too late in the afternoon before it's done. But I can't keep cooking it, either. The answer?
Ummmmmmmmmmm........................
I usually wake up at 4:30 am. I can put the thing on until we leave, turn it off, transport it up there, turn it back on for however long it needs and it will be done. I am not even going to put it IN the cooker tonight.
First, it was 5 hours there and 5 hours back. That's including stopping to eat and get fuel. Lol.
My sister-in-law wanted to drive but after seeing how slow she was going to go, I opted out of that. It would have turned into an 8 or 9 hour trip and I am allllllll about getting trips over with. Not that I wouldn't have minded being a passenger, but adding THAT much time to a trip like that was just not in my plans.
We arrived at the hotel and I was pleasantly surprised. The King's Inn San Diego is a very nice hotel for the price. Not a 4 star place, obviously, but FAR better than that hell-hole down the road - Motel 6 - and only a little more per night in terms of cost.
The rooms have central AC/heat, not those window units and there was a mini-fridge. 2 Queen beds, firm but comfortable mattresses, a couple of chairs and table. The bathroom was small but who cares. I mean, okay, I liked that bathroom at the Marriott I stayed at last year in North Phoenix, it was a treat unto itself, but this hotel for as low as $73 per night or even lower depending on when you book and if you do it online, is definitely a keeper. Our room had no front window, which didn't matter, because it would have "overlooked" the wall on the other side. We were at a part of the hotel where it curves. The window in the rear of the room was wonderful. Nothing fancy, but it was a hillside covered in vines and various landscaping.
I did not, however, sleep that well the first night. I have no clue, no explanation. We got on the boat that next morning and I took a motion-sickness pill - they don't work on me but I took one anyway - and expected that I would drink several beers, which worked last time to get rid of any motion sickness.
However. I know that's not a sentence, but it's going to have to do here. Sea-sickness started hitting me only 2 hours into the trip and I didn't want to drink beer at 8 am. It got worse, too, until the point that I couldn't DRINK or EAT = anything. I did not have a pleasant trip on the ocean. But no matter, neither did anyone else. The captain of the boat couldn't find a school of fish to save his life. He drove that boat for a solid 4 HOURS before stopping, claiming he had found some fish.
But we only stayed there 5 minutes and away we went. No-one caught anything. Second stop some 30 to 40 minutes later. Same thing, 1 person out of 51 pulled a fish in. Away we went. This went on all day long. I didn't drop a line in the water a single time, but Caleb was all over it every time we stopped. He tried to catch fish and he couldn't land a single one, but that because the captain simply wasn't finding them. In fact, most of the anglers caught nothing that day, I was on the ocean for 14 hours, 12 of them extremely seasick and I can only think of one other time when I was REALLY happy to get off a piece of machinery and onto solid ground - it was a flight for execs on a new turbo-prop - new back then anyway - about a 30 seater - I turned white as a sheet and I literally got out of that plane and kissed the ground when we landed.
Regardless, back to the motel, that has 2 pretty decent restaurants. Prices a bit stiff but what else is new at hotels and their prices on things. Not to mention California. I hadn't eaten since the evening before - there was no way I was going to eat anything on that boat, I would have just lost it all over the place.
Interesting thing, though, Caleb, on the 3 hour trip back to land after fishing, had his Bible out and a minister stopped to talked to him. They talked forever. I was too sick to even listen to what they were saying, much less attempt to join in the conversation. But after we got off the pier, we all stood in a circle and prayed. It was really cool, actually, and I was already starting to feel a bit better after being on dry land.
Oh, the restaurant: Fajitas. EXCELLENT. They were very good.
That night? I got into bed and yes, I slept 10 hours, only getting up to go to the bathroom.
Next morning. Seaworld. I had to think about that for a while. I ended up heading to the Waffle Spot restaurant and having a LOT of water - I was really dehydrated and didn't even realize it - and numerous cups of very good coffee, ordered Eggs Benedict. I decided that I would just get my mind into the idea that I am going to spend the entire day there and might as well enjoy, no matter how strung out I was from the previous day's - mal-adventure. Not saying I won't ever go seafishing again, but I guess if I'm going to go, I better start drinking beers the second my foot hits the deck of the boat. Tammy states emphatically the it's a proven fact that beer will stop sea-sickness.
So, we get to Sea World. Not familiar with the place at all, I just started walking and we found the first hing and went in and started looking. We went to ALL the shows - WELL worth the walking all over the place and the rather hurried pace when realizing the show was about to start and yes, they shut the gates and won't let anyone in after a show has started, with personnel standing there refusing entry. Fortunately, we made it in time for all the shows and all of them were funny, very-well orchestrated and the orca whales; seals and dolphins were so well-trained. It was amazing to watch them in action.
It was a very enjoyable day and we went to every attraction and every show there, sans the Mantra ride. I was NOT going to get on a roller coaster after what I had gone through the previous day, but I did tell Caleb he could go if he wanted to. No thanks. Lol. I'm here to say that Sea World San Diego is a class act and anyone going to San Diego, if you've never been, should add it to your itinerary.
The shark exhibit was awesome. You walk THROUGH the aquarium with solid plex-glass walls and rounded ceiling. The sharks are swimming beside and over you. We were quite impressed with a very large Sand Shark, I think it was, that was about 8 or 9 feet long. It was the biggest thing in that tank and it just slowly swam around in a somewhat huge circle. This was a massive aquarium.
I dunno, I had a great time and so did Caleb and my sister-in-law at SeaWorld. My sister-in-law did not go on the boat with us the previouis day, instead, she went on a whale-watching boat and she said she got sick as well -but throw up type of sick, like puking over the side of the ship. The swells in the sea that day were pretty large, I will attest to that and apparently even that large ship was getting knocked around, she estimated over half the people on the boat were throwing up off the side of the ship. It was so bad, they gave them all coupons for a free ride the next time they wanted to go.
Well, I won't be in San Diego again anytime soon for that. My vacation is over, my money for it is gone and moving on. Slept very well that night, too. Like about 9 hours of good, solid sleep, the likes of which have eluded me at home for quite a long time.
So it's over, we're home and I am cooking BBQ ribs and a ham for tomorrow's affair up in the mountains. Yup, the travelling ain't over, as we are going up to mom's property for a send-off for Caleb. Grandma needs to see her grandson before he leaves for a year. As expected, my middle brother isn't going to show up but my oldest brother and his wife will be there. It'll be good regardless, though I think it a bit of bulls*** that my middle brother isn't going to show up, considering he has had ample advance notice.
But that's him, we don't talk and life goes on.
Next? I am going to post a review on the hotel on here. It will end up showing up somewhere on a Google search for people looking for hotels in the Mission Valley area and I want people to know that if they are on a budget yet still looking for a decent hotel in that particular area, this IS the place to go.
Going to slow cook the ham - the only way I can cook the thing and actually take it up there in a cooker to keep it warm. I have heard slow cooked ham is quite good, I will be finding out soon enough. I will cut the ribs into three-rib sections and probably just have to micro-nuke them up there to heat them up. The ribs I want to take to give my mother a taste of them. I have not had anyone ever tell me my slow-cooked ribs are somehow less than good. Most people devour them like it's Porterhouse steak.
Although I am on vacation - and only 2 days left of it - it's been pretty busy.
Saw J.D. last night. I was up later than normal and came out to find him on the computer. We talked for quite a while. He was talking about the night when I had told George to turn the freaking surround sound down. He witnessed Mark and George getting into it, with George starting the altercation. J.D. was surprised at the time, he stated, because they were yelling at each other. I heard nothing. If I had, I would've been out here (here - my kitchen where my computer is also at) in a flash to deal with it. Probably just as well I didn't hear all of that, I was already fuming from the inconsiderate nature of a person to not take into any accounting how other people might feel about turning up the sound level on a system so loud, you can't even hear the TV in your OWN ROOM.
Enough. I have a lot to do today and not much sunlight left to do it. Mark took care of the dogs and watered the plants once = which is all I asked him to do, however, the ponds were WELL down in water levels. Between the plants using the water and evaporation in extreme heat, it doesn't take long for them to go down 8 to 10 inches or even more depending on how long you let them go without refilling.
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Long interlude. Filled up the ponds, turned on the landscaping drip system, ribs coming along nicely, ham back in refrigerator. All sites I read say it only needs 6 hours on low heat. Sort of a juke motion. Can't wait until I get there to put on the ham, it will be too late in the afternoon before it's done. But I can't keep cooking it, either. The answer?
Ummmmmmmmmmm........................
I usually wake up at 4:30 am. I can put the thing on until we leave, turn it off, transport it up there, turn it back on for however long it needs and it will be done. I am not even going to put it IN the cooker tonight.
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Well, the idea that there is now another night's worth of stay at the hotel brings up an interesting prospect. Shall we therefore do something that day, at least into early afternoon, before departing for home?
I was not asked about this, Caleb doesn't know neither does he care - he'll stay as long or short as we are staying - and I am just pondering. A day at the beach? Wade out into the ocean and enjoy something I haven't done in decades? I dunno. I wonder what the water temp is like. I get cold easily in water if it's too cold and I have found Pacific waters to be some pretty cold stuff.
We'll cross the bridge when we get there. Caleb will be a go for it - I don't even have to ponder that. Me? Dunno. My sister-in-law? Probably. Should I bring it up? Only when that morning arrives and if I feel like it. I'm guessing a full day on the ocean and a full day at Seaworld is going to do me in, but then again, I have spent plenty of time on beaches laying on a sheet and sleeping with the sound of the surf tantalizing me and intriguing my imagination and generally causing me to feel very much at peace.
I just talked myself into. I didn't remember that aspect of it until I just wrote that out. I don't have to DO anything on the beach! I can just lay back and sleep! As long as the temp is good, well now then, we have a completely different scenario.
Okay, MOST of my beach-sleeping experiences have been wonderful. No, no-one has ever kicked sand in my face because if anyone did that, I would consider that an assault and I don't care HOW big that person is, I am going to "defend" myself. I'm talking about the time when I was laying on the beach, a sheet under me and folded over top of me, sleeping away, when the sound of something strange hit my ears and slowly woke me up.
WHAT - is - THAT - SOUND?!!! It was not natural and having had been asleep - and never exposed to the kind of sound before - well it took a minute or two - maybe it took longer and I just don't remember. I didn't look over, which is what probably would have gotten me to figure it out sooner, until my curiosity piqued. Eventually, I was awake and yes, I did look over to see what was obviously 2 people going at it - sex - and then realized it was 2 guys.
I won't go into this further, as I was not happy about the situation, but whatever. They didn't stay there forever, thankfully and then I was left to myself. Why they had to choose THAT spot to do it, so close to me, I don't know. They could have moved WELL down the beach, away from everyone if they are going to engage in such behavior in public. Sheets be damned, that doesn't mute the sounds and certainly, GET A ROOM!
Regardless, I am now reminding myself to take a sheet with me on this trip. If we do go to the beach, they can go in the water as long as they want - my son is a seal in disguise, he can stay in the water all day long and love every minute of it - I will do my thing and we can all be happy. Which is not to say I won't get into the water, but again: Pacific water is MUCH colder than Atlantic water. I have been in both dozens of times over, I can say that with authority.
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That was yesterday. I don't always post entries the same day I write them. In fact, I have a large number of them that have never been posted and never will be. Regardless, started this day - Saturday - out with a bang. Here, there, over there, back there, down there - all over the place getting things done for the trip. Walmart; hair cut; remove everything from the car and then the carwash and vacuum it all out and then Armor-All all of; the bank to deposit a tenant check and get quarter wraps.
And then? Applebee's. I go there about once a month. They have good food and there is a waitress that I connect with on some level.
After that, home and cleaning out a pond filter, a couple loads of laundry and cleaning my bathroom? Time for a nap. I'm on vacation, lol. 2 hours of that and then off to the airport to pick Caleb up. Home and I've had enough for one day. Well, I had thoughts of wrapping up more quarters, but have decided to dump that one on my son. He can count out 40 quarters per wrap 13 times over and then I will take them to the bank.
That's it, besides numerous phone calls from my sister-in-law who hinted at changes to the schedule and which I determined were not in any interest that I had, at all and therefore just stated this is the way it's going to be. People do vacations differently, that's fine, but she was no factor in this equation until this week when she stated she wanted to come. Great, but it's my show, not to sound egotistical or otherwise - whatever adjective you'd like to insert - this is time to spend with my son. I don't think she will be an intrusion on that, I just don't want to change the schedule excepting that since we are now staying another night, I figured we might as well go spend a half day at the beach and then drive home.
Whatever the case, my change I have saved up should be more than sufficient for eating money - but who knows, lol.
Well, off to other parts of the internet - namely - to pay some bills online.
G'day/nite.
ben
I was not asked about this, Caleb doesn't know neither does he care - he'll stay as long or short as we are staying - and I am just pondering. A day at the beach? Wade out into the ocean and enjoy something I haven't done in decades? I dunno. I wonder what the water temp is like. I get cold easily in water if it's too cold and I have found Pacific waters to be some pretty cold stuff.
We'll cross the bridge when we get there. Caleb will be a go for it - I don't even have to ponder that. Me? Dunno. My sister-in-law? Probably. Should I bring it up? Only when that morning arrives and if I feel like it. I'm guessing a full day on the ocean and a full day at Seaworld is going to do me in, but then again, I have spent plenty of time on beaches laying on a sheet and sleeping with the sound of the surf tantalizing me and intriguing my imagination and generally causing me to feel very much at peace.
I just talked myself into. I didn't remember that aspect of it until I just wrote that out. I don't have to DO anything on the beach! I can just lay back and sleep! As long as the temp is good, well now then, we have a completely different scenario.
Okay, MOST of my beach-sleeping experiences have been wonderful. No, no-one has ever kicked sand in my face because if anyone did that, I would consider that an assault and I don't care HOW big that person is, I am going to "defend" myself. I'm talking about the time when I was laying on the beach, a sheet under me and folded over top of me, sleeping away, when the sound of something strange hit my ears and slowly woke me up.
WHAT - is - THAT - SOUND?!!! It was not natural and having had been asleep - and never exposed to the kind of sound before - well it took a minute or two - maybe it took longer and I just don't remember. I didn't look over, which is what probably would have gotten me to figure it out sooner, until my curiosity piqued. Eventually, I was awake and yes, I did look over to see what was obviously 2 people going at it - sex - and then realized it was 2 guys.
I won't go into this further, as I was not happy about the situation, but whatever. They didn't stay there forever, thankfully and then I was left to myself. Why they had to choose THAT spot to do it, so close to me, I don't know. They could have moved WELL down the beach, away from everyone if they are going to engage in such behavior in public. Sheets be damned, that doesn't mute the sounds and certainly, GET A ROOM!
Regardless, I am now reminding myself to take a sheet with me on this trip. If we do go to the beach, they can go in the water as long as they want - my son is a seal in disguise, he can stay in the water all day long and love every minute of it - I will do my thing and we can all be happy. Which is not to say I won't get into the water, but again: Pacific water is MUCH colder than Atlantic water. I have been in both dozens of times over, I can say that with authority.
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That was yesterday. I don't always post entries the same day I write them. In fact, I have a large number of them that have never been posted and never will be. Regardless, started this day - Saturday - out with a bang. Here, there, over there, back there, down there - all over the place getting things done for the trip. Walmart; hair cut; remove everything from the car and then the carwash and vacuum it all out and then Armor-All all of; the bank to deposit a tenant check and get quarter wraps.
And then? Applebee's. I go there about once a month. They have good food and there is a waitress that I connect with on some level.
After that, home and cleaning out a pond filter, a couple loads of laundry and cleaning my bathroom? Time for a nap. I'm on vacation, lol. 2 hours of that and then off to the airport to pick Caleb up. Home and I've had enough for one day. Well, I had thoughts of wrapping up more quarters, but have decided to dump that one on my son. He can count out 40 quarters per wrap 13 times over and then I will take them to the bank.
That's it, besides numerous phone calls from my sister-in-law who hinted at changes to the schedule and which I determined were not in any interest that I had, at all and therefore just stated this is the way it's going to be. People do vacations differently, that's fine, but she was no factor in this equation until this week when she stated she wanted to come. Great, but it's my show, not to sound egotistical or otherwise - whatever adjective you'd like to insert - this is time to spend with my son. I don't think she will be an intrusion on that, I just don't want to change the schedule excepting that since we are now staying another night, I figured we might as well go spend a half day at the beach and then drive home.
Whatever the case, my change I have saved up should be more than sufficient for eating money - but who knows, lol.
Well, off to other parts of the internet - namely - to pay some bills online.
G'day/nite.
ben
Friday, August 9, 2013
Well. I went to Concentra this morning - industrial medicine type of place - to get my medical card renewed.
Nothing of great interest - a long wait as it always is - but when the put that machine operated blood pressure tester around my arm and the thing came up with the results, well it was shocking. Showed my blood pressure at 157 over 94!! YIKES! I tell this nurse no freaking way. My blood pressure is definitely NOT that high!
Well, she says, we'll wait 20 minutes after you have calmed down a little and see
what it's at. They have terminology for it now, I think the nurse called it White Suit Syndrome or some junk like that. Where it's now a proven fact that your blood pressure goes up when you come into a doctor's office.
I think it's those machines giving bad readings.
Well whatever. Vision test, pee in the cup, all that wonderful stuff though they spared me the hernia test and I certainly wasn't going to ask them for it and then finally the doc comes in. How's it going, brother? Older gentleman, but very cool. I get my blood pressure checked again: 112 over 82. Okay, the bottom number still a bit high, but the top number at least was reading normal for me. Thank you God!!
Done deal, another 2 years of certification, paid for by my company thank-you-very-much.
I get back to the yard to hear about the 23-year old wonder that works at our place. He came into work - late - he still hadn't arrived by the time I left - and then, according to my manager, came in, got on the computer, did nothing, then went outside and got on the phone with a personal call for half an hour. My manager shipped him downtown for the day, the manager down there needed him for something. Apparently, they are going to try him out in another division and see how he works out there, cause honey, he ain't worth a s*** at our place.
Well whatever. Friday is here. I'm sitting in a huge recycling yard, waiting for them to unload the semi. Last thing I think I will have to do today at work before leaving early. I have OT and the company isn't giving out OT right now - though I completely understand, numbers are WAY down across the board at all branches in the southwest region.
I do hope business picks back up eventually, I do miss the extra dough on my paychecks.
Meanwhile, my sister-in-law decided she was going to get a third night for San Diego. I was contemplating whether to do that or not. Seaworld stays open until 10:00 at night, I don't really think I'm going to want to drive home after that. In fact, I am quite sure I won't want to. The hotel brought it's prices down 10 bucks per night, wish I would have known that was going to happen or I would have waited - but at the same time, I probably wouldn't have wanted to take the chance even if I had known. So I am going to go ahead and get a third night as well.
Well whatever. Weekend almost here and I am going to spend it getting junk done around the house, thoroughly cleaning out the car and just reminded myself to get an oil change on it before we leave, not to mention a nice hair cut help as well.
As for now? I need to get offa here, they are almost done unloading the truck.
ben
Nothing of great interest - a long wait as it always is - but when the put that machine operated blood pressure tester around my arm and the thing came up with the results, well it was shocking. Showed my blood pressure at 157 over 94!! YIKES! I tell this nurse no freaking way. My blood pressure is definitely NOT that high!
Well, she says, we'll wait 20 minutes after you have calmed down a little and see
what it's at. They have terminology for it now, I think the nurse called it White Suit Syndrome or some junk like that. Where it's now a proven fact that your blood pressure goes up when you come into a doctor's office.
I think it's those machines giving bad readings.
Well whatever. Vision test, pee in the cup, all that wonderful stuff though they spared me the hernia test and I certainly wasn't going to ask them for it and then finally the doc comes in. How's it going, brother? Older gentleman, but very cool. I get my blood pressure checked again: 112 over 82. Okay, the bottom number still a bit high, but the top number at least was reading normal for me. Thank you God!!
Done deal, another 2 years of certification, paid for by my company thank-you-very-much.
I get back to the yard to hear about the 23-year old wonder that works at our place. He came into work - late - he still hadn't arrived by the time I left - and then, according to my manager, came in, got on the computer, did nothing, then went outside and got on the phone with a personal call for half an hour. My manager shipped him downtown for the day, the manager down there needed him for something. Apparently, they are going to try him out in another division and see how he works out there, cause honey, he ain't worth a s*** at our place.
Well whatever. Friday is here. I'm sitting in a huge recycling yard, waiting for them to unload the semi. Last thing I think I will have to do today at work before leaving early. I have OT and the company isn't giving out OT right now - though I completely understand, numbers are WAY down across the board at all branches in the southwest region.
I do hope business picks back up eventually, I do miss the extra dough on my paychecks.
Meanwhile, my sister-in-law decided she was going to get a third night for San Diego. I was contemplating whether to do that or not. Seaworld stays open until 10:00 at night, I don't really think I'm going to want to drive home after that. In fact, I am quite sure I won't want to. The hotel brought it's prices down 10 bucks per night, wish I would have known that was going to happen or I would have waited - but at the same time, I probably wouldn't have wanted to take the chance even if I had known. So I am going to go ahead and get a third night as well.
Well whatever. Weekend almost here and I am going to spend it getting junk done around the house, thoroughly cleaning out the car and just reminded myself to get an oil change on it before we leave, not to mention a nice hair cut help as well.
As for now? I need to get offa here, they are almost done unloading the truck.
ben
Thursday, August 8, 2013
So I'm going to a jobsite today. I go to the intersection, listed as in Phoenix, where the jobsite is supposed to be at. 1st Street & Roosevelt. I am there, no construction. I call the foreman. Oh, I come get you. He calls back, where are you? I'm at 1st Street & Roosevelt. Well how can you not see the construction going on? There is NO construction going on here. The man falls just short of calling me an idiot for not being able to see the construction going on, I must be at the wrong place.
NO, I am NOT. If he had actually insulted me, I would have hung up on him and called my manager. I will not tolerate extreme insults from contractors, I don't care if they ARE our customers.
Where are you at now? he asks. I just crossed Central avenue, heading west on Roosevelt, looking for this alleged jobsite. Central? He replies. 2 and 2 finally equals 4 in his mind. What city are you in? Phoenix, I reply, just as the paperwork tells me. We are in Tempe.
I get to the jobsite. The entrance? I could drive the truck in there, but I wouldn't make it very far and I would have to back out of it. Not a problem, but I call the dude anyway. Is THIS where you want the pipe?!! Yes, he states, but instead of coming through that entrance, come around the one off of Rio Salado. The Rio Salado entrance? This is insanity. There isn't any room for trucks in there! He waves at me to pull in, so I do. I can always back out the same way I came in. He wants the pipe rolled off at a certain location - blocking EVERYTHING that is trying to move in there.
And it takes a while to get the pipe off of there and roll up the straps. Meanwhile, a barrage of cement trucks are backed up, waiting for me to move out of the way. Some of them get out of there trucks, staring at me. I could care less. I have been held up SO - MANY - times by cement truck drivers who refuse to move out of the way, even if they aren't pouring cement. Many of them are just plain jerkoffs with serious attitudes. I rarely get the opportunity to hold them up and when I do? I still do my job and get out of the way as quickly as possible, but in this case, it took a while.
Well whatever. Later on, Susan calls me - my sister-in-law. I was driving the semi, I took the call on the hands-free device, but that thing is a total piece of junk. Management knows it is but they won't replace it. Not my problem. You can't understand anything anyone is saying most of the time if you are driving. If you are stopped at a light sure, but trucks make noise and it interferes with this kind of hands-free device.
I finally get to call her back - after another near-impossible job-site delivery, won't go into it, just take too long, but she was asking me a lot of questions about the trip. She got a ticket to Seaworld that has a second day for free. I don't have those tickets, mine are just good for one day. She was obviously wondering about us staying a 3rd day to go to Seaworld, but I don't have that kind of money. Entrance tickets are not cheap and there isn't time to win another Ebay auction and get them here in time. Not to mention another night at a hotel. Talking almost another $300 which I simply cannot afford. If I had a wife with a job or if I simply had a higher paying job, yes, but it's just not in the cards at least not from any resources I have. God, on the other hand, has supplied for me in ways that were unfathomable in the past - through people of course - but still, I recognized it as the move of God. So who knows. Maybe $300 will sprout out of nowhere and we can do the third day, lol.
But I'm hardly feeling sorry for myself. We are going to have a great time, the time spent with my son will be worth whatever it costs and I am going to miss him dearly. He is coming back from CA on Saturday.
Well anyway. I haven't been sleeping well and I don't really feel all the great. Lack of exercise, at least any type of exercise that is continuous and goes on for at least 30 minutes, so today, after work, I went to one of the entrances to South Mountain Park, parked my car in the parking lot, grabbed my water bottle and off I went. At first I was surprised no other cars in that lot - it always has cars parked there with hikers or bikers going up the trails. Took me a few seconds to remember that it is an afternoon, it's August, it's hot and most people aren't going to be hiking in this kind of temps.
This is nothing that has ever deterred me. Don't over-do it, keep hydrated and know your limits. If you don't know your limits, keep it short and pay attention to what your body is telling you. Heat can be a killer - frequently is for people going up on these mountain trails. There were several signs at the trail-head with heat advisories. I ignored them. I have been doing this since I was 10 years old, I am not immune to the effects of heat, but rather, I understand how to deal with it effectively.
One thing I do before I go on such treks is start drinking a LOT of water LONG before I even leave the house - or today - work - to get there. When hiking, you continue to drink water regardless if you don't feel thirsty - I was sweating heavily but not thirsty simply because of all the water I drank earlier - but this isn't good enough. The desert catches up to people who either don't know or just don't think about what they are doing out there.
So anyway, I was distracted. Shortly after I pulled into that parking lot and headed out on the trail, another car came in and parked right next to mine. I had my cellphone, call the police if I must if something happens. I watched them all the way up the various grades of mountain trail and got off the trail to come back down to be able to continue to watch them. No idea. They were still there when I got back - drinking 40 ounce bottles of - whatever that skank beer crap is called.
The reason I was distracted is that I had got out of my car, with my computer and my gun in the computer bag and placed it in the trunk. I wondered if they had seen me doing that and if they were thieves.
I need a holster. I don't much care for going up into those mountains without protection. There are lots of wild animals up there and I have seen them eyeing me in the past, just standing in the distance. There are also some pretty scary looking people up there. There are homeless people living in some small caves. I just think it prudent to have protection with me. But I have been hiking in the mountains for decades - though I have had several scary interactions and a couple situations I thought I might up dead or at least injured. One with an angry moma javelina and another time with a Mountain Lion that was stalking me.
I stopped at the right time. When I got home, I could feel it. To stay out any longer in that heat would have had some consequences.
Friday's a coming. That would be tomorrow.
G'nite.
ben
NO, I am NOT. If he had actually insulted me, I would have hung up on him and called my manager. I will not tolerate extreme insults from contractors, I don't care if they ARE our customers.
Where are you at now? he asks. I just crossed Central avenue, heading west on Roosevelt, looking for this alleged jobsite. Central? He replies. 2 and 2 finally equals 4 in his mind. What city are you in? Phoenix, I reply, just as the paperwork tells me. We are in Tempe.
I get to the jobsite. The entrance? I could drive the truck in there, but I wouldn't make it very far and I would have to back out of it. Not a problem, but I call the dude anyway. Is THIS where you want the pipe?!! Yes, he states, but instead of coming through that entrance, come around the one off of Rio Salado. The Rio Salado entrance? This is insanity. There isn't any room for trucks in there! He waves at me to pull in, so I do. I can always back out the same way I came in. He wants the pipe rolled off at a certain location - blocking EVERYTHING that is trying to move in there.
And it takes a while to get the pipe off of there and roll up the straps. Meanwhile, a barrage of cement trucks are backed up, waiting for me to move out of the way. Some of them get out of there trucks, staring at me. I could care less. I have been held up SO - MANY - times by cement truck drivers who refuse to move out of the way, even if they aren't pouring cement. Many of them are just plain jerkoffs with serious attitudes. I rarely get the opportunity to hold them up and when I do? I still do my job and get out of the way as quickly as possible, but in this case, it took a while.
Well whatever. Later on, Susan calls me - my sister-in-law. I was driving the semi, I took the call on the hands-free device, but that thing is a total piece of junk. Management knows it is but they won't replace it. Not my problem. You can't understand anything anyone is saying most of the time if you are driving. If you are stopped at a light sure, but trucks make noise and it interferes with this kind of hands-free device.
I finally get to call her back - after another near-impossible job-site delivery, won't go into it, just take too long, but she was asking me a lot of questions about the trip. She got a ticket to Seaworld that has a second day for free. I don't have those tickets, mine are just good for one day. She was obviously wondering about us staying a 3rd day to go to Seaworld, but I don't have that kind of money. Entrance tickets are not cheap and there isn't time to win another Ebay auction and get them here in time. Not to mention another night at a hotel. Talking almost another $300 which I simply cannot afford. If I had a wife with a job or if I simply had a higher paying job, yes, but it's just not in the cards at least not from any resources I have. God, on the other hand, has supplied for me in ways that were unfathomable in the past - through people of course - but still, I recognized it as the move of God. So who knows. Maybe $300 will sprout out of nowhere and we can do the third day, lol.
But I'm hardly feeling sorry for myself. We are going to have a great time, the time spent with my son will be worth whatever it costs and I am going to miss him dearly. He is coming back from CA on Saturday.
Well anyway. I haven't been sleeping well and I don't really feel all the great. Lack of exercise, at least any type of exercise that is continuous and goes on for at least 30 minutes, so today, after work, I went to one of the entrances to South Mountain Park, parked my car in the parking lot, grabbed my water bottle and off I went. At first I was surprised no other cars in that lot - it always has cars parked there with hikers or bikers going up the trails. Took me a few seconds to remember that it is an afternoon, it's August, it's hot and most people aren't going to be hiking in this kind of temps.
This is nothing that has ever deterred me. Don't over-do it, keep hydrated and know your limits. If you don't know your limits, keep it short and pay attention to what your body is telling you. Heat can be a killer - frequently is for people going up on these mountain trails. There were several signs at the trail-head with heat advisories. I ignored them. I have been doing this since I was 10 years old, I am not immune to the effects of heat, but rather, I understand how to deal with it effectively.
One thing I do before I go on such treks is start drinking a LOT of water LONG before I even leave the house - or today - work - to get there. When hiking, you continue to drink water regardless if you don't feel thirsty - I was sweating heavily but not thirsty simply because of all the water I drank earlier - but this isn't good enough. The desert catches up to people who either don't know or just don't think about what they are doing out there.
So anyway, I was distracted. Shortly after I pulled into that parking lot and headed out on the trail, another car came in and parked right next to mine. I had my cellphone, call the police if I must if something happens. I watched them all the way up the various grades of mountain trail and got off the trail to come back down to be able to continue to watch them. No idea. They were still there when I got back - drinking 40 ounce bottles of - whatever that skank beer crap is called.
The reason I was distracted is that I had got out of my car, with my computer and my gun in the computer bag and placed it in the trunk. I wondered if they had seen me doing that and if they were thieves.
I need a holster. I don't much care for going up into those mountains without protection. There are lots of wild animals up there and I have seen them eyeing me in the past, just standing in the distance. There are also some pretty scary looking people up there. There are homeless people living in some small caves. I just think it prudent to have protection with me. But I have been hiking in the mountains for decades - though I have had several scary interactions and a couple situations I thought I might up dead or at least injured. One with an angry moma javelina and another time with a Mountain Lion that was stalking me.
I stopped at the right time. When I got home, I could feel it. To stay out any longer in that heat would have had some consequences.
Friday's a coming. That would be tomorrow.
G'nite.
ben
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
The 23 year old employee at our branch.
Why do I keep harping on this? Because it IRRITATES me.
This guy showed up yesterday at 4 am to go with a salesman to a jobsite who told him to bet there at 5 am.
What's the big deal? The deal is that he doesn't DO anything for the hour he is there, excepting to get on the internet and read the BBC. He should not have shown up an hour early to LEAVE.
But I wasn't there yesterday that early to confirm that, today, I WAS.
I drove into the parking lot behind a customer who was also pulling in at 6am.
I saw the 23 yo - kid's - car in the parking lot but assumed he had left with the salesman again.
Instead, I try opening the door with my key and its already opened. I walk inside, the place is completely dark. He springs up out of nowhere -the kid that is. Really weird.
I write up the customer's order before I do much of anything else and he goes out and gets the part - just one fitting.
He then proceeds to disappear. I don't have time for this s***. I look at the door to the warehouse bathroom, light on. This is one of his hiding places. He stayed in there 20 minutes and then came out and wrapped up a pallet - a 3 minute job - and then disappeared again. Meanwhile, I am working my @$$ off pulling and loading pipe, pallets, hydrants and everything else plus strapping down the load.
At some point, I had to go check. Unbeknownst to him, I: can look through a warehouse window, through a crack in the door inside the room that it shows into and see him. Yup, he was sitting there, screwing off on the internet again. I just got so mad, but I decided to not vent on him, I would just report it to my manager. He sits in there another 20 minutes doing nothing, getting paid for it all the while there is plenty of work to do.
FREAK.
But, we complained yet again to the Operations Manager today about this guy and everything he - doesn't do - in terms of work - and everything he does do in terms of hiding and many times not even hiding, just sitting in plain view, screwing off. Like he is immune. My manager asked him how to turn off the internet to the computer he uses - done deal. No more BBC and all the rest of it on that computer. If I find him on my computer, I am going to lock it down, but my computer is on the counter directly in front of the manager's office with a huge window.
My manager is asking me why I am not telling him to get to work. This is not in the purview of my job function, I am not his manager. I can ask him to do stuff, but telling him to get off his @$$ and get to work is simply not a co-worker's
Onto other things, such as the guy that called in to work today to complain about me. Another driver on the road.
I was in Queen Creek - small town in the boonies - and was coming up on a lane reduction - right lane ends, merge left. I have been down this road countless times, I get into the left lane long before you can even see this merger. I pass a guy in a Ford pickup with Florida license plates. Leave him well behind, only to get to a light, but I only had to slow down for traffic in front of me - note that everyone else had also gotten into the left lane because shortly after you pass through that intersection, that right lane ends.
You can see that that lane ends from at least a quarter mile. There are the huge yellow signs that tell you to MERGE left. This guy that I had passed and was going considerably slower than me? Comes FLYING up beside me - but his lane had run out. He was either going to drive off into the desert - slamming into trees and shrubs or crash into my truck, which would have done him no good, he still would have ended up in the desert. I honked at him, slammed on my brakes to let him in though in reality, he shouldn't have even BEEN there, my anti-lock brakes going crazy. I did the ethical and morally right thing: just shut it down even though I didn't HAVE to. HE - KNEW - that lane was ending. But this is the way people treat trucks and it's drivers. After that happened, he put his arm out the window and flipped me off!
I'm stuck behind this guy for 2 miles because there is only one lane now. Once the road stretches out to 3 lanes, he pulls over and then proceeds to write down my license plate number. What a total, complete moron. He almost causes an accident, flips me off and then has the gall to call my work and complain to the Operations Manager about ME. I HATE the way the motoring public treats truck drivers. I WISH we would all just shut down our trucks for a week and then the appreciation for our job would flow oh so nicely.
I put off buying that dash-camera, but no longer. After my vacation and all expenses paid, I will look to see what I have left and hopefully be able to buy a dashcam for the truck. I don't care how expensive it is, though I think I can get one for about $50. I want it to have enough memory on it, though to be able to record an entire day's worth of driving. So maybe more expensive. I told the Ops manager that I was going to put an end to this nonsense - people calling in about us drivers - at least for me and get that thing and mount it to the dashboard.
And so it will be.
Next. My tickets I won on Ebay for Seaworld showed up today : ) Should be a hoot! That's it. That's all I was waiting for. I just need to get some quarter rolls from the bank, roll them up and get that cash. The rest is just preparing the car and getting my stuff ready to go. I will be doing that this weekend.
Enough.
ben
Why do I keep harping on this? Because it IRRITATES me.
This guy showed up yesterday at 4 am to go with a salesman to a jobsite who told him to bet there at 5 am.
What's the big deal? The deal is that he doesn't DO anything for the hour he is there, excepting to get on the internet and read the BBC. He should not have shown up an hour early to LEAVE.
But I wasn't there yesterday that early to confirm that, today, I WAS.
I drove into the parking lot behind a customer who was also pulling in at 6am.
I saw the 23 yo - kid's - car in the parking lot but assumed he had left with the salesman again.
Instead, I try opening the door with my key and its already opened. I walk inside, the place is completely dark. He springs up out of nowhere -the kid that is. Really weird.
I write up the customer's order before I do much of anything else and he goes out and gets the part - just one fitting.
He then proceeds to disappear. I don't have time for this s***. I look at the door to the warehouse bathroom, light on. This is one of his hiding places. He stayed in there 20 minutes and then came out and wrapped up a pallet - a 3 minute job - and then disappeared again. Meanwhile, I am working my @$$ off pulling and loading pipe, pallets, hydrants and everything else plus strapping down the load.
At some point, I had to go check. Unbeknownst to him, I: can look through a warehouse window, through a crack in the door inside the room that it shows into and see him. Yup, he was sitting there, screwing off on the internet again. I just got so mad, but I decided to not vent on him, I would just report it to my manager. He sits in there another 20 minutes doing nothing, getting paid for it all the while there is plenty of work to do.
FREAK.
But, we complained yet again to the Operations Manager today about this guy and everything he - doesn't do - in terms of work - and everything he does do in terms of hiding and many times not even hiding, just sitting in plain view, screwing off. Like he is immune. My manager asked him how to turn off the internet to the computer he uses - done deal. No more BBC and all the rest of it on that computer. If I find him on my computer, I am going to lock it down, but my computer is on the counter directly in front of the manager's office with a huge window.
My manager is asking me why I am not telling him to get to work. This is not in the purview of my job function, I am not his manager. I can ask him to do stuff, but telling him to get off his @$$ and get to work is simply not a co-worker's
Onto other things, such as the guy that called in to work today to complain about me. Another driver on the road.
I was in Queen Creek - small town in the boonies - and was coming up on a lane reduction - right lane ends, merge left. I have been down this road countless times, I get into the left lane long before you can even see this merger. I pass a guy in a Ford pickup with Florida license plates. Leave him well behind, only to get to a light, but I only had to slow down for traffic in front of me - note that everyone else had also gotten into the left lane because shortly after you pass through that intersection, that right lane ends.
You can see that that lane ends from at least a quarter mile. There are the huge yellow signs that tell you to MERGE left. This guy that I had passed and was going considerably slower than me? Comes FLYING up beside me - but his lane had run out. He was either going to drive off into the desert - slamming into trees and shrubs or crash into my truck, which would have done him no good, he still would have ended up in the desert. I honked at him, slammed on my brakes to let him in though in reality, he shouldn't have even BEEN there, my anti-lock brakes going crazy. I did the ethical and morally right thing: just shut it down even though I didn't HAVE to. HE - KNEW - that lane was ending. But this is the way people treat trucks and it's drivers. After that happened, he put his arm out the window and flipped me off!
I'm stuck behind this guy for 2 miles because there is only one lane now. Once the road stretches out to 3 lanes, he pulls over and then proceeds to write down my license plate number. What a total, complete moron. He almost causes an accident, flips me off and then has the gall to call my work and complain to the Operations Manager about ME. I HATE the way the motoring public treats truck drivers. I WISH we would all just shut down our trucks for a week and then the appreciation for our job would flow oh so nicely.
I put off buying that dash-camera, but no longer. After my vacation and all expenses paid, I will look to see what I have left and hopefully be able to buy a dashcam for the truck. I don't care how expensive it is, though I think I can get one for about $50. I want it to have enough memory on it, though to be able to record an entire day's worth of driving. So maybe more expensive. I told the Ops manager that I was going to put an end to this nonsense - people calling in about us drivers - at least for me and get that thing and mount it to the dashboard.
And so it will be.
Next. My tickets I won on Ebay for Seaworld showed up today : ) Should be a hoot! That's it. That's all I was waiting for. I just need to get some quarter rolls from the bank, roll them up and get that cash. The rest is just preparing the car and getting my stuff ready to go. I will be doing that this weekend.
Enough.
ben
It rained yesterday and it was absolutely wonderful.
I got wet a couple of times - on purpose - and just took in the rather cool breeze/air considering the time of year it is in Phoenix.
My sister-in-law is definitely going with us at this point to San Diego - she made the same non-refundable reservations that I did and that pretty much seals the fate of both of us going and hopefully having a good time.
She definitely does not want to go out on the boat, citing the reason of it being out so long and her probably getting seasick.
Yes, I know that feeling. I have done the pills and the patches to no avail, the only thing that works for me is alcohol. I know, it's terrible, lol. But I don't have to get drunk to get rid of the seasick feeling, just enough to make me feel "good" and get back to fishing.
I still have a patch left, I will use one again just to say that I at least tried something - those patches aren't exactly cheap and for them not to work? Sucked.
Hump Day. The work week will be over with soon enough and then I can get busy with getting ready for the trip. I did buy a couple of new t-shirts yesterday - haven't bought any in quite a while and I usually like to have a couple of new shirts for just such trips. My Virgin Healthmiles money came into my bank account overnight via direct deposit. This was some of the money needed to be able to go on this trip. I have the trip mostly paid for excepting they only took 50% deposit for the boat trip, that money will pay for the rest and also the bait/tackle fees, which is what I was counting on it for.
For whatever reason, the high is only slated to get up to 102 today. The high in San Diego, however, will be 70, lol.
With that, time to be off to work.
G'day.
ben
I got wet a couple of times - on purpose - and just took in the rather cool breeze/air considering the time of year it is in Phoenix.
My sister-in-law is definitely going with us at this point to San Diego - she made the same non-refundable reservations that I did and that pretty much seals the fate of both of us going and hopefully having a good time.
She definitely does not want to go out on the boat, citing the reason of it being out so long and her probably getting seasick.
Yes, I know that feeling. I have done the pills and the patches to no avail, the only thing that works for me is alcohol. I know, it's terrible, lol. But I don't have to get drunk to get rid of the seasick feeling, just enough to make me feel "good" and get back to fishing.
I still have a patch left, I will use one again just to say that I at least tried something - those patches aren't exactly cheap and for them not to work? Sucked.
Hump Day. The work week will be over with soon enough and then I can get busy with getting ready for the trip. I did buy a couple of new t-shirts yesterday - haven't bought any in quite a while and I usually like to have a couple of new shirts for just such trips. My Virgin Healthmiles money came into my bank account overnight via direct deposit. This was some of the money needed to be able to go on this trip. I have the trip mostly paid for excepting they only took 50% deposit for the boat trip, that money will pay for the rest and also the bait/tackle fees, which is what I was counting on it for.
For whatever reason, the high is only slated to get up to 102 today. The high in San Diego, however, will be 70, lol.
With that, time to be off to work.
G'day.
ben
Sunday, August 4, 2013
It's a done deal.
I hope anyway.
2 adult tickets to Sea World San Diego - bought and paid for, expect to have them in the mail by no later than Thursday this week.
2 spots on the fishing boat - half paid for - that's what they wanted on the phone, a 50% deposit. My name was still in their system from the last trip we took with them 2 years ago.
2 nights booked and paid for at the Kings Inn, San Diego.
I am comfortable that however the hotel turns out to be, there were enough very good reviews to make it appear to me that I will - a very non-picky hotel person though I don't like bedbugs, roaches and I like a clean room without a lot of noise (I don't consider any of that to be picky, that's pretty much the way a room should be regardless of where you are staying) - be happy with it. I do hope so, because at the rate I got the room, the amount paid is non-refundable.
The Waffle Spot restaurant - on-property - has some excellent reviews on it including locals who love the place. We won't be eating breakfast there, though and unfortunately, it doesn't open until 7 am according the reviews. Well, Wednesday morning we will be able to eat there in the morning since I doubt Seaworld opens too early and more importantly, I am probably going to want to sleep in from having had been on the ocean all day the previous day.
One twist to the adventure has popped up, though. My sister-in-law has stated she would like to go along with us. She doesn't want to go on the boat, she would rather go to the beach. I actually get along pretty well with her considering she IS an in-law, lol, I just have to ask Caleb if he's cool with it. I doubt he'll care one way or the other to be honest. My only caveat is that she has to pay her own way - all of it. I am on a budget and I don't have that much extra money floating around to pay for a 3rd ticket there. She offered before I asked, though, that she has money and she would be paying her own way, including getting her own hotel room. I'm good with that and I get along with her so if she was really serious about it, I'm sure she can go.
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Candid conversations. My son was describing the perfect family for him: 3 daughters and 1 son. He assumes to marry a Japanese lady since he is very intent on spending his life in Japan once he gets to that point. He lamented that growing up as an only child was not-so-great. I had no input to this discussion as far as that goes, it is what it is. My mother refused to believe that my ex-wife was pregnant because she had had her ovaries removed. Not quite, mother, she still has half an ovary left, I told her at the time. She assumed we were mistaken about the pregnancy, no way could she be pregnant. This went on for quite a long time until I had had enough of it. Great, you don't want to be a part of our son's life, then DON'T (we had seen the pic of him on that machine and it clearly showed male "parts", we knew before he was born it was going to be a boy). It was actually pretty sick the way she talked about it and treated us, as if we were lying to her about it for some reason.
Whatever the case, there is no "defense" for not having more children. I wanted more, but it didn't happen. He'll figure things out as he gets older - and experiences a few things in life.
Well whatever. Another work week looms. Business is slow and the situation with the kid that doesn't want to work is a bit much. We are devising a plan to get rid of him - get him to some other division that perhaps he will fit into. Dunno, but he creates more work than he finishes with the amount of messes and other situations that he leaves behind. I would rather not have him there at all. It's just plain irritating.
With that, it's a g'nite and God bless you.
ben
I hope anyway.
2 adult tickets to Sea World San Diego - bought and paid for, expect to have them in the mail by no later than Thursday this week.
2 spots on the fishing boat - half paid for - that's what they wanted on the phone, a 50% deposit. My name was still in their system from the last trip we took with them 2 years ago.
2 nights booked and paid for at the Kings Inn, San Diego.
I am comfortable that however the hotel turns out to be, there were enough very good reviews to make it appear to me that I will - a very non-picky hotel person though I don't like bedbugs, roaches and I like a clean room without a lot of noise (I don't consider any of that to be picky, that's pretty much the way a room should be regardless of where you are staying) - be happy with it. I do hope so, because at the rate I got the room, the amount paid is non-refundable.
The Waffle Spot restaurant - on-property - has some excellent reviews on it including locals who love the place. We won't be eating breakfast there, though and unfortunately, it doesn't open until 7 am according the reviews. Well, Wednesday morning we will be able to eat there in the morning since I doubt Seaworld opens too early and more importantly, I am probably going to want to sleep in from having had been on the ocean all day the previous day.
One twist to the adventure has popped up, though. My sister-in-law has stated she would like to go along with us. She doesn't want to go on the boat, she would rather go to the beach. I actually get along pretty well with her considering she IS an in-law, lol, I just have to ask Caleb if he's cool with it. I doubt he'll care one way or the other to be honest. My only caveat is that she has to pay her own way - all of it. I am on a budget and I don't have that much extra money floating around to pay for a 3rd ticket there. She offered before I asked, though, that she has money and she would be paying her own way, including getting her own hotel room. I'm good with that and I get along with her so if she was really serious about it, I'm sure she can go.
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Candid conversations. My son was describing the perfect family for him: 3 daughters and 1 son. He assumes to marry a Japanese lady since he is very intent on spending his life in Japan once he gets to that point. He lamented that growing up as an only child was not-so-great. I had no input to this discussion as far as that goes, it is what it is. My mother refused to believe that my ex-wife was pregnant because she had had her ovaries removed. Not quite, mother, she still has half an ovary left, I told her at the time. She assumed we were mistaken about the pregnancy, no way could she be pregnant. This went on for quite a long time until I had had enough of it. Great, you don't want to be a part of our son's life, then DON'T (we had seen the pic of him on that machine and it clearly showed male "parts", we knew before he was born it was going to be a boy). It was actually pretty sick the way she talked about it and treated us, as if we were lying to her about it for some reason.
Whatever the case, there is no "defense" for not having more children. I wanted more, but it didn't happen. He'll figure things out as he gets older - and experiences a few things in life.
Well whatever. Another work week looms. Business is slow and the situation with the kid that doesn't want to work is a bit much. We are devising a plan to get rid of him - get him to some other division that perhaps he will fit into. Dunno, but he creates more work than he finishes with the amount of messes and other situations that he leaves behind. I would rather not have him there at all. It's just plain irritating.
With that, it's a g'nite and God bless you.
ben
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Made a visit to Denny's. I go there once in a great while to have the wonderful breakfast that they are so good at making. Plain, simple, delicious.
But first, I replaced the battery in the old Buick. The previous one was about 2-1/2 years old with a 5 year warranty. So, I got the new battery for half price after pro-rating it. They wanted to sell me a battery that costs $115 to replace it, I said bunk. Old car, not worth putting that much money into it. I've already dumped more than I have wanted to but fortunately it's gone a pretty good, long spell without having to do anything but change the brake rotors and pads on it, and that turned out to be pretty cheap.
Of course, that means NOT taking it to a brake shop!! I have no idea what they would charge to do that, but I am guessing a pretty good price tag plus they always tell you something else is wrong with your brake system and then try to instill fear into you that you might be on the verge of a catastrophic brake failure if you don't replace - whatever they are telling you. Brakes and fear work well together for those that don't know about brake systems or how to fix that stuff yourself.
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Long interlude. I ended up on Ebay looking for tickets to Seaworld. I watched throughout the day as the auction had 2 people bidding against each other. You want to get an awesome price on Ebay, you don't bid until the end, period. You don't sit there with days or hours left to go bidding against each other. But they were still WELL below half price on those tickets when the time was almost up on the auction. I waited until 45 seconds left in the auction and made my bid. I can't tell you how many times I have played that game and won with only seconds left to spare, but it gives no or little time for anyone else to make a counter-bid unless they have already had an automatic bid set up. So, after the sport fishing is done, we are going to SeaWorld. I hope I have some energy left to enjoy that, lol.
Yup, it's late - 11:00 pm for me, I only stayed up to try and win this auction and get the tickets here before we leave.
G'nite.
ben
But first, I replaced the battery in the old Buick. The previous one was about 2-1/2 years old with a 5 year warranty. So, I got the new battery for half price after pro-rating it. They wanted to sell me a battery that costs $115 to replace it, I said bunk. Old car, not worth putting that much money into it. I've already dumped more than I have wanted to but fortunately it's gone a pretty good, long spell without having to do anything but change the brake rotors and pads on it, and that turned out to be pretty cheap.
Of course, that means NOT taking it to a brake shop!! I have no idea what they would charge to do that, but I am guessing a pretty good price tag plus they always tell you something else is wrong with your brake system and then try to instill fear into you that you might be on the verge of a catastrophic brake failure if you don't replace - whatever they are telling you. Brakes and fear work well together for those that don't know about brake systems or how to fix that stuff yourself.
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Long interlude. I ended up on Ebay looking for tickets to Seaworld. I watched throughout the day as the auction had 2 people bidding against each other. You want to get an awesome price on Ebay, you don't bid until the end, period. You don't sit there with days or hours left to go bidding against each other. But they were still WELL below half price on those tickets when the time was almost up on the auction. I waited until 45 seconds left in the auction and made my bid. I can't tell you how many times I have played that game and won with only seconds left to spare, but it gives no or little time for anyone else to make a counter-bid unless they have already had an automatic bid set up. So, after the sport fishing is done, we are going to SeaWorld. I hope I have some energy left to enjoy that, lol.
Yup, it's late - 11:00 pm for me, I only stayed up to try and win this auction and get the tickets here before we leave.
G'nite.
ben
Friday, August 2, 2013
So, Caleb is home.
I got a call this afternoon: "Can you come pick me up around 7:15?"
Uhhh, sure thing. I wanted to go to the pastor's get-together at his house, I decided I would do both.
But before that happened, I took a nap. I fell into a deep sleep and woke up a quarter after 6, 15 minutes before the party was supposed to start.
Bolted upright, but was definitely a bit out of it after coming out of a sleep like that.
Hit up the party for about 50 minutes and then and went to near downtown Phoenix - actually, the notorious intersection of Van Buren and 24th street. Notorious - for decades now - because of the mental hospital right there on the corner and also because of the large number of hookers/prostitutes/whores (pick the word the best suits you for the kind of descriptor). I had no idea that the Salvation Army also has a HUGE facility a block down the street from there.
I can only say that Caleb is a well-loved and like person. He seems to have the Midas touch when it comes to affecting other people's lives and the impact he has on them. He looked really good - healthy and in very good spirits. It was good to see him and good to get my arms around him and get a big hug. He was having trouble getting out of there with the number of people that kept stopping him.
But no biggies. We got home and visited a while, but it was obvious he wanted to get to his bedroom and - do whatever - I think he wants to sleep, lol. Likely on the internet since apparently, internet access up there kept going out most of the time he was up there.
Meanwhile, I confirmed the dates to go to San Diego - he doesn't care, after he gets back from CA with the SA, he will go whenever I want to, he's all over it. This frees me up to make the hotel reservations and book the spots on the boat. I just haven't quite decided which day, exactly, during the week, we are going to go.
I dunno, but I'm not going to obsess over this too much. I decided on San Diego (versus other cities with same-said sport fishing ports); use the same company; found what I hope will turn out to be a decent enough hotel and that's all I really need.
Whatever the case, I am very tired and it's time to go to bed.
G'nite.
ben
I got a call this afternoon: "Can you come pick me up around 7:15?"
Uhhh, sure thing. I wanted to go to the pastor's get-together at his house, I decided I would do both.
But before that happened, I took a nap. I fell into a deep sleep and woke up a quarter after 6, 15 minutes before the party was supposed to start.
Bolted upright, but was definitely a bit out of it after coming out of a sleep like that.
Hit up the party for about 50 minutes and then and went to near downtown Phoenix - actually, the notorious intersection of Van Buren and 24th street. Notorious - for decades now - because of the mental hospital right there on the corner and also because of the large number of hookers/prostitutes/whores (pick the word the best suits you for the kind of descriptor). I had no idea that the Salvation Army also has a HUGE facility a block down the street from there.
I can only say that Caleb is a well-loved and like person. He seems to have the Midas touch when it comes to affecting other people's lives and the impact he has on them. He looked really good - healthy and in very good spirits. It was good to see him and good to get my arms around him and get a big hug. He was having trouble getting out of there with the number of people that kept stopping him.
But no biggies. We got home and visited a while, but it was obvious he wanted to get to his bedroom and - do whatever - I think he wants to sleep, lol. Likely on the internet since apparently, internet access up there kept going out most of the time he was up there.
Meanwhile, I confirmed the dates to go to San Diego - he doesn't care, after he gets back from CA with the SA, he will go whenever I want to, he's all over it. This frees me up to make the hotel reservations and book the spots on the boat. I just haven't quite decided which day, exactly, during the week, we are going to go.
I dunno, but I'm not going to obsess over this too much. I decided on San Diego (versus other cities with same-said sport fishing ports); use the same company; found what I hope will turn out to be a decent enough hotel and that's all I really need.
Whatever the case, I am very tired and it's time to go to bed.
G'nite.
ben
Thursday, August 1, 2013
I think I found the hotel we are going to stay at. I actually decided to just get a map up of the Mission Valley area (in San Diego) and sure enough, the names of hotels were all over it. I thought about Howard Johnson's, but that place had some pretty bad reviews. I just want a place that I can sleep at - without a lot of noise from everyone else around us. I don't care that much about amenities, as long as the bed is at least semi-comfortable, I am good with it.
And so it is how I find the place. It is listed as old and needing renovations, but most everyone that reviewed still gave it a good review. Okay, there are always bad reviews - actually of any hotel property - and so this one has some too, but I was impressed enough with all the good reviews that I have decided this is the place. It's much cheaper than anything else around there - save probably that hell-hole-of-a-place called Motel 6 Mission Valley. I would rather sleep in my CAR than sleep in that rat s***-hole.
Okay, I'll just give the name and the website address: Kings Inn San Diego - http://kingsinnsandiego.com/
I went to their site and they state that they have recently renovated the rooms and I read at least one review that also confirmed this, so I'm good with it. Give it a try. The worst that can happen? The same as happened in 2011 at that s***hole of a "hotel" - Motel 6. I just cannot believe that Motel 6 would allow their brand name on a place as rank as that place is. Not that Motel 6's are floating-on-the-clouds motels, but pleeeeeeeaaaaaaasssssssseeeeeeee.. I've been at a LOT of Motel 6's all over the place, all over the country in fact, this was the WORST one I have ever experienced. I have left reviews all over the internet of that place to warn would-be guests to steer far clear of the place.
Anyway, Kings Inn price is the allure for me, that and the many good reviews. If I could afford to stay at the Marriot down the road, I would, but that's not a happening event and I don't care about that stuff right now, my son definitely doesn't care. In fact, at that Motel 6, the night where I didn't get ANY sleep at all, maybe an hour's worth, he slept right through all of that noise. I still marvel to this day how anyone could sleep with all that racket going on. That is truly the word I can use to define his ability to sleep through that: marvel. I can only dream of being able to sleep through such racket.
Though I do remember a trip to California on a Greyhound bus with screaming kids and a LOT of racket going on, where somehow, I was able to tune out all of that noise and drift in and out of sleep. I would sleep for 45 minutes, wake up in wonder - wondering whether the noise was still going on - and yes it was - and just go back to sleep again. I'm one of those people that at bedtime, it has to be dark in the room and either very quiet or white noise. I opt for white noise - all the time. A box fan supplies that sound and ear plugs tames that sound so it is a "constant" sound. I'm waiting to book the hotel to speak with Caleb to determine what will be the best days to go. Leave around noon on whatever day, get there around 4:30 to 5 pm - I think - get in the room, hang out, swim, eat, whatever, prepare ourselves for the fishing adventure of the next morning.
Well, that takes the strain out of this. We will go with the same company we went with before. I caught enough fish on that trip to make it enjoyable and worth bring home all of that. I ate Sea Bass and whatever the name of the other fish was for several weeks. What's left? Boat reservations. The company's prices have gone up - by $15 per person since we went with them 2 years ago, but that's okay.
So how to pay for this. Cashed out my healthmiles - it's only $150, but that comes close to paying for hotel. I have at least $250 worth of change in my change bins. That's $400. I will put the fuel on the fuel card and pay for that next month. $300 out of savings and that pays for this trip. It would be cool to go to Seaworld the next day - but I don't know if I can afford another couple hundred bucks on top of everything else. I wish I could - I won't see him for a year after he leaves - but I can't leave myself screwed for money, either.
I've been saving my change for quite a while now, though. Like a year. There may be more in that pile than I know. I will find out after I task Caleb to either take it to the coin counting machine or - get penny; nickle; dime and quarter rolls and take them to the bank. Of course there is credit on credit cards - I will have to weigh whether this is worth going into debt for.
Ahhhh, Ebay. Seaworld tickets.
G'nite.
ben
And so it is how I find the place. It is listed as old and needing renovations, but most everyone that reviewed still gave it a good review. Okay, there are always bad reviews - actually of any hotel property - and so this one has some too, but I was impressed enough with all the good reviews that I have decided this is the place. It's much cheaper than anything else around there - save probably that hell-hole-of-a-place called Motel 6 Mission Valley. I would rather sleep in my CAR than sleep in that rat s***-hole.
Okay, I'll just give the name and the website address: Kings Inn San Diego - http://kingsinnsandiego.com/
I went to their site and they state that they have recently renovated the rooms and I read at least one review that also confirmed this, so I'm good with it. Give it a try. The worst that can happen? The same as happened in 2011 at that s***hole of a "hotel" - Motel 6. I just cannot believe that Motel 6 would allow their brand name on a place as rank as that place is. Not that Motel 6's are floating-on-the-clouds motels, but pleeeeeeeaaaaaaasssssssseeeeeeee.. I've been at a LOT of Motel 6's all over the place, all over the country in fact, this was the WORST one I have ever experienced. I have left reviews all over the internet of that place to warn would-be guests to steer far clear of the place.
Anyway, Kings Inn price is the allure for me, that and the many good reviews. If I could afford to stay at the Marriot down the road, I would, but that's not a happening event and I don't care about that stuff right now, my son definitely doesn't care. In fact, at that Motel 6, the night where I didn't get ANY sleep at all, maybe an hour's worth, he slept right through all of that noise. I still marvel to this day how anyone could sleep with all that racket going on. That is truly the word I can use to define his ability to sleep through that: marvel. I can only dream of being able to sleep through such racket.
Though I do remember a trip to California on a Greyhound bus with screaming kids and a LOT of racket going on, where somehow, I was able to tune out all of that noise and drift in and out of sleep. I would sleep for 45 minutes, wake up in wonder - wondering whether the noise was still going on - and yes it was - and just go back to sleep again. I'm one of those people that at bedtime, it has to be dark in the room and either very quiet or white noise. I opt for white noise - all the time. A box fan supplies that sound and ear plugs tames that sound so it is a "constant" sound. I'm waiting to book the hotel to speak with Caleb to determine what will be the best days to go. Leave around noon on whatever day, get there around 4:30 to 5 pm - I think - get in the room, hang out, swim, eat, whatever, prepare ourselves for the fishing adventure of the next morning.
Well, that takes the strain out of this. We will go with the same company we went with before. I caught enough fish on that trip to make it enjoyable and worth bring home all of that. I ate Sea Bass and whatever the name of the other fish was for several weeks. What's left? Boat reservations. The company's prices have gone up - by $15 per person since we went with them 2 years ago, but that's okay.
So how to pay for this. Cashed out my healthmiles - it's only $150, but that comes close to paying for hotel. I have at least $250 worth of change in my change bins. That's $400. I will put the fuel on the fuel card and pay for that next month. $300 out of savings and that pays for this trip. It would be cool to go to Seaworld the next day - but I don't know if I can afford another couple hundred bucks on top of everything else. I wish I could - I won't see him for a year after he leaves - but I can't leave myself screwed for money, either.
I've been saving my change for quite a while now, though. Like a year. There may be more in that pile than I know. I will find out after I task Caleb to either take it to the coin counting machine or - get penny; nickle; dime and quarter rolls and take them to the bank. Of course there is credit on credit cards - I will have to weigh whether this is worth going into debt for.
Ahhhh, Ebay. Seaworld tickets.
G'nite.
ben
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
It finally came to a head last night.
I am referring to George's surround sound.
I was sitting out here attempting to watch a show on TV.
I don't watch much TV, when I do have it on, it's usually something that interests me.
George was watching a movie in his bedroom with that thing on.
He had it turned up so loud, I had to turn the volume up on my TV to
it's highest level just to be able to hear the show.
Mark came out of his room and was disgusted - he said even with headphones
on he couldn't even hear his TV.
That was it. I went to his bedroom with the intention of politely asking him to turn
it down, substantially.
I knocked on his door. No answer. Second time, louder. No answer.
3rd time I was banging on his door and he still couldn't hear it because of the volume
level of that surround sound.
THAT'S how loud it was.
I gave up, came back into the kitchen, wrote up a notice and figured to give it to him tomorrow since it
was my bed time.
I went into my bedroom, shut the door and unbelievably, could hear that freaking TV of his in MY bedroom. We are at least 50 feet apart, plus 2 closed doors. That was enough. I went and about beat the door down to get his attention. I was mad, too, he finally opened the door and I said something I will have to repent of now. "Turn that F****** thing down!". I just walked away from him after that, I didn't want to turn a bad situation worse, though I did leave the notice.
I have no idea how this is going to play out, but I refuse to be subjected to those noise levels ever again from his surround sound system. Whether he decides to stay or leave because of it is up to him. I have tried to give him hints and have even said something about it in the past, but it doesn't get through to him. Well, last night was definitive, the point was succinctly made and so now we see where it goes.
Work is still slow. TOO slow. Like BORING slow. Today, however, I expect to see about finding a hotel room in the San Diego area - there is a huge grouping of them not far from the dock where the sport fishing place is. I will NOT do that Motel 6 again, not after last time and the noise levels that were in that place that kept me awake all night long. I will find something else, probably more expensive but so beit.
Oops, time to be off to work!
G'day.
ben
I am referring to George's surround sound.
I was sitting out here attempting to watch a show on TV.
I don't watch much TV, when I do have it on, it's usually something that interests me.
George was watching a movie in his bedroom with that thing on.
He had it turned up so loud, I had to turn the volume up on my TV to
it's highest level just to be able to hear the show.
Mark came out of his room and was disgusted - he said even with headphones
on he couldn't even hear his TV.
That was it. I went to his bedroom with the intention of politely asking him to turn
it down, substantially.
I knocked on his door. No answer. Second time, louder. No answer.
3rd time I was banging on his door and he still couldn't hear it because of the volume
level of that surround sound.
THAT'S how loud it was.
I gave up, came back into the kitchen, wrote up a notice and figured to give it to him tomorrow since it
was my bed time.
I went into my bedroom, shut the door and unbelievably, could hear that freaking TV of his in MY bedroom. We are at least 50 feet apart, plus 2 closed doors. That was enough. I went and about beat the door down to get his attention. I was mad, too, he finally opened the door and I said something I will have to repent of now. "Turn that F****** thing down!". I just walked away from him after that, I didn't want to turn a bad situation worse, though I did leave the notice.
I have no idea how this is going to play out, but I refuse to be subjected to those noise levels ever again from his surround sound system. Whether he decides to stay or leave because of it is up to him. I have tried to give him hints and have even said something about it in the past, but it doesn't get through to him. Well, last night was definitive, the point was succinctly made and so now we see where it goes.
Work is still slow. TOO slow. Like BORING slow. Today, however, I expect to see about finding a hotel room in the San Diego area - there is a huge grouping of them not far from the dock where the sport fishing place is. I will NOT do that Motel 6 again, not after last time and the noise levels that were in that place that kept me awake all night long. I will find something else, probably more expensive but so beit.
Oops, time to be off to work!
G'day.
ben
Sunday, July 28, 2013
Lost posts. Posted them, they didn't come up on here. I could just go into the dashboard and find them, but what the hey, might as well just start fresh. I think the reason why the didn't show up is that I have been doing a set of goals on Cafe World - something I haven't done in almost 8 months - and it kinda messes with the computer. Have to clean it regularly and delete files and such. I probably won't be doing another set of goals for a while, I remembered why I quit doing them: extremely time-consuming. Okay to do once in a while, not every freaking day.
Anyway, Caleb is returning on the 2cd. So mom is going all hog crazy buying food and stuff for him for his return. She is obviously having a problem with him leaving for a full year. I understand that, I'm having a bit of trouble with it as well. But I wouldn't expect her to see too much of him, his friends are already Jonesing for his time when he gets back. They all know he's going to be gone for a long time, he is a well-liked and loved person.
In fact, the month of August will be very busy for him. I can only hope to catch some time with him as it permits. But he is, at least, a family oriented person and likes to spend time with both mom and dad, so that's cool. I think the rubber will meet the road at the airport, when he's leaving and it is going to hit us. He's been gone almost 2 months now as it is, but an entire year is another thing entirely.
Regardless, I am taking the second week off in August in hopes of either going to California with him or at least being able to spend some "quality" time with him.
Work. New kid has pushed me right up to the line. One more little push and it's all over. He has no clue, whatsoever. No social skills, no social graces, doesn't understand that you can't go around talking to people just anyway you please at work. Lacking any kind of work ethic, finding new places to hide all the time. Yet the manager and I are both onto it. But Friday was enough. Besides the fact that he spent much of the day finding ways to stay out of work and not do anything, he also challenged me. I was lifting a heavy, steel coupler and whenever I lift anything heavy, I do the weight-lifting "grunting" noise, I guess you call it. I started doing that in high school when weight-lifting, something they teach you to do, or at least exhale forcefully, and something I just do when lifting heavier objects. It helps. So I did that lifting up that coupling which is when this kid proclaimed loudly: Oh come on now, that thing isn't THAT heavy, I can throw it half way across the yard!! I dropped the thing right at his fit and told him to go ahead and throw it.
Snotty, obnoxious 23 year old b****. I wanted to smack him upside the head. Warned my manager if that guy continues with his s***, don't expect me to just put up with it. I'm not looking for trouble, but this kid definitely is. Just tired of it. After almost 3 months of watching him leave messes laying all over the place, cigarette butts on the warehouse floor, not wanting to sweep up anywhere, doing only what the manager asks and then going and hiding, plus mouthing off, I've had enough.
Whatever. It just makes going to work a task, a thing you aren't necessarily looking forward to when such bs is going on. Management thought they had transferred over a good worker from another branch out east, but this is definitely not the case. You don't always, really, know what kind of worker you have until they are there, working and doing their thing. It's just unbelievable to me that this guy thinks it's cool to spend hours every day smoking cigarettes - and doing nothing while he's doing it - or attempting to hide on the forklift on various parts of the property.
K, enough of that. It's Sunday afternoon and I have done much of nothing today besides going to church. I haven't felt like doing anything. I didn't do much of anything yesterday, either. In fact, now that I think of it, I have only eaten a small oatmeal cookie at church this morning today, nothing else. Yikes. I've been gaining weight/fat and have decided to cut back on eating/drinking altogether, but yes, I must at least eat something.
I dunno what else. Nothing else really. Well lots of stuff, but I don't feel like going into it.
G'day.
ben
Anyway, Caleb is returning on the 2cd. So mom is going all hog crazy buying food and stuff for him for his return. She is obviously having a problem with him leaving for a full year. I understand that, I'm having a bit of trouble with it as well. But I wouldn't expect her to see too much of him, his friends are already Jonesing for his time when he gets back. They all know he's going to be gone for a long time, he is a well-liked and loved person.
In fact, the month of August will be very busy for him. I can only hope to catch some time with him as it permits. But he is, at least, a family oriented person and likes to spend time with both mom and dad, so that's cool. I think the rubber will meet the road at the airport, when he's leaving and it is going to hit us. He's been gone almost 2 months now as it is, but an entire year is another thing entirely.
Regardless, I am taking the second week off in August in hopes of either going to California with him or at least being able to spend some "quality" time with him.
Work. New kid has pushed me right up to the line. One more little push and it's all over. He has no clue, whatsoever. No social skills, no social graces, doesn't understand that you can't go around talking to people just anyway you please at work. Lacking any kind of work ethic, finding new places to hide all the time. Yet the manager and I are both onto it. But Friday was enough. Besides the fact that he spent much of the day finding ways to stay out of work and not do anything, he also challenged me. I was lifting a heavy, steel coupler and whenever I lift anything heavy, I do the weight-lifting "grunting" noise, I guess you call it. I started doing that in high school when weight-lifting, something they teach you to do, or at least exhale forcefully, and something I just do when lifting heavier objects. It helps. So I did that lifting up that coupling which is when this kid proclaimed loudly: Oh come on now, that thing isn't THAT heavy, I can throw it half way across the yard!! I dropped the thing right at his fit and told him to go ahead and throw it.
Snotty, obnoxious 23 year old b****. I wanted to smack him upside the head. Warned my manager if that guy continues with his s***, don't expect me to just put up with it. I'm not looking for trouble, but this kid definitely is. Just tired of it. After almost 3 months of watching him leave messes laying all over the place, cigarette butts on the warehouse floor, not wanting to sweep up anywhere, doing only what the manager asks and then going and hiding, plus mouthing off, I've had enough.
Whatever. It just makes going to work a task, a thing you aren't necessarily looking forward to when such bs is going on. Management thought they had transferred over a good worker from another branch out east, but this is definitely not the case. You don't always, really, know what kind of worker you have until they are there, working and doing their thing. It's just unbelievable to me that this guy thinks it's cool to spend hours every day smoking cigarettes - and doing nothing while he's doing it - or attempting to hide on the forklift on various parts of the property.
K, enough of that. It's Sunday afternoon and I have done much of nothing today besides going to church. I haven't felt like doing anything. I didn't do much of anything yesterday, either. In fact, now that I think of it, I have only eaten a small oatmeal cookie at church this morning today, nothing else. Yikes. I've been gaining weight/fat and have decided to cut back on eating/drinking altogether, but yes, I must at least eat something.
I dunno what else. Nothing else really. Well lots of stuff, but I don't feel like going into it.
G'day.
ben
Thursday, July 25, 2013
Thursday. Humid and hot. Went through yesterday attempting to keep myself from saying anything "negative" to or about anyone. Was very difficult in the semi, though. Getting cut off and having people then braking in front of you is maddening when you can't even let out the steam~!
New kid worker - 23 years old I think - is turning into a person that we don't even want to talk to. If we need to find him now, we just go to the warehouse bathroom where he hangs out, doing nothing. I don't know how such people can survive in this world. Maybe just surviving? Like, no motivation in life to do anything, it shows at work if that's your mindset. But he doesn't even do the bare minimum. He just disappears. We are going to start firing up the furnace when he goes in there and blast him out of that room.
The manager doesn't feel it's his job to have to go finding this dude every 5 minutes to find out what he's doing and he's too busy doing his work to have time for that.
Well fun time here again, time to be off to work.
G'day.
ben
New kid worker - 23 years old I think - is turning into a person that we don't even want to talk to. If we need to find him now, we just go to the warehouse bathroom where he hangs out, doing nothing. I don't know how such people can survive in this world. Maybe just surviving? Like, no motivation in life to do anything, it shows at work if that's your mindset. But he doesn't even do the bare minimum. He just disappears. We are going to start firing up the furnace when he goes in there and blast him out of that room.
The manager doesn't feel it's his job to have to go finding this dude every 5 minutes to find out what he's doing and he's too busy doing his work to have time for that.
Well fun time here again, time to be off to work.
G'day.
ben
Sunday, July 21, 2013
Fry's Food Stores 48th Street & Baseline/Camping Trip
Decided early yesterday morning to go up to the mountains and go to the camp party.
So, I went to Fry's. This is the same Fry's that I have had endless problems with, mostly very, very poor customer service.
So, I went around and got everything I wanted, about 20 minutes of going from one end of the store to the other and then got in line at the checkout. I was informed that self-checkout was available.
No thanks, I'll just wait. I pretty much gave up on self service several months back, too many problems and too many inattentive employees who aren't manning the main station to monitor the activity going on.
Then the cashier tells me that she will call someone up and points to the register behind her. Okay. But I didn't mind waiting, the line wasn't that long. She insisted, so I went over there, put all my stuff on the conveyor belt and waited. She calls a cashier which never shows up. Finally, yet another new manager, apparently front-end manager, shows up. This place goes through managers like a smoke shop goes through packs of cigarettes, it's a bit ridiculous the high turnover.
She informs me that that register is closed and that I will need to move my stuff to the next one over. I simply stated that the cashier - right behind me - is the one that told me to come to this line. She stares at me, shakes her head in disbelief and then informs me that she isn't logged into this register. Just an unbelievable attitude from a person that I was not giving an attitude to. I just stared right back. I had just wasted almost 30 minutes of my time now in walking around the entire store getting my stuff, being invited over to another aisle that I didn't ask for nor did I really want since there was no cashier there, then given an attitude by a new manager that apparently decided that I am a 5 year old to be bossed around.
I contemplated it for a few seconds and then did it. I just left all that stuff sitting there and I walked out. I drove 2 miles down the road to another, much larger Fry's and got the same stuff all over again. I have only had one problem in the past at that Fry's and it wasn't that big of a deal.
I don't know if I am going to back to this other Fry's that I have been shopping at for almost 8 years now. It's pretty amazing the attitude of the current general manager there, Christine, who basically doesn't give a rat's @$$ whether customers are happy or not. That particular Fry's is used as a launching point for GM's to move on to bigger/better stores. IMO, Christine is the worst excuse for a GM I have ever experienced at any Fry's, she doesn't deserve anything but a demotion. But whatever. The sooner they move her out of there, the sooner there will be yet another new GM to take her place and perhaps a bit more customer service oriented.
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That's the end of the Fry's story, the rest of this is about other things, you are welcomed to read it if you so desire, but if you came here on a Google search looking for the Fry's stuff, that was it.
Relatively short drive up there. Something like 130 miles to the campsite. Spartan showing for a company party/camping adventure, but I suspect it's because it was raining on and off the entire time we were up there. Especially last night. I made the mistake of not pumping up the air bed to sleep on, I didn't even try to put up the tent, I just decided to sleep under one of those ramada covers that they had set up on the ground with a sleeping bag. Bad idea. Hard ground, lots of rocks, didn't sleep too well. Prince was with me, he didn't sleep well, either.
But I did have fun and a good time talking with people, especially the widow of the man that was killed earlier this year in a vehicle accident up on I-40 on a company related trip. She showed me the pics of the pickup he was driving. Unbelievable. That pickup was totally trashed. The entire cab was sheered off and the steering wheel was flipped over and is what did him in: it went into his skull and they say he was killed instantly. For being a woman that just lost her husband 6 or so months ago, she was remarkably well-composed. She had a lit up box with a pic of her husband in it on a table with a beer next to it.
Apparently they do these camping trips frequently and they bring George, the deceased man, along with them.
Well, anyway, I got up early this morning, got my stuff packed, got Prince in the car and headed home, totally exhausted. I got home in time to take a nap for an hour but couldn't get to sleep, so I took a shower, called Mary who was going to be there as well, and then went to church. When I got there, it began to rain. Before I could get out of the car, a downpour of the likes I haven't seen in years around here came out of the sky and I ended up sitting there in the parking lot for 5 minutes waiting for it to subside. It never did and I ended up getting out of the car in the driving rain and getting wet before I made it to the church door entrance.
It was a good service, but I was yawning all the way through it. Drove home and saw that aftermath of the storm on the streets in my neighborhood. The streets are filled with mud, up to 6 inches deep in places!! I guess I won't need to water my plants for a couple of days!
Well, anyway, I took a 2 hour nap this afternoon and woke up feeling better after that. I then got online and started looking for whale and dolphin watching boating trips out of either LA or San Diego. My son he wanted to go, he doesn't really like the fishing but he loves being on the boat, I am thinking this time to go on a sightseeing tour instead of fishing. I don't know though. I have this issue of getting seasick on those small boats and the ONLY thing that I have found that makes me feel better is alcohol. If I drink enough vodkas and cranberry juices, that feeling goes away and I am right as rain - but also a tad inebriated.
So I dunno about that, but it's the only thing that works. I even tried those doctor-prescribed patches last year that you put behind your ear - no effect.
Umm well whatever. Another work week looming. Plenty to do tomorrow, at least and the truck is already loaded, that makes it a bit easier to deal with Monday morning. I have asked for the second week off of August. I am pretty sure I will get it. It's really the only week where I can take Caleb.
Well, enough. Just a lazy Sunday afternoon. The drenching downpour means I don't have to go out and water anything.
ben
Friday, July 19, 2013
I was asked yesterday if I was going to go to the camp party up north, in Heber, right near where my son is at the SA camp. No, I replied, I don't know anything about it. In fact, no-one at our branch was invited. As if we somehow intrinsically know everything that is being circulated at the main branch, where this idea came up. If they don't tell us - phone call; PM; email; face-to-face - we don't know.
I'll come back to that. Fast forward to this morning. Woke up with a raging headache. It happens when I don't get enough sleep for several days in a row. I was awakened last night by a sneezing Great Dane. He was going at it and let me tell you, that much noise is going to wake just about anyone up. I couldn't hold it against the dog, but I never really got back to sleep. So, today at work, I had the headache; I was irritable and cranky and the situation with the new employee? It doesn't get any better. Now, he sits in the back of the warehouse, sitting on the forklift, rolling and smoking his cigarettes.
I caught him today. I pulled into the yard with the semi, he apparently thought I was a freight truck coming in with goods to deliver as he didn't even look up. I was up on that last warehouse bay before he looked up and saw that it was me. I just looked away. I can't stand it. I can't stand people who want a paycheck but don't want to work for it. I don't care if he's getting paid lower wages, I was there at one point in my life and I gave it my all. Always have. You earn your pay, you don't sit around on your @$$ with whatever is going on in your mind to somehow justify it.
And there is plenty to do around there. The driveway is covered with rocks again. I have swept them up or blown them out with a blower several times over. I don't care about the "work" aspect of it or even if it's hot and humid out there. Yes, we have humidity here, the monsoons come and so does the humidity, coupled with the high heat. But whatever, I went inside and figured the manager knew all about it. He doesn't let much get past him.
He asked me what that guy was doing. Ummmm, sitting on the forklift, rolling a cigarette and smoking it. Yup, he states, he does that all the time now. We had a discussion about his lack of desire to do anything. When I came in this morning, I was met by the operations manager who was there to get his RV trailer. He came out to the parking lot from the side entrance and asked me if I had just got there or had I been there earlier? Ummm, no, I just got here, it's my regular start time. Are you sure? Well, yes, of course I'm sure, why would I come here and then leave?
He then states the alarm hadn't been set. Oh really? Well, it's happened before. It isn't the end of the world, just good that no-one happened to break in during that time. He says, well that isn't the worst of it. I had no clue. We walk around to the side and to the back and he points at the first bay door, which is half way opened. You see that? .......... It was like that when I got here! I immediately took defense of my manager, NO WAY he would EVER leave that door opened before going home. I intoned that it must have been a salesman. I ask him where he is going with the trailer. Oh, just up to the mountains, not bothering to tell me he's going to the camp thing where allegedly, everyone is invited, everyone but us at this store anyway.
Getting beyond that, and yes it was an inside salesman who had come earlier and left it open "because we were going to be there soon anyway", a contractor comes in and is there for a rather large amount of material. I printed the order and started pulling it. I had already been on the forklift attempting to load the truck for the day's deliveries when he had shown up.
So, this new guy comes in at his regular time. I am inside just getting done with the paperwork, he comes in, signs in and goes outside. I go outside to start pulling the order and hopefully have this guy help me. He just stands there. I am not his boss, I can't and won't bother to try to force him to do anything. I have tolerance for such people and I would rather just willingly do all the work myself than have someone else helping that is doing it begrudgingly. I'm working way when the manager shows up. He goes inside and finds the new guy sitting on the computer, perusing the internet, reading the news.
Why is Ben out there pulling orders and loading the truck and you are in here doing nothing? He had no reply.
The guy is going to be history. That's just the way it's going to be.
Remember, I have a raging headache during all of this. It isn't subsiding and I am attempting to put on a good face while feeling like s*** the entire time. The next thing I know, this new guy is "going to town" after the manager shows up, of course. I'm not the manager and my manager doesn't understand why I won't just tell the guy off. It's NOT my place to do that. It's HIS place to deal with this stuff, that's how it works. That's why you have management, to deal with everything including the negatives. I CAN tell this guy what to do, but I would rather just do my thing and let this guy dig his own hole. The hole is pretty much dug and soon, if he doesn't change his work attitude, his days at our company are numbered.
I get back from a rather elongated run and then start discussing with my manager about going up there. He's going with is girlfriend, asking me if I'm going. I thought not at first, but that's because I don't really like half the people (at least) that are going. There is only on God that I know of, and it doesn't include any of them though several of them certainly act like they are sitting on the Throne.
But tonight, I have had a change of heart. The Lord. Perhaps you should get over yourself, I think I hear being said or something to that matter, and just go up there and enjoy the beauty of my creation?
You can argue with God if you want, but realistically, you aren't going to win. If you choose to ignore Him, then I guess, but other than that, you are done and toast, might as well just do it and go with a good attitude.
But I had no plans to go up north this weekend. Mary's son can't go because of Mary's situation, though that has really been sort of resolved, it is too late to do anything about getting gates and going up there to install them. So I had completely put that out of my mind and had just decided to stay home, go to church on Sunday, get some stuff done around here and that's it. Besides the fact that all these other people going have had this idea - on their table - for a while now and have had time to prepare. So tomorrow morning, I will decide one way or the other whether I am going to drive all the way up there.
Meanwhile, I talked to Caleb via Facebook. We talk on the phone sometimes, other times he writes me messages. I caught him today after he had just sent me a message and we got into a conversation. He was telling me the dates of his California trip - he will be gone from the 2cd until the 10th. So, apparently, the day he gets back from camp he is also leaving for California.
It also conflicts with mom's attempt to have a party with the family for him up at her property, of which I promptly notified her. We'll try for the next weekend. Which is cool, I hope he can see his extended family before he leaves for Hawaii, but I had something pressing on my mind to ask him while I had him on the line. Do you want to go on our annual boat trip? If you have time and you want to, great, if you don't it's cool. I don't want to pressure him, but at the same time, he loves going out on a boat on the ocean. He was all over that. No, he replies, I don't have anything going on during that week and I would love to go!
I have already asked for that entire week off. I am going to get some quality time in with my son if at all possible before he is gone for an entire year.
I don't know, but it's starting to get late - my version of it anyway. I am staying up a bit to get nice and sleep and hopefully get some shuteye tonight. I won't drive up there tomorrow if I wake up feeling the way I did today. I forced myself out of bed, into the shower and out of the bedroom this morning, a sheer act of will that defied everything that was raging within me to simply stay in bed and go back to sleep.
G'nite.
ben
I'll come back to that. Fast forward to this morning. Woke up with a raging headache. It happens when I don't get enough sleep for several days in a row. I was awakened last night by a sneezing Great Dane. He was going at it and let me tell you, that much noise is going to wake just about anyone up. I couldn't hold it against the dog, but I never really got back to sleep. So, today at work, I had the headache; I was irritable and cranky and the situation with the new employee? It doesn't get any better. Now, he sits in the back of the warehouse, sitting on the forklift, rolling and smoking his cigarettes.
I caught him today. I pulled into the yard with the semi, he apparently thought I was a freight truck coming in with goods to deliver as he didn't even look up. I was up on that last warehouse bay before he looked up and saw that it was me. I just looked away. I can't stand it. I can't stand people who want a paycheck but don't want to work for it. I don't care if he's getting paid lower wages, I was there at one point in my life and I gave it my all. Always have. You earn your pay, you don't sit around on your @$$ with whatever is going on in your mind to somehow justify it.
And there is plenty to do around there. The driveway is covered with rocks again. I have swept them up or blown them out with a blower several times over. I don't care about the "work" aspect of it or even if it's hot and humid out there. Yes, we have humidity here, the monsoons come and so does the humidity, coupled with the high heat. But whatever, I went inside and figured the manager knew all about it. He doesn't let much get past him.
He asked me what that guy was doing. Ummmm, sitting on the forklift, rolling a cigarette and smoking it. Yup, he states, he does that all the time now. We had a discussion about his lack of desire to do anything. When I came in this morning, I was met by the operations manager who was there to get his RV trailer. He came out to the parking lot from the side entrance and asked me if I had just got there or had I been there earlier? Ummm, no, I just got here, it's my regular start time. Are you sure? Well, yes, of course I'm sure, why would I come here and then leave?
He then states the alarm hadn't been set. Oh really? Well, it's happened before. It isn't the end of the world, just good that no-one happened to break in during that time. He says, well that isn't the worst of it. I had no clue. We walk around to the side and to the back and he points at the first bay door, which is half way opened. You see that? .......... It was like that when I got here! I immediately took defense of my manager, NO WAY he would EVER leave that door opened before going home. I intoned that it must have been a salesman. I ask him where he is going with the trailer. Oh, just up to the mountains, not bothering to tell me he's going to the camp thing where allegedly, everyone is invited, everyone but us at this store anyway.
Getting beyond that, and yes it was an inside salesman who had come earlier and left it open "because we were going to be there soon anyway", a contractor comes in and is there for a rather large amount of material. I printed the order and started pulling it. I had already been on the forklift attempting to load the truck for the day's deliveries when he had shown up.
So, this new guy comes in at his regular time. I am inside just getting done with the paperwork, he comes in, signs in and goes outside. I go outside to start pulling the order and hopefully have this guy help me. He just stands there. I am not his boss, I can't and won't bother to try to force him to do anything. I have tolerance for such people and I would rather just willingly do all the work myself than have someone else helping that is doing it begrudgingly. I'm working way when the manager shows up. He goes inside and finds the new guy sitting on the computer, perusing the internet, reading the news.
Why is Ben out there pulling orders and loading the truck and you are in here doing nothing? He had no reply.
The guy is going to be history. That's just the way it's going to be.
Remember, I have a raging headache during all of this. It isn't subsiding and I am attempting to put on a good face while feeling like s*** the entire time. The next thing I know, this new guy is "going to town" after the manager shows up, of course. I'm not the manager and my manager doesn't understand why I won't just tell the guy off. It's NOT my place to do that. It's HIS place to deal with this stuff, that's how it works. That's why you have management, to deal with everything including the negatives. I CAN tell this guy what to do, but I would rather just do my thing and let this guy dig his own hole. The hole is pretty much dug and soon, if he doesn't change his work attitude, his days at our company are numbered.
I get back from a rather elongated run and then start discussing with my manager about going up there. He's going with is girlfriend, asking me if I'm going. I thought not at first, but that's because I don't really like half the people (at least) that are going. There is only on God that I know of, and it doesn't include any of them though several of them certainly act like they are sitting on the Throne.
But tonight, I have had a change of heart. The Lord. Perhaps you should get over yourself, I think I hear being said or something to that matter, and just go up there and enjoy the beauty of my creation?
You can argue with God if you want, but realistically, you aren't going to win. If you choose to ignore Him, then I guess, but other than that, you are done and toast, might as well just do it and go with a good attitude.
But I had no plans to go up north this weekend. Mary's son can't go because of Mary's situation, though that has really been sort of resolved, it is too late to do anything about getting gates and going up there to install them. So I had completely put that out of my mind and had just decided to stay home, go to church on Sunday, get some stuff done around here and that's it. Besides the fact that all these other people going have had this idea - on their table - for a while now and have had time to prepare. So tomorrow morning, I will decide one way or the other whether I am going to drive all the way up there.
Meanwhile, I talked to Caleb via Facebook. We talk on the phone sometimes, other times he writes me messages. I caught him today after he had just sent me a message and we got into a conversation. He was telling me the dates of his California trip - he will be gone from the 2cd until the 10th. So, apparently, the day he gets back from camp he is also leaving for California.
It also conflicts with mom's attempt to have a party with the family for him up at her property, of which I promptly notified her. We'll try for the next weekend. Which is cool, I hope he can see his extended family before he leaves for Hawaii, but I had something pressing on my mind to ask him while I had him on the line. Do you want to go on our annual boat trip? If you have time and you want to, great, if you don't it's cool. I don't want to pressure him, but at the same time, he loves going out on a boat on the ocean. He was all over that. No, he replies, I don't have anything going on during that week and I would love to go!
I have already asked for that entire week off. I am going to get some quality time in with my son if at all possible before he is gone for an entire year.
I don't know, but it's starting to get late - my version of it anyway. I am staying up a bit to get nice and sleep and hopefully get some shuteye tonight. I won't drive up there tomorrow if I wake up feeling the way I did today. I forced myself out of bed, into the shower and out of the bedroom this morning, a sheer act of will that defied everything that was raging within me to simply stay in bed and go back to sleep.
G'nite.
ben
I wrote this on my Facebook wall this morning - it came to me through the Spirit and I felt compelled to write it and so, I am going to post it here as well:
Forgiveness. It's something that mankind finds so hard to do. Holding grudges and unforgiveness in the heart is so much easier. You can dwell in it every day, let it stew within your spirit and let it rot at your very inner being. You can let it take over your entire life to the point that it is mostly all that you think about. You can become so embroiled in it that nothing else in life matters and people start to steer clear of you because it's written all over you. It is that obvious to others when it consumes you. Forgiveness, on the other hand, is freedom from prison. It releases you and that person or all of those people from the bars that bind you. To not forgive is to simply continue to hold you in a prison of your own making, an internal hell that never goes away.
What was amazing about this, to me anyway, is that people were copying and pasting it to their own Facebook wall. I'm not talking Facebook "share" function, though 2 people did that as well, it was going down Facebook wall among and seeing this thing had been copied and pasted so many times over. I started wondering if this paragraph of words had spoken to them or if they were posting it in the hopes a friend of theirs might see it.
I purposely left out Scripture in this particular instance. The concept of forgiveness is obvious in Christianity, but I have so many FB "friends" that do not profess Christ as Savior and the thought came to me to leave that out. So I did. If someone else brings it up, so beit. I freely admit that I almost never unfriend Facebook people because as far as I see it, many of them are an open mission field. There are less than a handful of instances that I have unfriended people and that for very extreme circumstances.
And to the opposite end of thing, I have been unfriended at least 8 times in the last 2 weeks, lol, for my "religious" or political posts.
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My dad is blowing off coming up here to see Caleb.
But there's a good reason for it.
One of my uncles/his brother is dying and is only expected to have a few more months to live. Multiple Sclerosis.
Detroit has filed for bankruptcy. Sounds bad, but in reality? Best thing that could have happened to that city as long as they can also dump all that debt to pension funds along with it. Union leaders refused to negotiate with the state appointed manager that was sent to try to bail out the city, now those unions may end up getting screwed altogether. Unions, don't get it. They never seem to care about the fact that their unrelenting stance can end up hurting them as well as everyone else. That city is in a shambles, hope they can "fix" it.
Friday. Long work week. Just long. Hot, I guess is the operative word here. Middle of July, so about halfway through the worst of it. About the end of August the temps start coming down, though September is still usually quite warm, not as hot as June, July and August. Long ways off from that, though.
Anyway, time to get offa here and get to work!
G'day.
ben
Forgiveness. It's something that mankind finds so hard to do. Holding grudges and unforgiveness in the heart is so much easier. You can dwell in it every day, let it stew within your spirit and let it rot at your very inner being. You can let it take over your entire life to the point that it is mostly all that you think about. You can become so embroiled in it that nothing else in life matters and people start to steer clear of you because it's written all over you. It is that obvious to others when it consumes you. Forgiveness, on the other hand, is freedom from prison. It releases you and that person or all of those people from the bars that bind you. To not forgive is to simply continue to hold you in a prison of your own making, an internal hell that never goes away.
What was amazing about this, to me anyway, is that people were copying and pasting it to their own Facebook wall. I'm not talking Facebook "share" function, though 2 people did that as well, it was going down Facebook wall among and seeing this thing had been copied and pasted so many times over. I started wondering if this paragraph of words had spoken to them or if they were posting it in the hopes a friend of theirs might see it.
I purposely left out Scripture in this particular instance. The concept of forgiveness is obvious in Christianity, but I have so many FB "friends" that do not profess Christ as Savior and the thought came to me to leave that out. So I did. If someone else brings it up, so beit. I freely admit that I almost never unfriend Facebook people because as far as I see it, many of them are an open mission field. There are less than a handful of instances that I have unfriended people and that for very extreme circumstances.
And to the opposite end of thing, I have been unfriended at least 8 times in the last 2 weeks, lol, for my "religious" or political posts.
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My dad is blowing off coming up here to see Caleb.
But there's a good reason for it.
One of my uncles/his brother is dying and is only expected to have a few more months to live. Multiple Sclerosis.
Detroit has filed for bankruptcy. Sounds bad, but in reality? Best thing that could have happened to that city as long as they can also dump all that debt to pension funds along with it. Union leaders refused to negotiate with the state appointed manager that was sent to try to bail out the city, now those unions may end up getting screwed altogether. Unions, don't get it. They never seem to care about the fact that their unrelenting stance can end up hurting them as well as everyone else. That city is in a shambles, hope they can "fix" it.
Friday. Long work week. Just long. Hot, I guess is the operative word here. Middle of July, so about halfway through the worst of it. About the end of August the temps start coming down, though September is still usually quite warm, not as hot as June, July and August. Long ways off from that, though.
Anyway, time to get offa here and get to work!
G'day.
ben
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Work. Irritating. The new kid working there - he's 23 but in terms of work ethic or follow-through, he's a juvenile in every sense of the word.
Lazy, doesn't listen and sloppy. Sits on the internet at work half the day and smoking the rest. At least that's what it appears like when I'm there - more on the road than anything. But my manager kept him outside all day long, putting this kid into a "big-time penalty box". I just have little respect for someone that doesn't want to put forth any effort unless the manager has directly tell them to do something. There is plenty to do around there, it's just stuff he doesn't want to do, such as sweeping the rocks up off the asphalt.
But this morning was enough. He had several different types of pipe stacked up in piles, all in a line. Well a contractor showed up this morning needing 500 feet of some of the pipe in that line of pipe. I couldn't get at it without either having to move a LOT of pipe or attempting to slide it out sideways. I got it out sideways, but geeze. After finishing that project - I get there before anyone else and if there are contractors at the door, I take care of them and get them whatever they need - I go to the semi to find the cheater bar has been dumped on top of one of the fuel tanks. Scratches all over everything, my manager would NEVER do anything like that: New kid.
I was starting to get extremely irritable about all of this and then come to find he was also supposed to have 3 huge fittings ready to go, which he didn't . My irritation came out to him after that, but I withheld the worst of it: Please put that thing on a pallet and load it on the truck, said in curt, short way intended to let him know that his lack of desire to do much of anything around there was getting noticed by everyone in the place and outside the place as well.
I'm going to discuss with my manager to keep that kid OUT and AWAY from the semi. He can bash things against the semi trailer all he wants, either nothing or very little will happen to hit, but the tractor? Get the freak off the thing and stay AWAY from it. I respect the equipment whether it's mine or not, I always have and I always will treat it like it's my own.
The list goes on of the things this guy does - that he has been instructed not to do - the manager I do believe is ready to start writing him up.
Well whatever. My friend's condition is so bad now that her son is the only way she gets around, she can't drive half the time she can't even stand up and for all the visits to the doctor, she hasn't gotten any kind of diagnosis. I invited her to come to my church on Sunday. I believe she is under demonic attack and I also believe that all of that can be put down. She committed to coming regardless of how she feels.
Invite to go up to the high country for a campout this weekend. Invite denied. Too much going on down here and anyway, if I were going to go, it would be with that family up to mom's property. Not that I wouldn't mind going on a regular tent-style camping trip. but it's just not in the cards this weekend - or if it were, I would have to leave on Sunday morning, early, to get back to church in time. I might consider it now that I think of it, I won't discount it, I just don't know if I want to go through all the prep work of doing a regular camping trip for only a overnight. Better to do that on an extended weekend on holiday, I think. Oh, this was a work invite - like a lot of people going up from work to get away from the heat and - allegedly - enjoy each other's company, lol.
August Vegas trip cancelled. My tenant's girlfriend's condition has not improved and she is still going to be on extended leave through August. Which bothers me not, I am still attempting to come up with a plan for August with my son, but some dates are unknown and I can't really do anything until he gives them to me.
Ummm, late. Got home from work - late. I'm done for the day, time to get ready to go to bed.
ben
Lazy, doesn't listen and sloppy. Sits on the internet at work half the day and smoking the rest. At least that's what it appears like when I'm there - more on the road than anything. But my manager kept him outside all day long, putting this kid into a "big-time penalty box". I just have little respect for someone that doesn't want to put forth any effort unless the manager has directly tell them to do something. There is plenty to do around there, it's just stuff he doesn't want to do, such as sweeping the rocks up off the asphalt.
But this morning was enough. He had several different types of pipe stacked up in piles, all in a line. Well a contractor showed up this morning needing 500 feet of some of the pipe in that line of pipe. I couldn't get at it without either having to move a LOT of pipe or attempting to slide it out sideways. I got it out sideways, but geeze. After finishing that project - I get there before anyone else and if there are contractors at the door, I take care of them and get them whatever they need - I go to the semi to find the cheater bar has been dumped on top of one of the fuel tanks. Scratches all over everything, my manager would NEVER do anything like that: New kid.
I was starting to get extremely irritable about all of this and then come to find he was also supposed to have 3 huge fittings ready to go, which he didn't . My irritation came out to him after that, but I withheld the worst of it: Please put that thing on a pallet and load it on the truck, said in curt, short way intended to let him know that his lack of desire to do much of anything around there was getting noticed by everyone in the place and outside the place as well.
I'm going to discuss with my manager to keep that kid OUT and AWAY from the semi. He can bash things against the semi trailer all he wants, either nothing or very little will happen to hit, but the tractor? Get the freak off the thing and stay AWAY from it. I respect the equipment whether it's mine or not, I always have and I always will treat it like it's my own.
The list goes on of the things this guy does - that he has been instructed not to do - the manager I do believe is ready to start writing him up.
Well whatever. My friend's condition is so bad now that her son is the only way she gets around, she can't drive half the time she can't even stand up and for all the visits to the doctor, she hasn't gotten any kind of diagnosis. I invited her to come to my church on Sunday. I believe she is under demonic attack and I also believe that all of that can be put down. She committed to coming regardless of how she feels.
Invite to go up to the high country for a campout this weekend. Invite denied. Too much going on down here and anyway, if I were going to go, it would be with that family up to mom's property. Not that I wouldn't mind going on a regular tent-style camping trip. but it's just not in the cards this weekend - or if it were, I would have to leave on Sunday morning, early, to get back to church in time. I might consider it now that I think of it, I won't discount it, I just don't know if I want to go through all the prep work of doing a regular camping trip for only a overnight. Better to do that on an extended weekend on holiday, I think. Oh, this was a work invite - like a lot of people going up from work to get away from the heat and - allegedly - enjoy each other's company, lol.
August Vegas trip cancelled. My tenant's girlfriend's condition has not improved and she is still going to be on extended leave through August. Which bothers me not, I am still attempting to come up with a plan for August with my son, but some dates are unknown and I can't really do anything until he gives them to me.
Ummm, late. Got home from work - late. I'm done for the day, time to get ready to go to bed.
ben
Sunday, July 14, 2013
It's funny the places they put water reservoir tanks. Like, frequently, out in the middle of the desert, in the middle of nowhere. They inform me, usually, that there is water under the ground there and hence, they install a tank and pumps and filters and all of that and walaah, fresh, clean drinking water. Well, that's the claim, anyway and that where I am at right now. In the middle of the desert, lol. They've got the water tank up but they have nothing else done yet. Lot of valves, pipe and pumps to put in.
I was talking with my friend last night and she is adamant that I take her Suburban with the gates up north and another trip with her son. We're slating that for 2 weekends from now. No, I guess it's 3 since I am including the weekend that starts after work today. 2 weeks, anyway. If I don't find any used gates by then, then I guess I will just have to see about getting them at Home Depot or Lowe's. Or now that I think of it, lots of places selling those chain link gates, start checking prices.
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Long interlude. Manager was jonesing to get me off work early today. But it was a non-happening-event (that's a benb original right there). I was way out east at 2 job sites and then drove clear downtown to the main branch and spent 2 hours there loading the truck up and the off to 2 different vendors, one of which took FOREVER to get the fire hydrants I was there to pick up. They have one dude there taking care of however many customers show up at once and there were 2 ahead of me. Not really complaining, though, it's part of the business of getting things: wait, wait, wait.
But after all that time waiting a dust storm started showing up to the east! They are now calling that Habubs, whatever, they are dust storms, that's what they were in the 70's, 80's, 90's and into the 2000's. Not until recently they apparently wanted to give them some "name". Well whatever the case, this one was over 3,000 feet high and visible for many miles away. I was like, dude, get that stuff and get it on the truck!! Hurry! Lol, I didn't want to be outside in that s***.
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Sorta skipped out on this entry, coming back to it a day and a half later. Sunday morning. Church in less than 2 hours. Was going to get a fence gate for the property off of Craigslist, but after I realized how far the drive was to get it and the savings maybe $15 over buying new, I canned that idea. Might as well drive 2 miles to get them new - this seller was 35 to 40 miles away. By the time you factor in fuel and the time it would take to get there and back, no savings at all, thanks for playing.
It's simple, really. If I don't find them used before next weekend, I will be buying them new. I would rather find them used at a much cheaper price, but so far there hasn't been any save the one in Litchfield.
Not much else going on - currently. I'm attempting to get some dates from my son as to when he will and will not be here so I can take a week off work next month when he will be around and spend some time with him. Getting him to get dates is like pulling teeth, however, and I have been trying for a while now. I'm gonna give up on it and just blow it off and save my vacation for some other time if he doesn't get me some dates soon, cause' I can't take a week off work without giving a good advanced notice. Other drivers may opt to put in for the time I might need and hence another reason to find out soon. But if he won't do it, he won't do it. I wrote him another FB message earlier to ask him if he can please get that date. Not to mention my mom is wanting to throw him a party up at the property up north, which he said he wants to go to, yet we have no idea whether he will even be in town on the date she is proposing.
Zimmerman is not guilty and of course those that wanted him found guilty are up in arms, crying foul and even going as far as to say that "America has betrayed us". I'm surprised there hasn't been any rioting yet. Sharpton - man with the mouth - calling on the Justice Department to do it's own investigation. Sorry, Charlie, the jury is in, the verdict has been rendered and as far as I can remember, persons charged with murder and found not guilty cannot be tried again or as it is called: Double Jeopardy (great movie, btw). Zimmerman is not off the hook entirely. In reality, where in this nation will he ever feel safe? His face pic has been plastered all over the news, unendingly, for quite a long time. Unless you don't watch or read any news at all, you likely have seen his face. People with revenge on their minds? You know there are. He'll have to live with that thought in his head the rest of his life and be looking over his shoulder.
I'm far more interested in the Asiana crash but little new material has been put out in the last several days about it. But then again, the NTSB usually take a very long time to come to a factual and final conclusion about any air crash disaster. But, to read the experts - one would conclude that this is a case of pilot error. Plain and simple and unfortunately, 2 people had to die because of it and a multitude more injured, some seriously, plus a what, $100 million airplane destroyed. I take that back, just looked it up, closer to the $300 million range!! Wow!! I was reading a 26 year pilot yesterday online who was stating that airplanes really don't have a shelf life. Older planes may have more maintenance to do, but for all intents and purposes, they can be kept in service almost indefinitely.
Too bad they don't do that with cars. Of course, if such a car existed, I wonder what the price tag would be for it, lol.
Enough.
ben
I was talking with my friend last night and she is adamant that I take her Suburban with the gates up north and another trip with her son. We're slating that for 2 weekends from now. No, I guess it's 3 since I am including the weekend that starts after work today. 2 weeks, anyway. If I don't find any used gates by then, then I guess I will just have to see about getting them at Home Depot or Lowe's. Or now that I think of it, lots of places selling those chain link gates, start checking prices.
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Long interlude. Manager was jonesing to get me off work early today. But it was a non-happening-event (that's a benb original right there). I was way out east at 2 job sites and then drove clear downtown to the main branch and spent 2 hours there loading the truck up and the off to 2 different vendors, one of which took FOREVER to get the fire hydrants I was there to pick up. They have one dude there taking care of however many customers show up at once and there were 2 ahead of me. Not really complaining, though, it's part of the business of getting things: wait, wait, wait.
But after all that time waiting a dust storm started showing up to the east! They are now calling that Habubs, whatever, they are dust storms, that's what they were in the 70's, 80's, 90's and into the 2000's. Not until recently they apparently wanted to give them some "name". Well whatever the case, this one was over 3,000 feet high and visible for many miles away. I was like, dude, get that stuff and get it on the truck!! Hurry! Lol, I didn't want to be outside in that s***.
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Sorta skipped out on this entry, coming back to it a day and a half later. Sunday morning. Church in less than 2 hours. Was going to get a fence gate for the property off of Craigslist, but after I realized how far the drive was to get it and the savings maybe $15 over buying new, I canned that idea. Might as well drive 2 miles to get them new - this seller was 35 to 40 miles away. By the time you factor in fuel and the time it would take to get there and back, no savings at all, thanks for playing.
It's simple, really. If I don't find them used before next weekend, I will be buying them new. I would rather find them used at a much cheaper price, but so far there hasn't been any save the one in Litchfield.
Not much else going on - currently. I'm attempting to get some dates from my son as to when he will and will not be here so I can take a week off work next month when he will be around and spend some time with him. Getting him to get dates is like pulling teeth, however, and I have been trying for a while now. I'm gonna give up on it and just blow it off and save my vacation for some other time if he doesn't get me some dates soon, cause' I can't take a week off work without giving a good advanced notice. Other drivers may opt to put in for the time I might need and hence another reason to find out soon. But if he won't do it, he won't do it. I wrote him another FB message earlier to ask him if he can please get that date. Not to mention my mom is wanting to throw him a party up at the property up north, which he said he wants to go to, yet we have no idea whether he will even be in town on the date she is proposing.
Zimmerman is not guilty and of course those that wanted him found guilty are up in arms, crying foul and even going as far as to say that "America has betrayed us". I'm surprised there hasn't been any rioting yet. Sharpton - man with the mouth - calling on the Justice Department to do it's own investigation. Sorry, Charlie, the jury is in, the verdict has been rendered and as far as I can remember, persons charged with murder and found not guilty cannot be tried again or as it is called: Double Jeopardy (great movie, btw). Zimmerman is not off the hook entirely. In reality, where in this nation will he ever feel safe? His face pic has been plastered all over the news, unendingly, for quite a long time. Unless you don't watch or read any news at all, you likely have seen his face. People with revenge on their minds? You know there are. He'll have to live with that thought in his head the rest of his life and be looking over his shoulder.
I'm far more interested in the Asiana crash but little new material has been put out in the last several days about it. But then again, the NTSB usually take a very long time to come to a factual and final conclusion about any air crash disaster. But, to read the experts - one would conclude that this is a case of pilot error. Plain and simple and unfortunately, 2 people had to die because of it and a multitude more injured, some seriously, plus a what, $100 million airplane destroyed. I take that back, just looked it up, closer to the $300 million range!! Wow!! I was reading a 26 year pilot yesterday online who was stating that airplanes really don't have a shelf life. Older planes may have more maintenance to do, but for all intents and purposes, they can be kept in service almost indefinitely.
Too bad they don't do that with cars. Of course, if such a car existed, I wonder what the price tag would be for it, lol.
Enough.
ben
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