Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Tuesday 12/27/2011

I'm in a bit of a mood after calling Quest, well now called Century-Link - whatever name the company goes by, the customer service completely and totally sucks grapefruit sized golf-balls - and this time not listening to them at all.

I'm not going to listen to some "customer service respresentative" in the Philippine Islands attempting to dictate to me how things are going to go.  I am quite disgusted with this company and I am ready to move on.  I'm going to have to ask Cox internet if I can still use the router/modem that I have with their service.  It's a Motorola 3347, it's provided by Quest and I - have doubts it will work with Cox, with is the major drawback to switching and having to buy a new router.

Well whatever.  I did not sleep well last night and I was tired all day at work.  I got home and took a 75 minute nap and felt better.  I found out today that our branch is going to be closed on Friday - all well and good but I am - long interlude, a phone call distracted me from writing this entry.  I am going to bed early, I thought, instead, normal time.

It was the friend from the past.  Now I have been invited to dinner tomorrow night.  Lol.  Yes, I am going, but it was with the caveat that I can't stay late, sorry, gotta get up early for work.

Well, you can read into that whatever you wish.

G'nite.

ben

Monday, December 26, 2011

Monday 12/26/2011

So, yesterday, my friend from the past calls.  She had called earlier in the week and asked if I would come over and show her how to use a new chainsaw she had purchased.  I decided to go over, why not - though I knew what was in store: cutting up logs for firewood.  I got over there and found out the husband - they are divorced - was there for Christmas to visit with the kids.

I mean , really?  I was a bit reluctant at the point to stick around, who knows what might be going through a man's mind of his former wife with another dude showing up.  Not that I was there to do anything like that.  Well, he was amiable enough so I just let it ride.  Sat around for awhile looking at all the old photos she - Mary that is - had, some from days I had totally forgotten about.  Kids were playing Black Ops with the dad, though the boy was making all kinds of jokes and hilarity.

Well, the day wasn't getting any younger, so I grabbed the chainsaw and headed out back.  Mary is on a very tight budget, she got the wood for free from somewhere and is doing whatever she can to keep her expenses down.  In this case, it's having a fire going 24 hours a day in her house to keep it warm enough that she doesn't have to turn on the electric heat.

Well, I got that thing fired up and they came out - Mary forcing the teenager to come out even though he didn't want to have anything to do with it - I cut the logs and they started splitting them using a giant steel wedge with a sledge hammer.  Lo and behold, about half way through this, an old friend calls Mary.  He and Mary were a couple in our teen years, that guy used to be one of my best friends in that day and era.

Mary talks to him for a few minutes, John that is, and then hands the phone to me, not telling him who it is that he would be talking to. I started out the conversation such as it would be in old times.  He had no clue at first.  My voice is deeper and raspier than it was back then - don't ask cause' I don't know why, it just is - so he didn't recognize my voice. But, Mary threw in "it's WW", one of my old CB handles and he instantly picked up on it. We talked for about half and hour, but I ended the conversation because we weren't done with the wood and apparently no-one else wanted to use the chainsaw.  Small saw, kept over-heating on the denser, heavier wood.

Got done with that and went inside.  Had some pie, got into all kinds of conversations with everyone there about nothing in general, just having some fun and then finally left.  I was invited back next weekend to watch a movie with them.  So, a little Christmas Day fun.

No work today and the end of 6 days off, 4 of which were mostly work, work, work.  Not that I mind, but I AM glad that there is another 3 day weekend coming up.  We will have Monday off for New Year's celebration.  I agreed to go back next weekend, btw, it was fun to spend some time with a family and not with just dogs and tenants all the time, lol.

I am doing much of nothing today.  I already went out and hit up the after-Christmas stuff.  I wanted a particular plant that always comes out at Christmas in the stores and is sold for $39.99 - a price I refuse to pay for a plant - and yes, they had them marked down to $9.99.  I am not really going to add more plants to the property at this point excepting if I see something that I really want at a great price. I have enough plants going and they take enough water in the summertime.  The City of Phoenix seems to think that the water supply to it's residents is a yearly money grab, raising the rate 5% 2 years in a row, I believe and I really want OUT of this city unless the new mayor is going to do something about it.

I also got another roast - I couldn't resist.  A much smaller one.  2 months down the road, maybe 3 - whenever really - get it out of the freezer and cook it.

Done with spending money on Christmas and presents.  Went a bit overboard, unfortunately.  If I don't spend anything but normal bills, I will be able to bring it back up.  I still have to spend some money on that trailer, but it doesn't have to happen right now.  I am content with what I have and anyway, I have 3 tenants owing/paying in a week or so.  Well, longer in the case of the "homeless" cause she doesn't get her first paycheck until after the first week of January.

Of course, tax return time is coming.  I have 4 more days of truck driving to have made it through this entire year without getting any warnings.  If I make it, I get the safe driver award which is a full week's paycheck. Meaning I am going to go out of my way to make sure I don't get caught up in any of the "hotspots" ADOT uses to set up portable scales and doing truck inspections.  I am not afraid of the weight, it's the inspections that get me going.  I just had a mechanic come and fix everything that truck needs fixing with, so if I do get pulled over, I would at least like to hope that there would be no violations found on the truck.

That's it.  For now anyway.  Mary just messaged me through Facebook, apparently she really wants me to come back over on Saturday.  She also wants me to stay up with her and her kids for the ringing in of the New Year.  I'm not sure where this is going, but I am not really looking at this point in time, if you know what I mean.  I go back and forth with that.  Sometimes I am searching, but then I go back to just not wanting to even get involved with anyone.    That has to do with the divorce - the amount of hell I went through just never seems to dissipate in the intensity of just how bad it was.  Like it happened yesterday.

Well, offa here.  Go outside and enjoy some fresh air, sit next to the ponds and listen to the waterfalls, watch the fish, pet my doggies and - enjoy life, really : )

G'day.  Hope you all had a great Christmas.

ben

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas! Sunday 12/25/2011

Merry Christmas to everyone, everywhere, friends and strangers alike!
Whatta crazy couple of weeks it's been leading up to yesterday's party.
All of that work - I can now put some of that off for a while and get back
to working on that trailer.  I put the money aside in a savings account to get
it moved up north whenever I can get it finished.

It was just nice to see that mother likes the trailer and that it has her stamp of approval.

I have enough food in my refrigerator to last for days.  In fact, several more trays of
food appeared in my fridge since I went to bed last night - I am guessing Caleb
must have brought it home from work.  Yes, he had to work yesterday but at
least he has Christmas Day off.  A new page in his life will be opening up with the
start of school next month.  He will be a very busy young man with all that he intends
on doing in going to school, going to the gym and working.  I'm proud of my son, he
has a good work ethic though I guess he doesn't much care for the job he is currently
working.

All well and fine, I told him, but make sure you find another job first before you go quitting that
one.   I covered car insurance for him last month, but I don't want to have to do that again.  I
want him to pay for his own car insurance and that's that.   I have enough expenses to have to cover
his as well.  He has a free place to live. I may change that as well.  If his work continues to give
him the hours he is getting, then I feel it fair at his age to pay at least a small amount of rent.  I heard a bit more chatter yesterday with my family and Caleb talking about his trip to Florida.  The reason?  I had guessed it before they left on that trip: her family attempting to talk her into moving back.  That's all well and fine, too, but don't be attempting to pressure my son into moving with her.  Let him make his own decision without pressure from either side.

As for me and today?  I am content to do nothing.  I was talking to an old friend yesterday who lives not far away, she was talking about me coming over there to spend the day with her family.  Dunno.  I'm pretty
worn out at this point.  I would rather just watch some Christmas movies, go hang out at my fish ponds and sit around doing a lot of nothing for a couple of days.

Oh!  Bashas' still has Standing Rib Roast on sale!  I started to regret not buying another, smaller one and have it freezer wrapped, put in the freezer and save it for some time in the future.  You just can't go out and buy Standing Rib Roast at $3.75 every day of the week. In fact, most stores don't carry that cut at all excepting this time of year.  I gotta say, the electronic thermometer?  I should have bought one a long time ago.  You can cook your large roasts to perfection with one of those things.  You know the exact, internal temperature of it.  You can cook it rare, medium rare, medium -- whatever you like.  No guessing games.  I cooked my roast to 142 degrees and it came out perfect.  Medium rare, I should say.  I like my meat rare, actually, but most people don't like meat as rare as I like it so I cooked it so that the edges of the meat were brown to about an inch in and then varying shades of pink and red in the middle.

I'm making myself hungry and I just happen to have 2, very large platters of that meat left : )  With all the fixins' : )

Time to go reheat dinner!

Merry Christmas!
ben

Saturday, December 24, 2011

It Is Over

..........but it was fun.  More importantly, I consider it a success.  I'm talking about the family Christmas party, at my house, today and I just sat down maybe half an hour ago after cranking in the kitchen most of the day.

I won't go into all of it, at least now, just because I am exhausted.  The dogs are not happy with me either - I stuck them out on the east/pond side of the house and made them stay there all day.  There were far too many people here to have giant dogs attempting to wander around, getting in everyone's facing and being an annoyance.

In fact, the whole thing started crazy.  Just before guests were to arrive, Prince's infection opened right up.  Blood/puss everywhere.  That was the reason I put them all over there - the blood was all over the kitchen floor, the cement outside, everywhere.  Of all times for that thing to open up...........well, I visited them several times today, but I made them stay over there much to Coco's chagrin.  I made it up to them, though.  Once everyone left, they were given a feast of Prime Rib fat, juices and even some meat.  They stood there and ate and ate and ate until it was ALL gone.  So much so, they are all crashed out right now, lol.

Prince's companions obviously spent some time licking out the wound and it is very clean and also no more ooze coming out of it, at least for now.

Mom loves my trailer.  The one that is going up to her property.  I didn't have time to go out there and visit with her when she went into it, so when she came in, she says: I am guessing that the trailer you want to put up on my property is the on in the back, yes?  Yes, definitely.  She thought the carpet was good enough and didn't really need replacing.  I suppose I could get it professionally cleaned and see what happens, but I would rather replace it to be honest.

Who knows, that entire project was put off with this family Christmas party and now, I can put off all the other stuff and get back to work on the trailer.

Anyway, the best thing is that everyone behaved themselves.  No political BS/bantering, no mouthiness, just enjoyed each other's company, ate fine food and exchanged Christmas gifts.  I scored $75 worth of Home Depot gift cards, yes!  Haven't even thought what I am going to do with it yet.  My middle brother gave me a bag full of stuff, including $60 cash, lol.  I don't mind cash, thank you.  Mom gave me the knife set from Germany - very high quality cutlery and very expensive - and several other smaller gifts.  I just got her the weather station she wanted.

My oldest brother showed me a 4-wheeler magazing -with his toy featured in it.  Wow!  Petersen's 4Wheel & Off-Road magazine. His Toyota thing and his mug are on a huge, almost page width and length pic.  He then showed me another toy he apparently just got done building.  I shook his hand when they were leaving and congratulated him.

This is the second time I have done Christmas and served a Prime Rib roast and a spiral ham.  I was amazed at how much meat was consumed, but being a 15 pound roast, the Prime Rib leftovers were quite sufficient to send home with everyone.  But the ham?  Almost totally consumed. The glaze I made was a simple honey, concentrated orange juice and brown sugar mix.  Delicious.  My oldest brother's wife - well she wanted that ham bone last time so I offered it to her again.  Makes a nice soup, I guess.  She said no, whispering that she didn't want to take something my mom would want.

Well, I had already heard from mom.  I was going to give the Prime Ribs - rib bones - to the dogs as my Christmas present to them. Not that dogs know what Christmas is, but who cares. She went into this detailed explanation of how I could put those ribs in a slow cooker, put whatever I have at hand in  with it - and that was rather detailed as well - cook and have some delicious soup.  I listened and said great!  She's totally into that stuff - I love soup but I know how much she loves making soups during the winter - our version of it, so a bit later I went up to her and offered her the ribs.  I left a lot of meat on them, too.  She said no, I could make the soup.  I said  no, you can have those ribs and make a nice, hot, delicious soup out of it.

It didn't take much pushing.  She accepted and happily took them home with her.  I just called her - make sure she got home okay.  She didn't want to spend the night but dark fall occurred shortly after she left.  All's well, thankfully.  Linda - my brother's wife - took home the huge ham bone plus a lot of meat.

All in all - definitely worth the effort.  I am rejuvenated on my desire to get the trailer done, ready to go.  Not that I am starting on it tomorrow - tomorrow is Christmas and I might visit some folks, not sure about that yet, but I don't plan on working on anything.  In fact, I may just spend a quiet day enjoying the season.  I suppose I could take a hungry family some great food : )

That's it.  It ain't all, just that that's it for me for today.  I am content, full, happy and tired.

Merry Christmas.

ben

Friday, December 23, 2011

When They Get Here........

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>that's when I'll be done.
But the house looks quite nice, if I do say so myself.  A few more things, things I may just up and do tonight.  Or not.  Bathroom scrubbed.  Looks nice enough, but a fresh paint job wouldn't hurt.  No time for that now.

Cooking tomorrow.  I have everything I need.  There is going to be a lot more people showing up than this thing started out at. It's a good thing I bought a 15 pound roast, that's all I can say about that, plus an 8 pound ham.

I haven't found sites to cover the factor of a much larger roast, though.  Hmmm.  I have my meat thermometer, if nothing else, that sucker will tell me when it's internally done enough.

I think I have bored people to tears with my blog, not much readership anymore.   Thinking about quitting.

ben
Prince, the black Great Dane, has an infection just underneath his ear.  I hadn't even noticed it before today because of the location of the infection.  Prince has Gumbo the Elephant sized ears - they are huge.  Okay, not the size of an elephant's ears, but the things are massive.  I got to looking at this huge ball that is, undoubtedly, filled with puss and found the intruder.  A bite hole.  Undoubtedly, Prince and Duke got into it again and just as undoubtedly, Duke got his teeth in there.  This isn't the first time this has happened to either of them.

I immediately started the antibiotic treatment and probably am going to take him outsize and squeeze as much of that junk out of there as will come out.  Gross, yes, necessary - yes.

The kid showed up again today.  I started doubting that he was coming at around 9:00am and got busy with other stuff, namely, shampooing the living room carpet and working on my bathroom.  I told him I didn't really have time to work with him today, I just showed him what to do and he got busy.  He hauled all the rest of that rock.  There is no pile out there now.  It has all been spread out in the areas I wanted it done.

I continued on with what I was doing after that.  When he was done, having no ride to get home - his brother was somewhere doing whatever - I offered him a ride since I was going that way anyway.  His mother approved the ride and I went over there.  I didn't know they had a pond - but Elijah offered me to go take a look at it.  Yuck.  That pond is bright green.  It is so green with algae that you can't see ANYTHING in there.

His mom came out and we had quite the lengthy discussion about ponds.  She said she didn't have any idea how to get the green out of it after she brought the subject up.  Yes, well I have the answer and gave it to her: a UV sterilizer.  I also stated that that pond was sorely in need of plants.  I have given away a large amount of them in the last couple of days, I didn't know they had a pond, number one and number 2 that they needed plants for it.  I could have given all of them to them.  Well, just so happens I have another Umbrella plant that needs to be trimmed down quite a lot, plus my Yerba Mensa has several runners I could clip off and give to them.

Off to |Anna's Linens after that, picked up a few - cheap - items to spruce up the house a bit.  Then home to unload everything I had acquired from yesterday that I still hadn't unloaded.  Then off to Walmart.  I could not believe how much traffic was out there.  The major surface streets were moving at a snail's pace.  I ended up taking back roads to get to Walmart and saving myself at least 15 minutes of driving.  After Walmart, Gamestop. After Gamestop, Fry's Food Stores.  I have acquired everything I need to acquire for this family Christmas celebration excepting the chair for Caleb's computer desk. I am not going to sweat it - if I find one today, great, if not, then at least I got the desk for him and will work on getting the chair within the week.

I am not done with house yet, but I figure just a couple more hours worth of work and it IS done.  The last 2 weeks has been an amazing journey in a house and yard transformation.  The family will come and go, but the effort made will still be there.  So, I am on the downside to all of this. I need to pull out the Standing Rib Roast and pat it down with spices.  It's a 3 hour cook time, allegedly, at 325 degrees.  The ham will be in there with it. Spiral sliced ham and I am making a honey glaze to put on it.  Home made mashed potatoes; corn; Cobb salad and grilled Jalapeno Poppers are my input to this dinner.  Everyone else is bringing the rest.

I also found out today that my middle brother is bringing his son and another guest.  There are going to be a lot of people here tomorrow!

So, my break time is over. I am going outside to pick up the last remaining tools/items that we were using to get the yard in shape and put those away.  Then come inside and finish my bathroom.  Wrap presents, do some pre-cooking chores for tomorrow and it will be ready.  It has taken awhile, but the "magic" of Christmas has arrived back on my doorstep.

Hmmm, I did forget something.  3 Christmas cards to put the gift cards I bought into them.  Oh well, I will have time to run up to the store for that tomorrow morning.  I am home for the day.

ben

Friday 12/23/2011 The Final Day

I got so much done yesterday that today? Won't be a breeze, either.  I'm close.  Still have to finish buying some things and there is still some work left to do.  I got started on cleaning the carpet in the living room yesterday but got pulled completely off of that to work with that kid outside to get all of that done out there.  Basically, when you're working with kids, you really have to work alongside them in a project that requires as much finagling as that ordeal yesterday was.  Otherwise, you will not see the results you wanted and you only have yourself to blame.

Unfortunately, there is still much I want to get done out there and there is 30 minutes left of cleanup I need to get done out there today, but for the gathering tomorrow?  More than good enough.

I'm going to have to writer later, things just sort of blew up in my face right now, gotta go into overdriver.

Later.

ben

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Thursday 12/22/2011

First day of winter.
I wrote an ad on Craigslist to get some help on the east side of my house - thought maybe someone could use earning a few bucks and I want to get it done.

The funny thing is the people that are "begging" for money on there that say they will do just about "anything" to raise some finances - you reply to THEM and they won't do ANYTHING.  I got 2 whole replies on that ad. 1 from a person that doesn't speak English and another from a 14 year old kid.

Well, I opted for the kid.  Sometimes they are hard workers - sometimes they aren't.  I'm just not a big fan of people who live in the U.S. and don't bother to learn the language of the land which is why I did not opt for that other person.  You would think Spanish is the language of the land around these parts. _____________________________________________________________

Scored.  Got a worker, not some lazy @$$.  Kid worked his butt off for 5-1/2 hours and then he wanted to go home.  No problem and wasn't unhappy at all with paying him. He hauled a LOT of rock from one side of the house to the other while I was laying out the plastic and spreading the rock.   Still a bit left to do, but he wants to come back tomorrow so I stopped with it.  I don't really want to haul the rock anymore today, anyway, lol.

Took a nap.

Left. On the road.  Christmas present bonanza.  Gotta git -er done.  I didn't want to be rushing around tomorrow trying to find stuff, do that today in case there are any problems.  Got everything but the chair for Caleb.  I did get his computer desk, though.  I am not going to buy a new one and if I don't have it before Saturday, he isn't going to have a cow about it, I am waiting for "the deal".  One guy wanted $95 for his used one - probably a $300 chair but I decided against it.  $50 and no more.

This has been a LONG day.  If I didn't have these days off work/vacation, I would be screwed.  Well, this place wouldn't be anything like I want it to look, really.  The hard work outside is beginning to pay off.  It's starting to look really nice out there.  I still have stuff to do in here, but Mark has been cranking away for days now.  Cleaning the runner for the sliding glass door, scrubbing door framing and windows and all kinds of stuff.

I let one of those pond filters go WAY too long!  I spent an hour or more cleaning it out this morning.  There was so much fish waste in it, it was amazing.  Makes nice plant fertilizer.  But it's done and the other one was done yesterday so they are both pumping out high volumes of water. When they start to get clogged up, the water output goes down - and down - lol.

Well, I am off to finish the bathroom.  Caleb waited until 3:00 pm to call me and tell me we need to go to the college today to make the payment.  Nothing like waiting until the last minute.  I was out and about, far from the college.  I told him to go into my room, get my checkbook.  So he did.  But then I remembered that my dad sent him a letter that arrived today, I was hoping it was the check for school.  Sure enough.  So, I told Caleb to go cash the check if he could, but take my checkbook in case they wouldn't cash it.

So, he goes to the bank and deposits the check.  Gag.  Meaning, it won't show anything until after midnight.  So he calls me up from the college and tells me the card had been declined.  Lol.  Yes, son, because you deposited the check, you didn't try to cash it.  Oh well. I'm getting a lot of phone calls from him at this point. Finally, I get a call and they are now telling him the grant had already gone through, the money is available and the he doesn't have to pay ANYTHING.  It's a Pell grant.  It is paying for the entire school year plus his books.

But I made him do this alone.  Yes, I got the phone calls, but I made him go in there and deal with this himself.  He's 18, it's time to learn how to deal with life.  This went on for a couple of hours, he called me after it was done.  I asked him if it felt good that he was able to, basically, do this himself without either of his parents having to be there?  Yes, indeed.  So, he has dad's money if he needs it and he is getting a "refund" from the grant. Apparently they give you more money than you need to help pay personal expenses while going to school.  Nice of them, I guess, but you know who is paying for all of that.

Later.

ben

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Wednesday 12/21/2011

First day of vacation and acting like it.  Got up at 7:38 am.  That's 3 hours beyond my normal start up time.  I am sitting contemplating finishing the bedroom and bathroom - I didn't do anything on it last night.

Procrastination?  Hardly.  Just taking a breather, but in about 30 minutes I am going to go full out on it and get it all done today.  Hopefully, lol.  I have such a large list of things I want to get done, I'm not sure it will all get finished in time - but - I am not going to stress over it.  By the time Saturday gets here, it will look good enough.

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2 solid hours of work got the bedroom 99% done.  Tired of that (come back to it later to give the finishing touches), I went into the bathroom. Gonna scrub that entire room including the walls.  But I'm going to start alternating between inside and out of the house so I don't get burned out on one thing.  I am not really all that interested in doing all of this during what should be vacation time, but the end result will definitely be worth it.
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The All-Day Entry.  Took the shower doors off and outside where I thoroughly scrubbed them.  Then scrubbed the entire shower stall itself.  An hour's worth of work or more just for that.  Tired of this stuff, I left.  Went to Fresh 'N Easy for my spiral half ham.  No, I went to Radio Shack first, but that store was closed down.  Having no idea where the other locations are and not having my computer with me, I figured to try Fry's Electronics, but went to Fresh' N' Easy after that and then Walmart after that.  Had to get a couple new air pumps for my ponds, the other ones quit working.  Got a bunch of other stuff, too, and then headed to Fry's Electronics.  They had both nice and junky computer desks there (Caleb's Christmas gift).  Also found the weather stations that my mother wants.  Didn't really like any of theirs, so I am definitely going to go to another Radio Shack location.

Then I started looking on line for a nice computer chair.  I can get the desk at Fry's if it comes down to that, but the chair?  No way am I spending $150 or more on a good chair when people are selling off their stuff on Craigslist because of the bad economy.

Found several, but I'm home for the day and will take up this task tomorrow.

Going outside now to start cleaning out the pond filters.  They are covered with gunk and goo and I need to thoroughly clean both of them, a task I don't especially care for but it has to be done.

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First day of winter starts tomorrow.  I have gotten more accomplished today than I thought I would.
But I also - well I didn't really want to but I was looking around - come up with more things to do that need to be done regardless of whether family is coming or not.

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End of the day. Treated the house to the new Planet of the Apes movie.  I order it online, it shows on every receiver in the house.  I wasn't really being that generous: I wanted to watch a new release and that one stuck out because I have watched all of the previous movies - a lot of times - and because I just wanted to watch a movie. Well, if I'm going to do it, I do it on the internet and that way everyone that wants to can watch it as well. If I call Direct TV, it was good for the receiver I was calling for in my house. At least,that's the way it was quite a while back - I don't call Direct TV until the issues pop up.  I hate dealing with that company.

Lots done today, much to go.  Still looking for Caleb's computer chair - I think I found one.  It's a $400 chair, used, going for $95.  The pic shows it in excellent condition. I am either going over there tomorrow or -  I have found some cheaper ones that still look very comfortable.  If you're going to sit in a chair for hours playing your internet games or soon: doing school homework, the chair should be, at least IMO, be comfortable.  There is a set that states that being uncomfortable doing homework or in school for that matter helps to keep a person alert.

Whatever.

G'nite.

ben

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Tuesday 12/20/2011

I get off work yesterday and go to find a Christmas tree.  I usually have one long before now during the Christmas season, but, things have been piling up.
Well, I went to Home Depot which is where I normally buy one and they were all out.  They had a couple of them in the back of the Christmas Tree lot, but they apparently were not for sale.  The counter guy calls his manager to see if they are getting anymore: "We are all done for the season".

Wow, okay. Down the street to Lowe's.  They didn't have any either, and weren't getting anymore!

Christmas at Ben Kranks?!!! NO WAYYYYYY!

I sat in Lowe's parking lot and started thinking.  WHO always sells Christmas trees, even up to the last moment. Whitfill's!  That name finally entered my mind.  It's mostly a tree farm, actually, and the main location just happens to be 2-1/2 miles away from my house.  Which is good, cause'  I didn't really want to have a tree strapped to the top of my car for too long of a distance.

Fired up the music and zoomed over there.  Not only did they have trees left, they had a LOT of trees left.  Including one that was at least 25 feet tall, an elegant and stunning looking tree - with a price tag of $400, lol.  The lady working there was all kinds of cheery and definitely had the Christmas spirit. I hated to make it sound like I was being cheap, but I asked what the cheapest trees were.  I was hoping to hear $20.

Yes, she says, the Douglas Firs are $19.95.  That's my kind of price.  I am only going to have the thing maybe until New Year's, spending a lot of money on something that is going to end up in a recycling bin in less than 2 weeks - well it just isn't in the budget.  She took me to 3 scraggly looking trees which I summarily rejected. She continued walking around and found one that had no tag on it, but was one of the $19.95 trees, a beautiful specimen, perfect dimensions with an almost perfect "stick" on the top for the angel.

I started to grab it, but she said no, his lot guy would take care of all of that.  And sure enough, he got the tree, cut off a small portion of the trunk at the bottom, got some twine, brought it to my car, loaded it and tied it down for me!

I got it home and Mark and Lynnette immediately started working on it.  Okay.  I just sat there and watched, lol.

I also got nothing done on finished the room and bathroom project yesterday.  I got home late and I was too tired out to do anything with it.  Putting it off may not be so advisable, but, oh well.  I'll get with the program today after work since, after work today, I have 6 straight, full days off.  I can stay up late and just sleep in in the morning.  The luscious part of taking a lot of vacation days, for me anyway, is the ability to be able to sleep in past 4:30 am.  Get up at 6 or even 7 if I want to.  Some people think getting up at 6 is early, lol.

Well whatever.  Enough to do in the routing system today to keep me busy all day at work.  Love it.

G'day.

ben

Monday, December 19, 2011

Monday 12/18/2011

2 days of work - today and tomorrow - and then off for 6 days going back to work on Tuesday.  The painting in my bedroom has definitely been much more of a job than I had first considered.  I have one wall left to go - where my bed  and night table is and it will be done excepting some trim around the doors.  That needs a different hue of white - like as bright a white as you can possible get.

I have a couple more things to hang up in my bathroom and that will be done.  Well, a good cleaning but that is an ongoing thing anyway.

It was, after is said and done, nice to get that discount on that Omaha package yesterday.  This is going to be a very busy week.  Last night I was driving myself to get more done and then finally, I just plopped down on my bed and said enough.  Enough for one day, anyway.  It has been a bit of a plus to get that kind of motivation to get something done that you have been putting off - the painting of my room that is - but at the same time, that's because I have been working outside and there is still plenty to do out there.

I am not going to fret over it.  I have a lot of rock to haul over there from the other side of the house - over there being where I am working - but I have no intention of getting all of that done before everyone shows up on Christmas Eve Day. I DO intend on getting the areas around the ponds over there completed.  I want that to look nice.  It's probably around 3 or 4 hours worth of work to finish those 2 areas, I am guessing.  I did pretty much get the front done.  I mean, there is more to do out there but it is looking nice right now and if I don't do anything else out there this week besides a bit of cleanup work, I will be happy with it.

Well, anyway, I will crank out the rest of that room today, hopefully, after work, finish the bathroom today or tomorrow and have the rest of the week to laze around out there getting stuff done, yes, but not at a frantic pace (unless, of course, time starts to run out and I haven't got everything done, lol).

As for work today, plenty.  I pulled an order on Friday that hopefully was checked by my manager (I asked him to, this particular account has been giving us problems in them calling us and telling us something is missing even though we triple checked the order and then had THEM check the entire order after taking it out there) and only needs to be wrapped up, loaded on the truck and hauled out there.  Then back to the yard for 3 more orders going to another contractor.

It is rather interesting that there is this much work going on near Christmas time.  Historically, at this job anyway, that isn't the case at all.  The week leading up to Christmas is usually pretty much dead.  No problem for me, I would far rather stay busy, just an observation.

Later.

ben

Sunday, December 18, 2011

It Ended Amiably - Omaha Steaks

My annual call to Omaha Steaks to order a package for my brother and sister-in-law did not start out well.

I certainly did NOT call them to get into some sort of altercation with them. The light went off in my head: get it ordered or they won't have it in time by Christmas.

So I called.  Now, before I got into this, I have an account with them.  My name and what I have ordered with them is on file.

So I ask the lady that gets on the phone what kind of deal she can do for me.  Instead of asking me if I have an account or if I have ever ordered before - or ANYTHING a salesperson should be asking - she states that there are thousands of deals and that she cannot possibly go into all of them.  Wow.  "Well, then, please connect me to a supervisor and perhaps they can give me the information I am asking for". She hung up on me.

Anytime a customer service rep hangs up on me is the pre-cursor for trouble for that person and a deal for me.  But, honestly, I did NOT start out that way.   In the past, I ask them the same question and they go off into the most popular, current deals that they have.

I call back, of course.  A different lady answers the phone.  I explain that I was just hung up on by a person at her company and that I would like to speak to a supervisor.  She laughed at me:  YOU want to speak to a supervisor because someone hung up on you?!!! saying it increduously, as if it were normal for incoming sales  call centers to hang up on customers that are pretty much determined to make an order and yes, pay for it then and there, on the phone, with a credit card.

Yes, I replied, I do, not saying anything to her about her stupid attitude.

Her manager gets on the phone.  I discuss with this person about the hang-up on the first call.  Well, he states, I will look into that.  Yeah, that doesn't work with me, not the way he said it, but I figured to play this one out and see what happens.  It's the inflections and tones that the way people say things that give it away for me.

When we get to the point of making an order, I decided not to.  I was dissed not by one, but 2 customer service reps and I decided I needed to call headquarters tomorrow when they are open.  He asks why and I tell him.  He didn't know because I hadn't told him about the second person.  He says he will review the call after we get off the phone.  No, I stated, you review the call now and then get back to me, because I have been treated quite rudely for no good reason and I WILL be getting a discount on my order.

He was surprised.  He then stated he would have to end the call with me to review that call.  Okay, review the call and call me back, here's my number.  He says fine, but if he doesn't get back to me............EXCUSE ME?  WHY would you start telling me you aren't getting back to me after you just stated you WOULD?  I give him my cell phone number and we hang up.

15 minutes later, he calls back.  I will say that this is the first time ever that I have sat here and listened to a supervisor telling me the conversation he had with one of his employees.  That is pretty much taboo, but I listened to him because - fascinating.  The woman tried to finagle out of it.  He stated that it is simply intolerable to laugh at a customer who wants to speak to  a supervisor regardless of what you think about it. The person I had first talked to that hung up on me had gone home for the evening and that, apparently, is the reason she hung up on me!! ROFL!!

End of the story: Same deal I got last year for $30 less PLUS 18 hamburgers added for free and of course free shipping.

That's not a bad deal, at all!  I thanked him quite well and wished him a Merry Christmas and - end of call.

ben

Sunday 12/18/2011

Got up this morning around 6:00am, had my coffee and then got busy with the painting.  I'm about 2/3rd's done with it now.  I would have it all done but I have to move furniture from the walls and so I was doing sections at a time so the entire room wasn't thrown into chaos, but alas, it is in total chaos anyway and I am going to spend the rest of today attempting to get it all done or most of it anyway and get it back together again.  I am cleaning the carpet and cleaning underneath, behind furniture and everything, it isn't just a paint job, hence it is taking longer.

Anyway, got 2 walls almost done excepting for some of the trim work and then took a shower and headed off to church. A highly amusing Christmas program they put together and then a Christmas Brunch, they called it, afterward.  More like a complete Thanksgiving dinner!  Sat around talked with some folks for a while, though the next time I want to invade other people's table privacy and see about getting to know more people in the church.

I left there and headed straight for Home Depot: must get 2 more gallons of that paint that is on close-out before it's gone.  Then headed to Bashas', the grocery store selling the Standing Rib Roast for $3.67 per pound.  Well they didn't have a big enough roast out.  Including me, there will be 11 people at this dinner (3 more added this morning, gotta call from my other sister-in-law who found out I am doing Christmas dinner and wants to come).  "Do you have any bigger roasts?".  The kid (I mean, if this boy were 18 years old I would be surprised) said he would check.  They have the Large End rib in a bigger size, but I would have to pay more per pound for it.  Better cut of meat, apparently.  I decided a few extra bucks for a larger roast would be worth it.  He came out with a 15 pounder.  Plenty big enough for everyone considering I am also going to get a half ham.

Half ham coming from Fresh and Easy.  The rest of everything coming from Fry's.  Trying to keep the cost down - going to 3, possibly 4, different stores may sound like a time waster but it's definitely going to save money, so no biggies.

So, here and now.  Just sort of sat here for a while attempting to let some of this food I ate at church digest a bit.  But, fun-time is over, I need to get back to work on that bedroom and the bathroom.

Later.
ben

Saturday, December 17, 2011

There is nothing that spruces a room up quite like a fresh coat of paint on the walls.
In my bedroom, hadn't been done since the house was new. I'm not done yet, but I have the hardest part of it done.  Still have to move some furniture, though. Home Depot was closing out Martha Stewart Living paint - which is usually pretty expensive, was half price.  They were closing it out. I am going to have to go back today or tomorrow and get a couple more cans for future use.  You don't find quality paint at that price - hardly ever. 

I also bought some cheap, new mini blinds.  I didn't really want to spend a lot of money on this project, just wanted to get that fresh, new feeling back to the room.  I was surprised they sell mini-blinds for $5 each.  They do, of course, have much more expensive and equisite looking versions, but this will have to do for now.  Christmas is almost upon us and I haven't bought but one present so far.  Now that I know that my family is coming, I am going to have to come up with something for everyone.

Caleb and my mother will be easy.  Actually, now that I think of it, so will my brother and his wife.  My middle brother - a bit more difficult.  Caleb is easy because he told me specifically what he wants, and I best be getting about finding it.  Mother also comes up with a specific list, but a hand sewn quilt should be arriving by Christmas time to give to her.  My oldest brother, I just give the Omaha steak stuff every year. 

In fact, I am just taking a short break here.  I have a guy coming over to take some of the over grown pond plants.  Just break off the overgrown parts, put into a trash bag, take home and replant.  They look really nice and they grow like weeds.  I try to give the stuff away versus throwing it in the trash, lots of people have ponds with no plants.

I am also attempting to give away the love seat that I have tried to sell, off and on, for the last 6 months.  Just posted an ad.  I need it out.  It looks tacky in my living room. BTW, I am typing this on my new laptop, the keyboard is MUCH easier to use than keyboards I have encountered with other laptops. Or is this a notebook? Well whatever, there is no difference, really. 

Back to work.

12/17/2011

The Police.
I'm walking out the front of my house today to go put power on the card - I totally forgot and looked, there was 12 cents left on the reader, lol.
There is a cop standing out in front of my house with my hoarding next door neighbor who is pointing at the concrete in my driveway.
Curious as to what they are doing, I walk over to the officer who starts talking about the blood in my driveway.

So, one of my tenants takes the dogs for a walk yesterday.  However it happened, one of them had a toenail ripped right off his paw.  Yes, it bled and it bled well.  Paws tend to do that.  There was blood everywhere.  So, someone called the cops. Instead of starting an altercation, I simply brought the dog out and showed him the ripped off paw nail.  That dog is not feeling well and I have been giving him low dosages of aspirin to help with the pain a bit.

Whatever.  I stayed up late last night.  My son's hours are so totally different than mine that I hadn't seen him since left for Florida 17 days ago.  He and JD - the kid that comes over to get on the internet at night - were babbling away and I joined in the conversation until - 1 AM.  For me?  That's like not going to bed at all.  But we had a good conversation.  I didn't go into some of the stuff - my ex wife is mad at me again because I disagree with how she is attempting to handle our son's education.   This is the way it has been for 2 decades now, if I disagree with her about anything, even a minor issue, she goes off the deep end.  She ALWAYS has to be right.

Well, I got up late this morning, another almost unheard of thing, at least for me.  Funny thing? I slept 7 straight hours, something that almost never happens.

Regardless, I feel fine today and I am heading out.  I have a lot of stuff I want to get done before Christmas - things that I have put off.  Painting my bedroom and bathroom one of them.  New blinds in there as well - the old ones have basically fallen apart and I want to replace them if I can find the right size.  So, painting, replace blinds and extreme cleaning.  Like moving the furniture and beds type of cleaning.

Nothing like a bit of motivation to get things done that you have put off, aye?

Got several stores to git to, better git to gittin'.

Friday, December 16, 2011

Friday 12/16/2011

Isn't it amazing?  You get more hours on a paycheck - a LOT more hours - you figure out how much more money it is before you get that paycheck and then..........you also figure the government is going to take a huge chunk of it.  Somewhat depressing to say the least.  I don't go to work so I can have all of my money automatically taken by the government, total BS.

Whatever.  It just pisses me off.  A bunch of damn politicians who could care less about the people.  They have THEIR agenda which usually doesn't come ANYWHERE in line with the demands that the people who voted them into office made and expect to be fulfilled when they do take the position.  I could care less if we voted the whole lot of them out of office, both sides, and start all over again.

My dad is saving the day for Caleb.  He wrote me back and said his college fund for Caleb has plenty in it, apparently, much more than he needs to get things rolling.  Which is good, because otherwise, I was going to have to come up with $400 by the 22cd of this month.  I am going to have a serious sit-down discussion with my son about this fiasco.  It's really inexcusable.  You don't wait until the last minute to sign up for college, you get it done as soon as they allow you to enroll.  You have no idea what kind of problems you might encounter and THAT is the reason you get it done as early as possible.

Really, I am kind of inundated right now with a lot of junk going on that I am not particularly caring for, at all. This is Christmas and I want to enjoy the season, not have all kinds of things going on that are totally avoidable.  I told a WalMart checkout lady yesterday Merry Christmas and she looked at me in shock.  Her whole demeanor changed and she said: "Thank you VERY much!".  Doesn't anyone say Merry Christmas anymore?  Happy Holidays apparently are the norm now, which I also consider bunk.  The Holiday that is being celebrated is CHRISTMAS, thank you very much.

Whatever.  I am almost out of time before I have to leave for work.

G'day.

ben

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Standing Rib Roast

Ahhh, the small joys you get here and there.
There is nothing like a chunk of Standing Rib Roast, otherwise known as Prime Rib.
You never see it excepting at Christmas.  Well, maybe they are selling it at Thanksgiving, too.
I mean, yes, you can go into a restaurant and get it - which is all well and good - but to serve it at home?  You are going to pay a LOT of money for that roast!

Considering the price of food and especially meat is going up and up/inflation, I was surprised to see this particular cut of beef on sale at near the same it was last year.  Everything else has gone WAY up.  Just check out the price of a pound of bacon (not to be confused with their gimmicks of giving you 12 ounces and charging the SAME price in some cases as 16 ounces for it!) now and compare what it was a year ago.

Yeah.  This inflation was predicted a while back - like over a year ago and for 2012, if those predictions come true, food is going to cost a lot of money.

The term "double-dip inflation" is coming around a lot more in recent times as well - the prediction that 2012 is not going to be pretty.  Trust in the Lord, that's all I can say.

Busy weekend en-queue.  Rain? Yes, it's supposed to rain this weekend, if so, my activities will be indoors and getting some things I have - simply - put off.

It's nice to know, on a completely different subject, that I can still lift up and carry hundreds of pounds of weight from point A to point B.  That would be at work.  That may sound like a chore to most people, but I don't see it that way at all.  I was lugging this - metal thing I'll call it since a vast majority of people won't know anything about the material that is involved with waterworks - that weighed 200 pounds this morning.

We landed 2 accounts with existing customers -it's all bids, folks, you either win it or you don't - and on both accounts the material is extremely heavy.  I guess I'm going to have to take pics of it.  One item is called a "megalug".  They range in size, but the larger sizes are extremely heavy.  My arms have been muscling up quite nicely in recent - weeks actually.

Whatever, it's bed time and...............................................................time to go to bed!

Thursday 12/15/2011

The kid tenant that moved out while I was at work, giving me no notice and leaving owing me money..........wrote back to my threat letter.
You see, it's a waste of time for me to go after the people that don't have jobs.  They don't have any money and I would be wasting over $200 for - much of nothing.  Well, it goes on their record for 7 years, but again, if they don't have any money, then that is pretty much irrelevant.  If an eviction is on a person's record, likely any "good" apartment complexes are not going to rent to that person.

The threat letter was basically that I know where he works and that I can easily sue and win since he owes me.  In the cases of tenants owing landlords money, it's open and shut case, the judge rules in favor of the landlord every time unless there is some sort of mitigating circumstance (think: slumlord or landlord doing something illegal such as shutting off the power or water because the tenant isn't paying).

That apparently got his attention.  I saw his email in my box and steeled myself for the barrage of profanities and not-so-nice words that may be coming my way.  Instead of getting an earful through and eyeful, he stated that he had left for California, had to do something with his dad and that he would be back at the beginning of January and that he wants to try and work this out versus going to court.  I also had informed him I knew of the other court case he had already lost when an apartment complex sued him for unpaid rent and they - won.  Undoubtedly, they went for garnishment if they - he and his friends that were all living together - didn't pay up.

We'll see how that goes.  This weekend, I am shutting myself in.  I hope anyway.  I want to get the portions of the inside of the house that need some - changing - nailed down so I don't have to worry about it for Christmas.  I can then turn my attention to the multiple other things that need to be done.

Oh, and I will definitely be going to Bashas' (local grocery chain): they have the deal again on Standing Rib Roast (Prime Rib) for $3.87 per pound.  You can't find that kind of deal - anymore basically.  I want 2 of them, 1 for Christmas and freeze another one.  I need a Christmas tree and I still have all that work on the East side of the house left to do - it's rained and rained and I haven't done anything out there since the rain began.  However, it's done - at least temporarily - and I hope it will stay that way on Saturday, which is when I intend on getting out there as well and getting half (my goal, at least half of it ) done before the weekend is over.

I was thinking of asking for yet another day off on the week before Christmas - which is almost here - but I am not sure yet.  Will definitely dig into my vacation hours and I want plenty of that for this coming summer.

Well, my time is already up for pre-work rituals, time to go to work.

G'day.

ben

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Wednesday 12/14/2011

Hump day already.
Rained the last two days, supposedly going to clear up today.
I love the rain, don't get me wrong, but it's definitely put a hamper on the things I need to get done outside.
I did finally get the parts for my AC unit for the trailer yesterday - whether that gets done anytime soon or not considering everything else going on, I dunno.
Umm, sort of on cruise control here this morning, a bit tired and really can't wait until I get the 6 days off of work.  Much needed respite and time to do other things that I would like to do.
Regardless, work day almost here, gotta git outta here.

G'day.

ben

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Tuesday 12/13/2011

Another rainy day.  Day 2 of the rain and I have to leave for work in about 20 minutes.
The question is: do I leave the dogs inside?
I dunno. If it's still raining when I leave, I will probably leave the doggy door open and hope for the best.
Caleb is finally home - ie: he left all of his keys with the pastor's family in case they needed them for getting
in to water and feed the dogs while they were in Florida.
Meaning he couldn't drive the car.
Well whatever.  I have an extra set of keys but prefer not to give them to him because it's the ONLY extra set
of keys and those are those things that cost $25 to make duplicates of.

Hard to do landscaping work in the rain, I got nothing done out there yesterday and if it continues as it is this morning, then nothing will get done out there today, either.

Trouble brewing with Caleb's education.  I knew this was going to happen, I tried to avert it but, when she wants to do everything, usually something is left amiss and it ends up a clusterfreak.  Have to go into it later, but I am now trying to fix what was broken and I am definitely NOT happy about it.

Well whatever.  I have to get a couple of things done before leaving for work, now that I think about it, outta here.
ben

Monday, December 12, 2011

Got Hit With A ..............

..................... curve ball this morning at work.  I was supposed to go to a Conway (LTL/less than truckload freight delivery service, nationwide) terminal in west Phoenix to pick up some materials to deliver to a contractor.  Well, I don't go on such runs until I contact the inside salesman on the account and have him verify that the material is actually THERE and ready to be picked up - both are equally important.

Well, the salesman said he would check in an instant message type of thing.  Okay, meanwhile, I realized that after I had entered the building and began getting on with the day's work that it had started raining outside. And raining, and raining - you get the picture.  Well, I got busy with stuff in the will call, there is still a lot to do and no lack of things to get done.

A while later, the salesman messages me back:  Conway, for whatever reason, had transferred the material from the Phoenix yard to the distributor that we buy this particular material from  - to Globe.  That it would be there, in Globe, by 9:00 am.  Yeah, baby and finally: a trip out of town that takes me to the mountains instead of the desert southwest.

It rained the entire trip there and the entire trip back. I got out the Verizon broadband device and saw the thing giving me 3G service all the way up to Superior.  Outside of Superior, on that particular road, you go up a 7% grade in steep canyons and yes, the service went out, but no biggies. At the top, service back again and there is nothing up there, no towns, nothing.  Into Globe - would hope an area like that might have 4G - no go.  Not even Casa Grande had 4G service. In fact, the only place I have found with 4G service is the Phoenix area.

The 3G service is just slower is the only thing - I didn't know what to expect getting that service in terms of what has 4G service and what has 3G service.

Day not done early, I had to take that material to an extremely muddy and wet jobsite, I was surprised anyone was working out in this.

Well, got things to get done.

Later

Monday 12/12/2011

So, it's a challenge.
Get the things that need to be done - done - by the time Christmas Eve Day gets here.
This is, apparently, the day we are doing Christmas at my house - so far anyway.
But, that is completely dependent - usually anyway - on whatever day my middle brother
can get off of work.  That is, if he's even coming.  If he does show up, he best be keeping
off the subject of politics, cause' if he comes over here starting that kind of trouble,
Christmas at my house is going to blow up on itself.

Not that that has never happened before.

So, fun fun.  I haven't even gotten a Christmas tree yet, though all the lights are up outside. My Santas and various other Christmas things are sitting around my living room, though.

Time has run out.  I wasn't really in a writing mood this morning.

G'day.

ben

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Sport Fishing

I was talking to Caleb on the phone. After his trip to Florida, he was all over going back out and going sea fishing again.  
I have finally figured out what the holdup is with him in things like this.  He is acutely aware, apparently, of both of his parent's financial concerns and problems and doesn't want to be a burden.  So, when I say something about going on another fishing trip and he gives me a blank look, at the time, I didn't get it.  I thought he had a good time, so what was up?

When we were talking yesterday about this, he said he really wanted to go again and this time he would save up for the entire trip.  Ummm, yeah, well I don't know if he realizes how much a trip like that costs.  Even on the cheap you are going to drop some Benjamins.  A number of them, actually.  I see now, it's all about money and that he wants to be able to help out.  But he already helps his mom with money - she is unemployed yet again as she was let go of her recent job find.  It's a bit of a story, but it didn't sound like such a great place to work at, anyway.

I replied we could go this summer sometime and if he could contribute towards it, that would be great.  I REALLY want to do the overnighter.  Actually, it's 2 nights now that I think about it.  You leave the dock at 8:00 pm.  The boat cruises to the fishing area while you sleep in a bunk.  Boat arrives the next morning and you get up and spend the day fishing.  Night comes, the boat leaves and comes back in the next morning.  $195 per person, plus food, tackle and permits.  Well, you can bring your own tackle, but I am not going out and buying all that stuff.  I would definitely buy some lures, though.  People using their own lures was what was really catching the fish last time.  

I suggested to Caleb that we might rent a small boat and go out on one of the nearby lakes and sorta get a better feel for fishing. I used to love fishing as a kid, but life and it's issues have mostly gotten in the way of much of anything.  Not that I care, it is what it is, nor that I'm complaining, but, that's the reason I set out to get the 5th wheel travel trailer and get it, eventually, up to mom's property.  There is more to life than living in the polluted, vile city.  I hate living here, I hate it.  I ESPECIALLY hate hate the neighborhood I am living in, but I have gone into that quite enough.

Now I have a better feel for what's going on with him.  He wouldn't eat much while we were on the boat last time and I only found out afterwards why: he thought it was too expensive and he didn't want me to have to spend a lot of money on him.  Well what are dads for?  I am glad, though, that he is on that end of things instead of the "Gee, you are dad, you must be an ATM machine, please gimme, gimme, gimme" attitude that I have seen in kids these days that makes me want to puke.  Hopefully he gets a nice paying job after school and will have learned about saving versus spending everything that you get in.  But, while I am on vacation, I expect to have to spend exorbitant amounts of money on food when you have no other choice.  If we do this again, I will let him know that: you hungry, get something, they put it on my tab, I don't really care.  Not like I do that everyday.  

Well, I am going to go back outside and try again.  I had absolutely no motivation when I went out there an hour ago trying to do the same thing: resume the landscaping project and grass cutting stuff.

Later.
ben

Sunday 12/11/11

Christmas draweth nigh.
........and I just found out last night that I am supposed to be hosting the family Christmas get-together this year.
Nice.  Lesseeeee, a 14 day notice. Hmmmm.  Okay, I didn't exactly tell her yes, yet.  I said I would give an answer by.......today, actually.

This all started when my sister-in-law called her yesterday asking if we were doing Christmas at my house, apparently it's my turn.

What I am waiting on is to take an inventory of what, exactly, I will need to do to get the place in order for that kind of thing.  Well that inventory is done.  The work? Has not begun, though Mark did spend quite a bit of time putting up all of my front yard Christmas decorations and it looked really good last night when I came home from that party.

However.  There is still to finish the landscaping project out there, though at least for now, if I just finish the part I started a week ago - I have not had time to do anything out there - it will look pretty good.  Then the side of the house, that is going to take some time.  I have issues in my main bathroom - which aren't a big deal to me, but if my family is going to be going in there using that bathroom then I am going to have to fix a few problems in there.  Mark will help with the house-cleaning portion and so, I think it is doable.  I don't have to have a perfect house for my family, but, it's got to look really good, as far as I'm concerned.

Now, of course, that doesn't include Christmas dinner.  Last time family was here, I served Standing Rib Roast that I had acquired while on sale at 50% off normal prices.  I dunno if such prices will be available.

First project done: clean out the refrigerator.  I got to looking at it while writing this entry and decided to get that P.I.T.A. job done.  Done : )
Off to the races!
G'day.

ben

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Saturday 12/10/2011

Well, church Christmas party was fun.
The food at that restaurant was good, too.
For whatever reason, the pastors were going out their way
to make sure I was feeling at home, but I am pretty capable of
doing that even in a crowd full of strangers.  I just haven't WANTED
to get involved in such for quite some time now.
After the restaurant, a large portion of the crowd went to
one of the older couple's home for dessert.  I had one treat and
that was it, though I did have a couple of cups of hot apple cider, yummmm.

Today is the company Christmas party. One thing that makes a party like
that a bit unbearable is when the attendees are getting to the highly inebriated
point.  Even if I were so inclined, I couldn't do it anyway.  Drinking and driving?
No thanks.  I would have to sleep it off in my car on their property, which I am
sure wouldn't go over too well, either.

There is a huge difference in carrying on a conversation with a straight, lucid person
and attempting to carry on one with a person that is stone drunk.  At least there
will be the Cornhole competition, that was fun last year and the year before.

Whatever the case, the food is always REALLY good, the main warehouse manager
is bringing his "pecan-smoked brisket' and his BBQ'ing is always awesome.  I think
I will plan on having a couple of beers, smoke a cigar, do the competition and then - go
home.  I haven't had a cigar in like 2 months now, I vowed to myself to slow down on
those things and sure enough, it wasn't too terribly hard to do so since I was not a daily
smoker and wasn't addicted to nicotine.

Umm, so whatever.  I have so much to do and so little time to do it, I love Christmas but I have to say this year is getting a bit out of hand.  Fortunately, this party starts at noon and that is the way I like it.
Much rather have a day time party than something that drags way into the night.

This, is sick:  "Hayes was convicted last year of raping and strangling Hawke-Petit and killing the girls. The girls died of smoke inhalation after they were tied to their beds and doused in gasoline before the house was set ablaze. Komisarjevsky was convicted Oct. 13 of the killings and of sexually assaulting Michaela."


I remember seeing the dad on TV news - wow.  He lost his entire family to these evil thugs.  He didn't just lose them, either, his family was basically tortured to death.  I wonder if this kind of crime would continue to go on if the people killing others in a manner such as these "men" did were to receive the same exact recompense as punishment?  Just kind of slowly boil them alive hanging above open flames.  I suppose it would do nothing to stop those kinds of crimes and would just make us all into barbarians and uncivilized, but still.  I just know how I am: if I lost my kids to 2 guys that came in and tortured them to death, including dowsing the girls with gasoline and setting the house on fire, I would just want to kill them myself.  Don't worry about the death chamber or electrocution chair or putting these guys up in a prison cell for 2 decades while they exhaust all the appeals, I'll just take care of this myself.  At least those "dudes" are both on death row is all I can say about that.


Well, whatever again.  I guess I better get out the salami, summer sausage and the cheese and start cutting.  It doesn't take long to get a cheese try ready and I didn't want to open the packages until maybe a few hours before I have to leave.  


Later.


ben

Friday, December 9, 2011

Christmas Party

It totally forgot this morning that tonight there is a Christmas party as well as tomorrow afternoon.  So, off to Riazzi's in Tempe in a bit.  This one is with the church folks, the one tomorrow is the company party.
Anyway, I processed my hours today for the pay period: 93.4 hours when there is normally 70.  Indeed and very nice.

So, busy busy. We are getting all kinds of OT because the company isn't sending us any help and the work has to get done.  About the time management sees the hours we are putting in - they may or may not help to alleviate the problem, who knows.  I don't really care, either, I will work these hours for a long time before I get tired of it, it would get me WAY ahead on everything.  But, somehow, I doubt this is going to be long-lived.  I will guess they will send someone over from the main branch to help out with stuff and not have to hire anyone new.  The only bummer about getting off late from work is that the sun is going down much earlier and I can't really get anything done on the landscaping project much less the trailer project.

My manager said he was only going to show up for 3 hours on Sunday and just let it go as far as the rest of it, he is getting a bit upset about the fact that we aren't getting any help.   Since he is going to do that, I probably will not be showing up on Sunday, or if I do, I will leave in time to go to church.  So, get there at 6:30am and leave at 9:30 am.  Or not, I would rather not.

Well, I was just waiting for my clothes to dry in the dryer, should be about done.

Outta here.

Friday 12/9/2011

Friday. But, a busy weekend en-queue.  If I recall correctly, Caleb and his mother should be coming home from Florida today.  Christmas party tomorrow and allegedly working on Sunday.  Mark is going to put up Christmas lights for me.  I didn't tell anyone they had to, I was just lamenting on the lack of time to get anything done around here.  I still haven't been to the parts place to get that stuff for the AC unit.

One thing I do have to look forward to is 6 days off at Christmas time.  But, at least 2 of it is going to be travelling.  I'm guessing by the time it gets here?  I'm not going to want to go anywhere.  But, dad wants to see me and Caleb too if possible.

Christmas gifts will be on the lighter side this year. Caleb wants a computer desk and chair for his room - which I haven't even begun looking for yet but it won't take long to find what I am looking for so no biggies there.  Umm, I will probably get him a very nice and comfortable computer chair with the caveat that it is going to be used.  It's really no fun sitting in an uncomfortable chair while doing internet stuff.

Mother is going to get the home made quilt and probably something else small thrown in for yucks sake.  My oldest brother and his wife will get the annual Omaha steak thing - I think this will be the 4th year that I have sent it to them, they always say they love it so I just keep doing that since they have everything they need  in life and their want list is FAR too expensive for anything I am willing to shell out for.  I dunno about my other brother, haven't spoken to him in well over a year now.

There is just plain too much going on both at home and at work and I am in need of some down time here.  Especially the work situation which has been extremely stressful with a manager who is going out of his mind attempting to deal with all of this stuff going on with the move and dealing with unbelievably rude and mouthy salesmen who are making accusations that are getting into upper management's ears and so on and so forth.  It doesn't take much to "trickle-down" in a 2-man operation.  We are getting truckload after truckload after truckload of material sent to our yard which isn't ready to receive all of it - they haven't paved the main portion of the yard yet and it is completely unusable until they do.  Instead, the conditions on the external part of the building are getting very cramped and not much more room available for anything else.

I'm not really sure I even want to go to a company Christmas party with some of these yodels that will be there that have been making life extremely difficult.  They think all of the movement that goes into getting an order pulled, palletized and on the truck and ready to go is all magic, just snap your fingers or wiggle your nose like on Bewitched and it's done.  Ohhh, that it would be so easy.  All day today?  Will be overtime the second I clock in this morning.  Speaking of which - time to leave for work.

ben

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Finished

I have been looking for a Christmas ornament that I can send out to this group that started this year.  An ornament club.  Well,  it sounded like a good idea and you would be surprised at some of the quality ornaments I have received.  In fact, some very nice home made ornaments.  Umm, well I wasn't going to do that, but I did finally find some great Indian-made stuff that I figured to fit the bill perfectly.

Since I had to buy so many of them, I was able to get them down on the price by a buck each.  I got the bubble envelopes from Walmart, it is done and ready to take to the post office and send out.  A bit late, perhaps, but should be a most people's homes by midweek next week, no biggies.

I witnessed an accident today.  Well, it wasn't really an accident.  In fact, it was pure aggression and road rage as far as I'm concerned.  Now that I think about it, I should have pulled over and told the police what I saw, but I was on the freeway and no way I could stop, in fact, I had to swerve to avoid this nonsense and do some hard braking as well.

I was Westbound on the Superstition Freeway.  The on ramp from Country Club drive is  2 lanes, not 1.  At the "end", you have to merge into the 1 lane if there are cars close to each other.  Merging is exactly what didn't happen today.  To the contrary, in fact, very much to  the contrary.

You see, I was going to get off there - that lane to get on the freeway also goes to get off the freeway.  I noticed out of the corner of my eye some strange movements of the cars and I looked over.  2 cars, side by side, neither of them budging to move out of the other's way in that 2 lane to 1 lane scenario.  The dude closer to me looks at the other dude and out of anger, I guess, SLAMS his car into the other car!  I have never personally witnessed anything like this!!

4 cars behind them pulled over as I was looking at this through my rear view mirror - those cars were sliding all over the place and I was in the next lane over slightly behind them, I was avoiding this garbage at all costs to the point that either stopping or getting past them was the objective: in this case, I got past them.  I was satisfied that they saw the same thing I did and moved on.  IF I had been in a position to pull over behind this crap, I definitely would have.

Well whatever.  Who knows how much of this intentional stuff goes on out here every day.

Whatever the case, I had to vent that.  Get it out of my system.  Unbelievable, really.

Time for bed.

ben

Thursday 12/8/2011

So, I am reading this story about a woman who could no longer afford her apartment somewhere in New York and has had to put her stuff into storage and move in with a friend.  She makes 50k per year.  She has lots of bills - don't we all.  I don't want to sound unsympathetic, but if you are making 50k per year and can't make it, it probably means you are living above your means and you need to - for one - find a cheaper place/area to live.  I know, that's the cold harsh reality of it, but a person making 50k per year is doing a lot better than the 14 million Americans who are unemployed and not making anything per year besides perhaps unemployment insurance if they are covered by it.

What does she need 2 bedrooms for if she's living alone?  Why does it seem that we all pressured, somehow, to live so far beyond our means that eventually, people seem to lose everything, including their hope.  I guess I'm just happy to have a place to live and be able to cover my bills, at least presently, and even though living in a rotten neighborhood, just sort of shut that all out and mind my own business.

I was informed yesterday that, because of all the work presently going on, my hours would be re-instated to 40 per week.  Not that I have not been getting that, anyway, at least recently.  Today? After 4 hours I will be into "real" overtime hours and carry that into Friday. If I show up on Sunday, all the more - though I am resisting this Sunday thing, I have a lot of stuff I need to get done and working on Sunday is not going to help that situation, at all.

I have to sit back and at least attempt to understand where some of these "higher" level managers at work are coming from.  More junk being thrown at both of us.  We did half a million in sales last month, which is a GREAT month, especially for a 2 man operation.  The claim was that I screwed up on an order.  This pertaining to some new type of material that I had never seen before coming into our yard.  Well, we already went through all of this last week: this particular part gets these particular bolts.  They are supposed to go together, but no-one told either of us at the branch about that little aspect of it and apparently we were supposed to intrinsically know that X goes with Y.

You have to understand that we just moved, the place is still half in chaos and while the move was being made, literally hundreds of pallets of material for 2 jobs came in.  When I finally got a chance to get over there and see what was going on, that stuff was all shoved into a huge sea of pallets and crates that were not organized at all.  Anyway, I was supposed to pull an 18 adapter and get an 18 box of bolts to go with it the other day.  I triple-checked my work.  I KNOW I pulled the right material.  But, a big to-do was made about it and my manager ended up doing an inventory count.  Our inventory is RIGHT on.  This apparently doesn't phase these managers, however, and apparently gave a tongue-lashing to my manager.

I have no idea what these people expect of us at this point.  I do have an idea that 2 of them dislike me and my work and - again - it's probably time for a plan B here.  These 2 individuals are - well I won't go into it here.  I won't go into Plan B here, either, for obvious reasons.  At the end of this road, I will go into all of it, but not now.  There is no point in it, because I am only reading into what I have been hearing - the actual reality of what I think is going on and what is really going on could be 2 completely different things.  This is a play-it-out situation and that's exactly what I'm going to do.  Play it out.  In fact, ........... no, inadvisable to go into any of it on a journal that anyone in the world can read.

My time is almost up for today's pre-work rituals.  I have Christmas lights to put up; yardwork; landscaping and other things such as the trailer though admittedly, the trailer doesn't have to be done anytime soon.  They received my parts for the AC but I haven't had the time to get over there and get them.  Once I do get them, however, I want to install them to make sure it's going to work.  The point? I have been getting off of work later and later, it's hard to get anything done in the afternoons while any daylight is left when you are getting home at 4:30 or 5:00 pm.  I am not necessarily complaining, my next paycheck should be wonderful.

G'day.
ben

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Wednesday 12/7/2011

Ummmm, still having trouble digesting the thought that those 2 and the entire family are not only back in the neighborhood, but one street over from me.  It isn't exactly surprising that the family is back in the neighborhood, however.  They have come and gone out of here many times over. They find a place to move into - under whatever circumstances - and then normally are forced out after a month, 2 months, several months, whatever and however long.  The story of their lives is moving from one place to another to another, leaving the properties they occupied totally and completely trashed.

When I say trashed, I mean trashed.  Whatever the mind can conceive in the destruction of a property both internally and externally, that is the definition of trashed in their case.

Whatever.  I am not going to go into all of it that leads up to where we are at in this situation again - takes too long and is already written out in this journal in previous entries, albeit long ago.  Caleb will most certainly become extremely agitated to find out they are living anywhere near us.  After they left, Michael admitted to stealing several of Caleb's things which infuriated Caleb.  Maybe I better just not tell him, I don't need him going and looking for trouble.

Well, this weekend looks to be extremely busy and I am not sure I am up to all of it.  I like my weekends the way I already do them, not filled completely up with stuff.  Friday night, I am allegedly invited to some sort of adult party thing at church.  Saturday is the company Christmas party and Sunday I have been asked twice now if I would work.  This means nothing but a blur of a weekend, basically, it isn't a weekend at all.

If I'm going to miss church on Sunday, I am going to have to consider going to the Wednesday service tonight.  I don't really like missing church at this point, even if I don't feel like going I force myself anyway.

It equips an intersection with a device that can tell if a car is going too fast to stop at a coming red light.  It would recognize that speeding car as a risk, and hold cross traffic a few seconds to let it pass. 


Read more: http://www.abc15.com/dpp/news/region_southeast_valley/chandler/New-red-light-camera-system-aims-to-make-intersections-safer#ixzz1fqvKm3tO


This is the new system Chandler wants to put in.  This system tells if a car is not going to stop at a light, therefore running a red light and holds up cross traffic. So what, do you think, people are going to do when they find this out?  I am guessing it will only coax a person inclined to run red lights to run even more red lights.

Who knows, I think it's a stupid idea considering the implications if you really think it through, but I have to get off to work.

G'day.

ben

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Michael and Anthony

No, they aren't back in my house.  Never will be.  I will not tolerate the kind of - shit - that I need not go into here since it's completely written out in this blog - that I received from them. 

What is the point then, of writing about them?

I came home from work today and saw their sister and one of their little brothers on the vacant lot that is owned by 350 man - actually his mother - directly across the street from my house.  My instant thought was: "no good thing can come from this, why are they there and where did the come from? Are they back in the neighborhood?". 

The kid that has been walking my dogs answered that question later when he came over and I asked if he knew anything.  Yup, they moved into a house the NEXT street over.

So, this entire family is living less than 100 yards away from me.  This isn't anything that I can say is a pleasant thought, at all.  The first things that came to mind when I heard this was theft and destruction.  There are no morals in that family.  There are no boundaries,  these people actually believe that since they are extremely poor, that therefore entitles them to do whatever they want or need to,  including burglary; theft; criminal trespassing and a list of other things. 

I can only say that getting Mark and Lynnette back on the property the same day I found out that the tenant had left while I was at work was not just chance.  There was a great unease in me when they left.  I attributed it to the characteristics of this neighborhood.  And so beit. 

But, with all the other BS going on in this neighborhood, not the least of which is being surrounded by Hoarders, I am going to start looking for a new place to live.  I don't know that this is the straw that broke the camel's back, probably not since I am questioning whether it is or isn't - but it's close enough. It's time to come up with a contingency plan.  Or even, just find a place to move and live on the cheap.  Let this place go. I have not fully convinced myself, yet, that this is the best answer, but the pendulum is definitely swinging in that direction.  I will start looking around and seeing what's available out there with the income I have. 

I am not saying that I have decided to move out of this neighborhood, I AM saying it's time to start taking a look at seeing what's available.  If you know me from my writings on this blog, then you might understand that when I say that, that means I am going to spend a great deal of time searching out locations and attempting to find something decent or that will fit the bill.  If I find the right place, I will walk from this house, hand over the keys to the mortgage company and that's that.

I told Mark straightaway: that family is back in the neighborhood, be wary.  Keep an eye and an ear open at all times. 

No, this prospect I see nothing but as evil, these people don't care about anything or anyone but themselves.

Sunday Work?

I must confess that ever since I started a job where I do not work on weekends - almost never - I don't miss it and definitely don't want to engage in it.  I worked 7 day a week jobs for years.  I worked 6 day a week jobs forever, seemingly.

Well, our store is FAR from being done with the move.  We have been abandoned with the extra help - which is no great loss, actually, they didn't get much done while they were there - but we don't have extra time to run a store and get it in order at the same time. All two of us? Hardly.

Well, a company is coming in on Sunday to tint the windows on the front of the store.  I dunno, dude, it faces East.  East doesn't get all day sun and more importantly: during the hot summer months, that isn't the side of the building that needs tinted, but if that's what they want, then that's what they get.  Manager wants me to come in and do some work to get the place done or at least close to done.  I dunno. I like my Sundays.  Get up early, drink some coffee; surf the net; do some laundry then go to church. Get home from church and do whatever I want to, really.

I'll probably end up doing it.  Half a day- though 6 hours is more than half a day.  It definitely needs to get done and it doesn't appear at the pace things are going that it's going to get done unless we use time that isn't devoted towards deliveries to do so.

Very tired.  Long day.  Lots of OT already this week. Going to bed soon enough and want off the computer.

ben

Tuesday 12/6/2011

"Opponents call it murder and a crime against nature."
ROFL!!
This is the thoughts of the people who are opposed to the state sanctioned and initiated bear hunt in New Jersey.  
Murder?!!!  As if you are taking a human life that has an eternal soul.


I am frequently quite amused by certain news stories in the morning, this one almost had me snorting coffee out my nose when I started to read the story, lol.  


So, they said it might get down into the 20's in certain parts of the valley last night, but the forecast said 35 degrees.  Right now, at 5:45 am, it's 36 degrees.  I found out too late last night that there might be a freeze factor and to cover your plants.  Everything I had read? None of it said anything about frost protection.  Lovely.  Hope everything's okay out there, but at 36 degrees it shouldn't be a problem.  I ended up putting heaters in my ponds, though.  I have to look it up again, but I think I am also supposed to stop feeding the fish when the water gets that cold, the food allegedly just sits in their stomachs and rots, or something like that.  


Their growing season is definitely over for the year.  Some of them are looking to get too large for the small ponds and I will have to consider selling them next year.


Well, Lynnette apparently has landed the job she said was offered to her.  We'll see how that goes.  Her problem is if they ask to do a background check, her sister steals all of her family member's identity and uses it for criminal purposes.  Her sister is, allegedly, in prison right now.  I wish her luck in the job, if she actually does get it - she is supposed to start training today.


Meanwhile, the inspector was supposed to come today and sign off on the trailer.  Either she didn't show up or she did and just looked through the fence, who knows.  She was also supposed to stop at my next door neighbor's and do something about all the junk and the fact that he is also living in an RV on the property.  I didn't file that complaint, I was just asking about it.  I didn't ask about the situation behind me, I will, instead, wait a couple of days and then do an email request through the system. Should be able to find out what the results of that court date were, which allegedly occurred yesterday.  


Well, time to be off to work.


G'day.
ben

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