So the day is basically done.  Breakfast at Waffle House with Taylor, property to mow a couple lawns, hook up the trailer, load the ATV, take it home, back to the property, drop the trailer, over to the school, watch a graduation, over to Lowe's, Chili's, property.  Property, put the cap on the hot water line for the sink, played some hide and go seek with the boy - he insisted on playing so we did 4 rounds of it.  

Home, clothes, pack, check my itinerary and on hold.  I hope I didn't ruin my trip. My first and middle name are listed as one name and the middle name doesn't have anything.  I'm on the phone with American, on hold and have been on hold for a long time.  Apparently a lot of people are calling them, I haven't gotten past the computer yet.  I will stay on hold until I find out if/how it can be changed, for it isn't allowing me to edit it online.  I don't know the rules about this, but I do believe they are pretty stringent about the name matching the name on the license.  I'm not going through all of that tomorrow, if they can't or won't change it, then I guess I'm screwed.   

OK, 20 minutes on hold but I looked all of this up on several forums.  Apparently it's normal for them to combine your first and middle name together.  I printed out the tickets and it's formatted to have last name first and first and second name combined.  Literally everyone on these forums said it's nothing to worry about.  I hope so.  I'm just going to show up with my CDL and hope for the best outcome.  

The older boy started crying. Why are you crying? I don't want you to leave!  Lol.  

Oh, btw, I apparently couldn't have picked a worse time to travel lmao.  There are a LOT of people flying this holiday weekend.  I mean, so far the flights are showing on-time but that could easily change. I really would have picked another time to travel if I would have known it was going to be Memorial Day weekend. I would rather be home, there are going to be some get togethers I am going to miss. OTOH, I haven't seen fam in what, 4 years now?  I was going to go late 2019 and then COVID hit and that was the end of that, I wasn't even going to get shots and no way I was wearing a damn mask on an airplane for hours on end.  I rarely wore a mask that entire time and the professionals at the time and definitely now, the ones telling the truth anyway, said and say that masks were and are worthless to stop the spread of Covid.  

Emergency powers with presidents, governors and mayors should be extremely limited, they went way overboard with government authority crap, as we all know.  Even now, some state's governor is declaring a state of emergency because the republican legislature in that state are going to pass bills that allow school choice. This governor says this is an emergency because they are "shutting down public schools". No, they are giving parents who are fed up with the public school system indoctrinating them with trans, communist, social justice and just about everything but what they should be learning. Normal parents are sick of woke garbage.  

Whatever.  I'm spending the last few hours with fam and then going to bed early.  Yes, I know I can sleep on the plane, but planes are so uncomfortable.  The first leg will be great. The 2cd and 3rd? I dunno.  DFW to LAX has over 20 seats empty and LAX to PHX has almost 30 empty.  Weird.  They said this was going to be the busiest flying weekend in a long, long time, why are there empty seats on these planes? Well, maybe because who really wants to go to LA right now, or anywhere in California? Glad I'm just passing through.  It's over 2 hour delay, I'm not leaving the airport, rest assured.  

My son turned 30 today.  Amazing.  He's almost as old as my friends I live with, lol.  We're going to spend some portion of Friday together.  I really want to catch up with him, there is plenty to talk about.  He is still living with his mother, but it's more to support her. It's not the other way around, he has a full time job that pays pretty well, he could live on his own if he wanted to.  I don't know what the appeal is living with her, but to each his own.  I don't hold it against him, she still has me blocked on Facebook lol.  

Ok. Several hours later, kids in bed and I'm fixing to turn in myself. I decided I will get up at 3:00 am to ensure ample time to take a shower, have some coffee and get out of here, get over there and be there an hour and a half early.  That should be plenty of time to get through that small airport's security.  They will only be screening the small jet's worth of people, I've been through there several times in the past.  I've got one piece of luggage and I already prepaid that thing. It was $30.  Not too bad, actually and the only thing I need carry on the plane is my laptop in it's carrying case.  I don't go on vacations without my laptop.  I may buy a new one while in Phoenix.  Some huge electronics stores there I will be going to to see what their prices and selection are.  

Well, I haven't been there in 4 or so years, but I doubt that much has changed.  

I dunno what else. I've been looking for trailers after this dude reneged on his deal, had an offer for a higher price and blew me off.  He said "first come, first served". I replied I was the first one that replied and we agreed that I'd come pay for it tomorrow as you had asked.  Screw him, frankly.  I wasn't going to play a bidding war with someone else and I was pissed that he had just blown off a deal that he gave his word on.  But, people's word nowadays doesn't mean what it used to.  

So then I started thinking about glamping again.  A 16X10 bell yurt tent around $700, made out of thick canvas.  I was looking at pics where they had just built a basic platform on the ground, not elevated and just big enough for the tent to sit on. That would certainly reduce the price.  If I put one of those things up near the amenities shed, then they have access to toilet and shower.  Stick a king sized bed in it, some super duper little furniture pieces in it, some far out pics (hotel style stuff, in other words), some carpet, a microwave, coffee pot, bottled water, mini fridge and AC/Heat. Lights and whatever else they put in those things. I only have to run electric to it and I already have the underground wiring to do so.  

$700 yurt, around $800 for the platform, I have no idea about a bed, $600 I'll call it,  another grand for interior decorating.  I've seen those mini splits going for $500.  I don't know how hard they are to install, but that would be the way to go for cooling and heating it.  The end? Round it up to 4 grand and call it done.  The problem? Who knows if it would actually get any business.  I would advertise the Hercules out of it both locally on all the venues and on Google and other free sites where I can advertise glamping.  Charge $50 per night and hope and pray it gets at least 10 nights worth of stays per month.  

Oh, well who knows. Just kicking things around in my mind. However, it's 9:00 pm and tho not my normal bedtime? Yup, I'm going to sleep. 

 The grumpy people asked very politely if I would cut their grass tomorrow . That's all I really need, is a little mutual respect.  So I will do that early.  I got the water hooked up for the sink - but not without a lot of hassle. 3 trips to Lowe's, in fact. The "master plumber" sent me home with the wrong parts the first time.  Bypassing a bunch of junk, the third time was the charm. The wrong parts were in the bins and tho I thought I had the right stuff, I didn't examine it closely enough.  Neither part was the right one and I had to return them.

I got my money back - excepting it said I had bought 2 of each.  No, I did not buy 2 of each.  I bought one of each. Well, when I got back to the store I started looking through the bins.  There were wrong parts in almost every one of them. Like, people taking something, not wanting it and just throwing it back in the wrong place.  But, the caveat: they don't ever get put back in the correct place by employees, either.  

I went to the "Pro" desk asking for the store's general manager.  The dude looked at me and said, well I'll look for him but I'm the "division" manager, whatever that means.  No, he wasn't above the store manager.  I said fine, I will be waiting for him on aisle 43.  10 minutes passes, a man looks at me and says you must not know what you need, either?  No, I know what I need and I found the parts, but I want to show a manager the absolute chaos these bins are in.  I pulled out a handful of stuff from one bin - NONE of it belonged IN that bin.  

Well, he started asking me questions as if I'm sort of knowledgeable person about Pex pipe and fittings.  I said no, I am new to Pex stuff as well. But, he was simply asking if pipe that had been stored outside but inside of a shed would be alright? Well, it's HDPE and it should be fine, but I'd just check to see if it's brittle.  That was my advice and having had worked around HDPE for a dozen years I'd say it's fairly solid.  This dude that was looking for the general manager finally comes wandering back, looking for me.  So, I said find. Grabbed a handful of parts out of a bin and showed them to him. None of these parts belong in this bin and not a single part IN that bin is the correct part. Would you like me to show you more?

I wasn't being rude, I was making a point.  This is ridiculous.  Other people were nodding their heads.  They're the only game in town, I don't want to get run off out of there but I do want to show them what's caused me and other people endless irritation.  The man said he is new to the store but has worked for Lowe's for 22 years and was brought specifically TO this store to clean it up.  He gave me my money back for the parts that the front desk wouldn't refund.  I had no proof, but after asking if they have cameras on the self-checkout and him saying yes, I said fine, you can check the camera. I only bought one of each.  He said no, I believe you.  

So, installed the pex pipe? It's much easier than CPVC, I can see the appeal of it.  You can buy the barbed fittings and put the clamps on it - with the special tool - or you can buy the expensive fittings where you just plug the pipe into the fitting. Literally, you just push it in there and that's it. It's leak free.  I was actually quite amazed at how easy it was.  I would have done the whole place in that stuff if I had known.  I mean, yes, I've spent hours figuring it out.  

I think, now that I know it's not that difficult, that I will run a line of that pipe under the shed from the water heater and install hot water on the sink as well.  That will not be happening tomorrow, I have far too much to do, but I will put it on the list for when I get back.  I also will have to install a much larger AC unit. And the grass, gag. It's gotten so hot it's all half dead now.  It's hard to believe I have to start all over with grass again.  

I dunno, but I'm going to put the park out of my mind on vacation excepting to check cameras and deal with anything that comes up.  Ive got the older couple working with me and James will back me up as well.  The new people came in today, their 5th wheel is amazing.  It's brand new, 44 feet long and it's a beauty.  I've never seen on that looks like that before, they must have spent some serious money on that thing.  It has solid glass doors, dark tinted, that's a first for me.  

I've got my eyes on a 5th wheel.  It's older, of course, but it has no roof leaks and the interior pics make it look like the only thing it really needs is some new flooring. $1,200.  More expensive than that other one I was contemplating but no huge amount of work needing to be done to it - excepting - the slide out won't move back in.  So I'm going tomorrow after the 8 year old's graduation at 10 am.  I posted a question to experienced RV'ers in a  huge rv group to ask if they think you can pull a trailer for 30 miles without damaging it?  It won't need to go anywhere after that.

I also have a married couple wanting to move in to my tent camping spot.  Like, for a long time.  The end of summer, they said anyways.  I hadn't contemplated that but I don't see any reason why not, especially when they offered me $320 per month.  No one uses that site.  I have it listed in several directories but I only get people asking about it, only 2 people have ever camped there.  So why not?  I don't know the con's to having people living in tents, I will be looking that up.  

Uhh, there's more but I need to get some laundry going.  I want laundry done tonight and not have to deal with that tomorrow. 

 2 day count down. I went to Walmart yesterday and they had nothing in my correct size, so I bought a few pairs of jeans that are an inch longer. In other words, 35-34's instead of 35-33's.  But supposedly Burke's has nicer versions of clothing at discount prices, I dunno, but I'll find out later on today.  

Tomorrow will be busy getting ready to go and going to a "graduation".  Nowadays, kids graduate from every grade level.  Instead of it being a senior graduating from high school, you have kindergarteners graduating from kindergarten, 5th graders graduating from 5th grade - you get the picture.  It's kind of strange to me, almost like a participation trophy in a youth sporting league. You get a trophy just because you showed up.  In the old days, as all old people know anyway, that wasn't even on the horizon.  Your team got a trophy because you won the championship and were the league winners.  Parents - lefties - became offended at that because their little Johnny tried just as hard as anyone else and they somehow deserve something that they didn't earn. 

And that basically sums up politics and mindsets today.  People want stuff for free from the government that they didn't earn and have no intention of earning.  Wait til' AI starts taking some of their jobs.  One commentator mused that the people whose jobs are going to disappear aren't going to be the blue collar version, at least not initially, they're going to take away the white collar jobs.  And then what are these people going to do? Become mechanics?  Drive trucks? AC repairmen?  Laughable. 

I also find quite humorous one of these politicians whose name I cannot remember saying it's time for a revolt. About snorted my coffee out of my nose when I read that.  Democrats leading a revolt? With what, exactly? Sticks? Stones?  This is the anti-police, anti-2A crowd talking about a revolt! LMAO McCarthy has their number, he uses their talking points about this "default" fiasco before they do. He piles it right back on them with their language and it's infuriating the left.  I don't hate lefties, btw.  Lefties definitely hate the right, I see it everyday online and the verbiage senators and representatives use, it's beyond disagreement of how the nation should be run. Civility went far away with them when they perched themselves on moral high grounds establishing the "fact" that since they are right, they can use whatever methods they please - including highly immoral and unethical methods - to achieve their desired goal of getting rid of those evil Republicans.

If they could flip an off switch and make Republicans disappear like magic into the thin air, we would all be gone right now. 

The thing I would love to see. Just take Republicans out of the picture. See what happens to this nation when they all quit working and just sit back and do the same thing as the lefties/progs (communists) do.  

Well enough of that - I am following this debt ceiling "crisis" pretty closely and was amazed reading the WSJ of all outlets lambasting President Biden about using default as some sort of weapon. They surmised that there is enough money coming in to the treasury that the treasury could easily take care of the debt/interest payments. Other payments might have to be put off, but the country doesn't have to go into default AND Biden and his cohort would be guilty of violating the 14th amendment. It was a piece from the editorial board about what the 14th amendment actually intended. I'm just amazed because WSJ is definitely not  a righty type of outlet.  It's a very strange world we're living in right now, at least if you compare it to the 60's or 70's.  

Today?  Well hopefully no one is doing laundry so I can shut the water off and get the water line run to the sink.  That would be nice. It would also have been nice if I had remembered to buy shut off valves.  Gag.  Oh well. The shed has it's own shut off valve for the water right beside it in a trench I have yet to cover up.  Small trench, but a trench never-the-less. Now that I have extra sewer pipe, I can cut a piece to size and stick it over where the valve is so  a person can just reach down the pipe to turn the valve off or on instead of having to dig it up.  I'll get to that - soon, lol. 

I've received 3 new reservations since yesterday afternoon, which is a gold mine for me, lol.  It's all for the next coming week-  week and a half.  I don't know if that's happening because I fixed the software or if it's just because it's almost summer and people are traveling - here - for some reason.  Most of this is not overnight stays, it's people staying 5, 6 plus days.  ?? I know lots of lawyers come here because it's the county seat and there is a federal courthouse that has a nationwide reputation of passing trademark applications.  I know, that's a weird thing to be known by. But it's also a college town and the dude at Chili's informed me classes are letting out of ETBU, Wiley and the Texas institution of learning - meaning people are going home.  

So why are they coming here? I have no clue, except some tell me they have family living here. The biggest repeat customer, I found out through a google search, has a position in his company to motivate employees to do -whatever.  You know, tho, the family that just moved in until they get utilities on their land? They aren't from around here. They bought land here, but didn't grow up here.  I get it tho, it's a nice area if you like country living and the great outdoors, tall pine trees, thick woods.  At the same time, our town has 25% poverty rate.  It's amazing the disparity of the poor mingled in with much better off citizens.  The other people moving in today? They are building a house and needed someplace close by. They intoned my park was the closest place, but I doubted that. That little town - even smaller than ours, is about 20 minute drive away. There are no RV parks there? 

Likely they just want to be close to town and the offerings our town has.  For a small town, we have a lot of different type of business going on here.  If you like chicken, donuts, liquor or car washes, you'll love it here! Lmao

On tap for today is to hopefully finish the hookup to the sink and cut back branches that are partially obscuring the speed limit sign on the main driveway.  It's 15mph, it was a tradeoff with the gas company workers that have to drive clear to the back to inspect the gas equipment. They go back there on a daily basis.  It's a quarter mile back there.  Now? I have ordered a 10mph sign for the RV park driveway itself.  People are speeding through and instead of addressing several people, Ill just put a sing right at the entrance to where the RV's pull in.  If they still speed, then I will contact that person individually and ask them why they think it's okay to go roaring through the park?

I just am trying to take more diplomatic ways of getting through to people before having to confront them.  

I still haven't decided whether to try and mostly stay on my diet while vacationing or throw caution to the wind.  I know I said I was going to just eat whatever, but I really hate to come back and gain `10 pounds or whatever and spend months getting it back off.  I've been eating a lot salads in the last few months.  People say this diet is bad for your heart - but I think that's only for people that have turned into carnivores and are trying to treat the Keto diet as a protein/meat diet.  I don't have that view, I eat lots of veggies and I try to eat more chicken/turkey than beef/pork. I guess I'll decide when I'm sitting in Dallas wondering what I'm going to eat for breakfast....or wait until I get to Las Angeles and eat there.  

On the hoping side, I'm hoping the travelers find my site, call me or just reserve a space that's available.  I have 3 of them listed open right now, the people moving in today? I never unblocked the dates on it since I already had 3 lots going.

Time to get out of here.

G'day

 With everything I bought to install the drain,  I am short 1 screw collar for the final connection : ( 

I was just at Lowe's a few hours ago! I'm also wondering how they expect yo to screw on a fitting onto the water connection to the faucet in such a tight space? This is worse than auto mechanics!

On a better note, an older couple are moving into one of the pull through lots for a month or two while they have a house built on some land they bought nearby.  I'll take a month or 2 stay over nothing.  He showed up, we talked, he left saying he would discuss it with his wife and then 5 minutes later he came back: we'll take lot 3, thank you.  So I ecppect (hopefully) them to show up tomorrow.  I need one more long term to shore up my finances for this month.  

I just can't believe I have to go to Lowe's one more time just to finish this junk up.  It's a bit aggravating, I thought there would be enough collars in all the kits I bought to cover all of it.  One a nicer not, that isthe last fitting on the drain and it should be good to go. 

I am not hooking up the water supply until that drain is completely finished. I can just see someone coming in, using the sink and having water going all over the place.  

So what am I doing now? Waiting for solvent to dry on a couple of fittings to make sure I have a good connection that is nicely sealed.  Turns out the glue I have for my insulation? Will work find on the counter top to secure it to the cabinet.  I also put up a curtain over the window and then realized it does not block the view.  I'm going to cut the curtain in half, it's much longer than I need it to be and then double it.  Can't have peeping Toms having access to looking through a bathroom window to see people doing whatever they are doing in there.  

Not that there are any peeping Toms around here. I currently have a piece of insulation in it to block the view.  

The AC is barely keeping up with the heat. It's too small and I will have no choice but to replace it with a much bigger unit with twice the output.  I don't want the compressor running literally all day long for it to try and keep it cool in here.  Yes, I am at the shed, taking a break since I have to leave and go get that part.  If I can figure out how to use the pex clamper, it shouldn't take more than half an hour to install the water pipe.

I say should.  Who knows how long it will actually take..

I suppose while I"m at Lowe's I might as well mosey on over to Walmart and do the dreaded jeans shopping.  Oh. I have a 9 foot tall piece of pipe to install outside for the drain but I'm not putting that in until I have the drain and the water running.  I want to be sure it's leak free.  Then I can pile dirt under that pipe and where the T is where the pipe will go. It's a pretty good piece of pipe. Just don't want that putting that much weight on a line that has no support underneath it. I suspect a couple more hours after I get the part and I hopefully will have the vanity completed. 

What's next after that? Well I need the grass. It's all dying now that the heat came back. But there is no way I'm ordering that much grass to be delivered with only 2 days before I'm leaving for AZ. It will have to wait until I return.  I want as much time as I need to install it. If it sits on pallets for over a week, I suspect it will all just die and I will have wasted a lot of money.  I am also going to at least try to get someone out here to help me install it.  It's probably a futile waste of time - people mostly don't like to work-

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I watch the travel trailers for sale on Marketplace frequently. When I saw one for sale at $500 and the exterior in excellent condition, even tho it says it has water damage - I immediately replied that I'll take it today, I have cash.  She didn't respond tho she saw my message, so I guess I lost that one.  There is another one that is decent but much more money of course.  The lady with the $500 one said her father had passed and she's just trying to get rid of it.  

Hours later. I actually was the first reply to the ad.  The roof has a leak, I suspected the interior would need work, but the exterior is in excellent condition.  In fact, there is cabinet work that will have to be done and I am hoping this carpenter in the park will do some side work for me. He did offer.  He does great work as well.  I take it back on the exterior. The pics that are shown show it in excellent condition, there is an entire side that isn't in the pics.

However, she took a video of the inside and it doesn't appear that the inside of the side not showing in the pics is damaged.  It's the thing about RV's. Any RV. You have to maintain them, especially the roof.  If you don't fix leaks right away, it can cause a lot of damage.  The video shows a lot of stuff laying around, a portion of the floor that will need replaced and roof work over one area.  Now, if I go over there and it's totally trashed, more than what meets the eye on the video, I will just leave without it.  But if it can be fixed even if spending a few thousand dollars. that thing will be worth much more than I paid for it and I can test drive this theory of selling an RV with a down payment and making monthly payments on it. \

I don't know, but every trailer I've looked at excepting the more expensive ones need some kind of work done on it. I know I said I don't need another project, but at this price and if it's in good enough condition, that's hard to pass up. And if this guy was serious about side work, I can have a person with the gift of woodworking do the job for me.

Well enough.  The grumpy people are complaining that the newcomers next to them are speeding through the park. Well, if that's true, I will take the grumpy people's side on that one.  People don't need to be flying in and out of the park.

I will also have to bite the bullet and get a much larger ac unit for the shed. And when I come back, I'll have to get that sod.  This stuff isn't free, folks, it's really eating me up in expenses.  Grass sod is a one time deal. It thrives in the summer, dies in the winter, but comes back in the spring.  Winter grass does no such thing, but I only put that down to get some greenery going.  The shed AC would also be a one time thing and at least, the ac I put in there was free.  It was worth a try.  A bigger unit will keep it cool in there and it won't have to have the compressor on constantly trying to keep it cool. Plus, I can have remote access to it via wifi, which is important now that I see people fooling with the controls.  They turn it to a cooler setting? I'll wait til they leave and put it back to whatever, probably around 75 degrees.  

I dunno.  I just keep hoping the start-up expenses would go away.  That's not quite what's been happening....

 Monday - morning. Off and on sleep.  Trying to wake up so I can get over there and try to finish this vanity situation, or at least get it working.  If I want to put a mirror up, I will have to install the drywall there above the vanity so I can glue one to it.  I haven't decided that yet, not a huge priority.  I did discuss with a new arrival about doing the drywall - he's a carpenter that says he has done it in the past - but he isn't any better at it than me, or so he says.  Whatever, I'm not going to pay thousands of dollars to have drywall installed.  If I can find a handyman to do it for a fair price, I will go that route.  

Basically, I need to get that vanity done so I can get my stuff out of there and at least have the bathroom emptied of my tools. They are not in the way of anything but it's not a good look.  The other thing I want to install in there that I forgot about is a small sitting bench for people to be able to remove and put back on their clothing if they take a shower.  

Whatever the case, someone is doing laundry over there right now, I can finish the drain installation pretty quick, the water will have to wait until I can shut it off to the shed.  I don't know how much laundry they need to do and I am not going to interfere with it.  It's the older couple and we have expressed our mutual feelings for each other recently in text messaging.  They are really nice people.  They are getting a really good rate and they have one of the nicest spots in the park.  As long as they are there, I won't be changing that, they have their own yard. They have wind chimes out there, bird feeders, all the stuff you would do to make it your own space.  It looks nice. 

Anyway, I decided a couple new pair of jeans for the trip- they're going to have to be 35's for now.  I have a couple pair of 34's that fit okay, the rest don't fit at all.  But, I am likely going to be cheating on the diet the entire time I'm there.  I'll have to "pay" for that when I get back, I'm prepared to do some fasting and just cut calories to the extreme when I return. 

I still do not "feel" like traveling. I like home, I like being home.  I've done enough traveling in my lifetime for 100 people if putting it into the context of trucking. I've seen all of America besides Hawaii and Alaska. All of it.  From Washington (state) to Miami, to Maine to - everywhere.  We also did a lot of traveling when I was a child going to national state parks and tent camping all over the place.  I've probably been through every mountain range, all of the plains, etc etc etc.  I just don't have the traveling bug in me anymore and I don't know if it will ever return.

However. The state of Texas sent me a notice that my medical card needs renewed by the middle of July. I will be renewing it.  If you don't, they cancel your CDL and you have to take the tests all over again to get it back.  So, a $100 medical exam or a real PITA trying to get a CDL back - that seems to be a no brainer. I have far from written off trucking altogether, only out of the thought of potential necessity, not out of any feeling of desire to go back.  My hazmat endorsed license is good until my birthday in 2026.  I have the feeling I will be forced back into trucking.  

 I owe $689.86 on the SUV and it's done. I'm thinking to pay it off and get it over with.  Removes $350 per month payment which will be quite helpful right about now.  I am keeping close track of expenses at the moment.  The grass situation is really annoying me, actually, just because it's such a huge expense that I will either have to make - or not and have dirt lots.  Anyway, if I get the last payment taken out - which is soon, then I will owe the final payment and I won't want to wait anyway. 

Well let's see.  3 more days before I leave. Up at 3:30 am to be over to the GGG airport which is something like 40 miles away.  Just a few things needed to purchase for clothing and I'm good to go. My new piece of luggage showed up a few weeks ago, it looks pretty nice. I could have gotten away with a carry on  now looking at it, but I won't have to fool with getting stuff out of the overhead storage on the airplane.  If I"m there by 4:30 am, that is 1 and a half hours to get through security so it should be enough. It's a very small airport and we are talking a small Embraer jet - well small by commercial standards anyway - not that many people can fit onto the thing and  every time I've gone through there in the past the check in was easy.

It's big airports where I've had trouble. For some reason, they want to search me every single time,, even after going through their scanning machine. They want to feel your crotch and butt, which annoys me because they really feel you there. Like going over it several times?!!  What, did you think I was going to grow a pistol in between gropes?  I've made my distaste to them known on a few occasions, which is where they try to exert their pathetic authority - which is where I let them know in no uncertain terms the uselessness of their operation and how many times the government has done tests to see if weapons can get through the screening - which they do. 

I don't know how those people can do those jobs feeling people like that all day long.  But then again, I don't know how surgeons can stand to take a scalpel and start cutting into human flesh without it making them feel very uneasy.  Or several other jobs/vocations I can think of where I would be repulsed, disgusted or otherwise made to feel very uncomfortable in performing the required tasks.  

My ads are running, if anyone needs a long term spot, it's showing on Google and Facebook.  I can only hope/pray that some new people will need a space to stay for an extended period.  Or, short terms keep coming in. The repeat customer that was here for 4 days?  Just did 2 more reservations for the next 7 days.  It helps. It isn't enough, but it helps.  My current long term rate is $450 and I don't know that I want to lower it any. What I need to do is go through all the surrounding park's sites again, those that have online access anyway, and see what they are currently charging.  It's pretty competitive around here, I need to keep apprised of others' rates and I haven't done that in a while. 

Well, time to get out of here. I have to go to lowe's to get whatever it is you use to hold a counter top in place and go to the property and get all of that done.

G'day. 

 The only thing I know - or hope anyway - is that I'm going to church today. Whether these kids go or not is entirely up to them. I'm not going to sweat it either way.  I know you can't force God down people's throats with any kind of great results beyond negativity, resentment and loathing.  I was single digit age and was carried out to the car several times because I didn't want to go to church. I hated it.  I thought Jesus was a cartoon character that kids used crayons to color on paper - I really didn't know He was a real Person.  

I knew there was a God and I was terrified of Him, but I had no concept of the connection between God the Father and God the Son.  This is why I'm not even pushing this on these kids at all. It's entirely up to them - well their parents have to ok it of course but that hasn't been an issue - whether they go or not.  

As for me, I am now in the habit of going to church and I mostly like it tho I don't agree with some of the preaching, well, some of the omission of the preaching that goes on that doesn't include any reference to repentance when coming to the Lord Jesus Christ.  There are many references to repentance throughout the Bible, it's not a made up conception.  

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Well that changed. We went to church, the boys loved it, we got out, no fussing, found out Taylor wasn't having the 8 year old go along with her today anyway. Applebee's, home, relax.  

And looking at trailers.  One of them is a beast.  It's huge and has 3 axles on it. It's 2001 model, it appears from pics it's been parked under a canopy and one of the slideouts had everything torn out of it. All of that would have to be replaced.  Carpet and a couch.  Or a table, or whatever was in there.  But it's 3 grand and tho it looks great except a few things, I don't think I can afford to dole out 3 grand right now plus replacing carpeting and furniture.  Well, take that back, I could, but it would take all that was given to me to do it.  

And then, tho I've had numerous calls and I know there's a shortage of housing, will someone rent it?  Well, buy it, really, with the method I was looking at online.  Good down payment and get another 8 out of it plus lot rent.  

My overnighters left and I'm back to 4 open lots.  2 of them need filled pretty filled, soon. I have one person very interested, that's it. There was a person driving a late model Corvette through the park a few days ago, dunno about them. Maybe another person wanting to buy RV parks.  If you can afford a car like that, I don't know why you'd want to be living in an RV.  I need some people by the end of the month, that's all I know.  

 Someone has an interesting idea, I only found it because I have been looking for RV's.  This park has several RV's - for sale.  So, they make you put X amount of money down, looks like 2 grand is their standard and then they charge you varying rates per month apparently according to the overall price of the unit. The last one I looked at was $475 per month for payment on the unit plus $375 per month lot rent.  That's pretty pricey for overall monthly payments. And they have a stipulation that they cannot leave the park with the unit until the entire thing is paid off.  

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Delicious food and good company at the graduation party.  Went to the Park afterwards to collect money. The man was as delighted as many before him with the peace and quiet my park offers away from Interstate noise.  That over with, people are showing up for a card night.  I actually think it's going to be a pool night since we got the pool going and it's very clean and nice looking. No one has been in it yet since we got it going, but this is the first weekend since we cleaned it out and dumped chemicals into it.  

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Ok, lol. Pool and card night over.  Pool water is freezing cold, I didn't even think about getting in, it was very cool out tonight and very nice.  I only get into water like that when it's warm or hot.  The kids were freezing, the adults that got in were freezing, I was fine sitting in a comfy, rocking patio chair. Done with that, inside to play cards. Hilarious, even if half the people were worn out from the graduation stuff all day long.  

The grumpy dude.   He's in the shed doing laundry and says something I couldn't understand. Listened to it 5 times and then played it for everyone. He's going OW! OW! every time he leans down to grab the clothes out of the dryer.  No idea, I assume he must have back problems. But that wasn't the thing: as he's walking out the door, he says something like: Makes you want to take a soaper scrubber and throw it over the fence, bye!

Bad knees on her, bad back on him and bad marriage? Maybe I'm misinterpreting this situation.  Well, no, not really. It became obvious they had a bad marriage early on. Or if they think it's good, more power to them but that kind of heated yelling and arguing at each other?  Just the idea that they are taking it out on everyone else. They are, actually, to some extent.  Maybe they need to get out of the RV life, get a house and do something different. 

On another note, the State of Texas DOT sent me a notification: Your medical card is going to expire July 12. It's nice they send a notice, you know what you need to do and ample time to get it done.  Yes, I am definitely renewing it. Not renewing? Your CDL is revoked and you are put back to a regular driver license.  And from what I've heard, to get your CDL back, you are mandated to go through training again.

I intend on keeping my CDL whether I am using it or not as long as my health will pass the tests to get the medical card.  It's every 2 years.  My CDL doesn't need renewed until I'm 62 years old.  The only hard part about renewing my CDL is the hazmat test. There is no other test to take. They just renew it otherwise.  

I'm tired of the whining. I laid it down on the line again today to the 8 year old: make up your mind. Go to church or go play D&D.  You can't have both.  He wants both. The timeline doesn't necessarily accommodate for it. They come with me to church.  I go, we leave, I go the property. It's a mile and a half away from the church.  I then go out to eat -not always but sometimes. And on some Sundays, there are other things that keep me out until late afternoon. I don't go home, I go do the things I need/want to do. Need to do first.  

I don't feel the need to listen to an 8 year old pouting and whining and complaining. D&D came after we started going to church. In fact, he just started going last Sunday. We've been going to church for quite a while now.  In my view, it's God or some demonic game that isn't anything in the Christian realm. I don't put it to him like that exactly, tho I did say you can choose between God or a game.  It's truly his choice, but the pouting!  But I still want to go to church! Yes, church comes second.  You can go with mom to D&D tomorrow, I'm fine with that.

You can't force people to God, learned that long ago. Doesn't matter what age. They will accept or reject and there's nothing you can do about that.  His next demand? Let's go to church at the 9:30 service. No.  I go to the late service for a reason.  I want him to have to make a choice between the 2 and whatever his decision is, I won't deride him for it, that's between him and God.  I just want him to make his own decision. But I truly do not want to go to church at 9:30 am.  I spend Sunday mornings perusing and thinking about things and taking my time to get up, get awake and get real for church.  

He never had a problem with it - until D&D.  Games always come first.  Whatever.  Shrugs shoulders, moves on. If he does go to D&D tomorrow, I'll take the younger one to the movie theater after church tomorrow. Seems only fitting, right? 

It's late. Time to go to bed. 

 Quite the day and only 1:00 pm.  Started with the idea that the house - both inside and out - are being cleaned.  Well cleaned.  I did all the dishes and scrubbed down the counters, took out the trash, cleaned out the trash can and then started on the fish tank. It's in the kitchen area being the dining room and the kitchen on a bar type counter.  I took half the water out, caught the two now-large Koi and relocated them to the 300 gallon pond outside.  I have no idea of their status, for I needed to go back inside and get the tank finished.

Cleaning out the tank and refilling it with water and putting in some medicine that helps take out chlorine and make tap water safe, I then scrubbed the filter.  New filter media and that is done.  Over to the fridge, cleaned out food that we aren't going to eat. I tend to keep leftovers for quite a while, but over a week, that's long enough.  I got many meals out of the ensuing leftovers from dinner meals.  I like to get my money's worth out  of it, especially meat dishes, it's not like meat is cheap right now. 

Into my room, cleaning up and doing laundry and then - finally making some lunch and sitting down to relax for a while. We have a graduation party at a church to go to this evening and then a card game at the house.  

I don't necessarily need to go over to the park today. The 4 day stay came in yesterday and I charged them the amount they still owed and sent them a detailed email that is automatically generated if I choose to send them one. Which I always do, whether anyone asks for it or not.  There is another overnight coming in today, they originally had reserved 8 days but called and cut it back to just one night.  Their plans had changed, quite unfortunately, that would have been a decent chunk of money.  

In other words, there is too much to do today and unless someone needs something over there, the park is functioning quite nicely even if I currently have 3 spots empty.  Tonight it will be down to 2, but these are just temporaries. Beyond lowering my monthly rates to the "introductory rate" again, I really don't know what else I can do to get people in there besides getting an RV or cabin or tiny house to accommodate them.  I am fairly certain I could rent one out quickly.  There is a huge lack of housing in my area.

I'm still seriously considering a motor coach that is selling for 2 grand. It's been on the market for a while. It needs a serious cleaning but unless the ample amount of pictures aren't showing something I need to see, it's very doable. And probably could get the price lowered, Idon't think it actually runs, but I don't need it to.  Have it towed to a spot behind the shed, get it hooked up, hire someone to deep clean it and rent it out.  I have someone in mind that I could have to come over and clean it and she would do an excellent job.  Give her the cleaners and materials necessary and give her a couple hundred bucks to get it done.  

Anyway, if I could get the thing, get it over there and get it done for $2,500 or less, I would be happy.  It's just filthy. Dirt can be cleaned. It's water damage coming through the roof or a non-functioning roof ac that would concern me.  Of course, if it did have those problems and they came down enough on the price, I would do it.  As long as it isn't a huge project - I have had enough of projects and I still have more to go in the shed.  I expect Monday to finish hooking up both the drain and the cold water supply.  That will get that going.  I think I will run a line to the vanity so I can install a light right there. It will just be a setup where when I turn on the main bathroom light switch, both lights will go on.  

Oh, and I think I could get around $650 per month for renting out a trailer or coach or whatever.  An actual cabin or such would go for much more.  More like $850 or even higher.  I can't get a cabin atm, even the shells are very expensive and I don't need a project shell, I need something completed and ready to go, turn key so to speak. 

I'm going to wait until I get the next power bill to determine if I can lower the lot rent to opening day specials. I am thinking not possible, but we'll see. It's been very warm and even hot, AC's are running constantly, it will give me a good idea of how much I can lower the rent, if any, to get more people in.  The lower rent is what got a lot of the people in there in the first place. I may have no choice but to lower rates and get whatever I can in there.  Lower rates, lower profits but still, there will be profit to be had.  Next power bill should be available after the 23rd. 

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A call in plus another registered arrival today plus the people that came in for 4 days 2 days ago, means I have 13 out of 14 spaces rented at least for tonight.  Yup, I'd take that other space rented and after that? I'd offer up the grassy area rental.  The registered arrival? I got a notification and saw they are in a motor coach pulling a car.  They registered for lot 12, a back in site.  You really can't back in a car on the rear of a coach like that. They were lucky that I had lot 3 available after that long term took off the other day.  

"Oh, we didn't know it was assigned a space".  Uhh, if you had read the software you were using to reserve a spot, you would have seen it says specifically lot 12 and more specifically that it is a back in lot.  But whatever, I don't get on people's case like that, I just wonder why they don't read what they are paying for. Not to mention the confirmation email I send them automatically fills in information saying the date, how much they paid, the lot they are going to be in and the designation of that lot - back in in this case.  

This isn't rocket science and I have gone through the registration a few times. "Designated Access" BI - and a legend that says BI stands for back in. I'm going to have to change the standard site to back in site so that that is what they see right off the bat.  

Anyway, we are headed to a church for a graduation party and then back home for a game of cards. I will have to run over there when lot 4 arrives. They didn't register online - there are people out there that just don't seem to be able to do it regardless of how easy it is.  I tolerate them to get the money.  A run over there isn't that far or take more than maybe 25 minutes total, round trip, if that. I can make it shorter - if people don't come looking for me wanting to chat about whatever.

Enough, time to get ready to go.  

 So do I put up with the aggravation of aholes or do I just address them directly? If I address them, it's likely they will leave after next month's rent is due.  But should money be the final, determining factor in whether I address foul behavior or not? I think not.

The dude throws his cigarette butts on the ground all the time by the shed.  He parks his truck over there.  They let one of their dogs out to run the park freely and s*** everywhere.  Last night, he went into the shed for 2 minutes to use the bathroom and turned the ac all the way up to maximum setting.  They demand I mow their lawn every 4 to 5 days.  I'm thinking time to address them. If they leave, they leave.  I can't just tolerate this anymore.  It's too aggravating and they are blatantly defying the park rules.  

I'll let myself cool down a bit before I decide what to do or what words to speak.  

Anyway, it's a very hot day today, but I got that in-the-dirt drainage stuff completed.  I realized that I don't have a fitting to hook up to the faucet.  I figured the fittings would come with the box, I figured wrong.  So now, yet another trip to Lowe's. There is a plumber that works there, I will ask him what fitting/s I need to go from that brass, threaded rod coming out from below the faucet to transition to this shark bite junk.  

That shark bit clamper? The cheapest thing they had was $66.  Harbor Freight didn't even carry one.  A worker there was asking me what I was looking for, the only one they had on the shelf was $109.  He looked it up, it says there are 3 here. So, he started looking at the stock boxes on the upper shelves and sure enough, there was one up there.

He then suggested I just use the thing and return it.  Huh?  He went on to talk about how people just walk out with stuff and they aren't even allowed to say anything about it.  Like, petty theft - well shoplifting, whatever you want to call it, pretty brazen to just take stuff and walk out the store with it.  He then said a lot of stuff that is returned, even tho in good condition, they are required to just throw in the trash can. 

What?  Insanity. But, in my mind, he was attempting to instruct me to do something that is unethical and borderline immoral.  Take something, use it and then return it as if it were defective or something. "People do it all the time".  

Well I don't.  This is what drove Montgomery Wards out of business.  They would allow returns no matter how long a person would have something. Snowbirds would come to town, outfit their trailers with all kinds of merchandise for the winter, when winter was over and they were going home?  Return all the merchandise. A road map to bankruptcy, I don't know how Lowe's can do that and stay in business. 

I do get employees not being allowed to stop the thieves. Lots of companies instruct their employees to stay out of their way to also stay out of harm's way.  You've seen the videos of them walking calmly, not even running, out of a Macy's or similar store with shopping carts full of merchandise they didn't pay for.  Thank the defund the police movement for that and a general attitude of not prosecuting these people even if they catch them.

And to think Democrats are now saying that Republicans are the anti-police party.  I was about floored when I first started hearing that. The cities that vote to defund the police? They are not republican run cities.  They gaslight and engage in revisionist history, they apparently think we are all stupid and don't have memories.  

This mostly all started with the George Floyd event and escalated from there.  Taking over entire portions of cities as "autonomous zones" and defying police officers, destroying entire buildings and even burning them down, engaging in civil disobedience to the point of violence, yet these people have the gall to accuse Republicans of wanting to defund the police because we have seen the Durham report and it totally justifies Trump's stance that it was a witch hunt and that there was no russian collusion and that Wray and the FBI were engaging in a political ruse to attempt to help Trump be defeated?  

I have no idea where this all ends.  Because we have more new movements that come out after another one is implemented, such as the trans movement.  I wonder if these people would feel the same if their daughter was accosted by some trans "person" coming into the little girl's room, such as has occurred on numerous occasions as reported in the news?  What's next?  Well I'll tell you what I believe will happen, whether the next one or not: they are going to attempt to stack the court.  They want to expand the Supreme Court to 13 or more justices to be able to have them legislate from the bench.  They talk about impeaching Clarence Thomas and even Amy Barrett.  They are now calling the Supreme Court illegitimate.  They can't stand to lose and they attempt to justify their behavior from a moral standing saying that since they are right and everything that is being done is wrong, they can do whatever they please to "fix it".  

I would have never guessed 5 years ago that the country would take this radical of a turn and a switch to worldly, evil and immoral movements that defy reason and sanity.  Or that they are now openly wanting Communism/ Socialism.  That used to be taboo, now it's one of their main talking points and they tell us that Republicans don't care about people because we won't vote for more social justice crap that lines one person with money and takes it out of another person's pocket involuntarily.  

Well, that rant started with what this person was telling me at Lowe's. I'm not going to return it simply because they won't say anything. I would have liked to have rented the tool but they don't have it for rent.  

I was at a stopping point since I don't have the parts to transition from the faucet and came home.  My jeans were filthy from crawling in the mud and I just wanted to take them off and get into clean clothes again. I won't need to crawl around in the dirt again today or hopefully, anytime soon.  

So, I'm also not going to make excuses not to keep on working, I'm headed to Lowe's to get the parts and then back to the property.  

 Sitting here wondering how many potential reservations I have missed because of the glitch with the software.  Also wondering why I didn't catch this earlier. I'll be testing the reservation site at least weekly from now on. It's just that people looking for a spot, especially if they're already traveling, won't waste time on any given park's website. If it says no sites available, they just move on to the next park they find online.  This is my website, not the others I have had problems with which I believe the problems are resolved.  

Today - Friday - going back to Lowe's, yet again, to get the right sized reducer, get over there, get the dirt portion of this project completed and be done with it.  Install the vanity - which will mean cutting yet another hole. I had to come up through the floor.  It doesn't really matter how I get the drain pipe up in there, it just needs to get there. To that end I have enough fitting for that under sink pipe - whatever it's called - to run it to the drain.  

That is the hardest part - I think. I've never dealt with shark bite fittings so that may turn out to be a pain as well, who knows.  I just remembered I don't have the tool to clamp those fittings together.  Lol. So, while I"m at Lowe's, spend $35 on a tool that I will only use once?  I don't have any choices beyond running the CPVC I have in the wall over there.  That would be extremely difficult, to put it mildly.  Won't even go into the details, excepting to say I would have to figure out how to get it to get behind the shower stall - meaning going around a corner I have no access to. 

I suppose I could run a hot water line under the shed and up through the same hole the drain pipe is going through.  But it's just for people to wash their hands and perhaps shave, brush teeth, etc. Cold water will work for now. Just not going to that trouble and expense atm to install hot water line.  I can imagine the grumpy dude going in there to take care of more than just toilet functions.  He was in the shed last night - I got a notification I looked - it was him, glaring at the camera again and staring at the setting on the AC unit.  He reached over to it so I assume he turned it to a colder setting. I will turn it to a warmer setting when I get over there this morning. 

I see no particularly good reason to keep it cold in there during the day with little or no use.  It's mostly evening and night time when people are using it, save Sundays when people do laundry pretty much all day long.  He was also inspecting my work again.  When the dude has the balls to say something to my face, then I'll address it appropriately.  For now? He can live in his own, grumpy misery. I assume it's a bad marriage that's causing his unhappiness, judging from the frequent arguments, calling each other vile and lewd names and basically treating each other like shit.  That is their business, tho they sometimes make it everyone's considering the volume level.  Taking it out on other people, however, is taking it too far.  

Well enough. It's still early, I want to get over to Lowe's, get the part and the tool and get this stuff over with.

G'day

 So, the gross stuff is over.  I cut out the Sewer T that I had installed the wrong way, flipped it around, had to add another coupling and a piece of pipe, but I got it all set up again.  Of course, as always, it meant a trip to Lowe's. This time because I have no extra sewer pipe laying around, I used all of it up.  I only needed a couple of feet.  The only thing I can say is I have some around now for emergencies.  I also had to buy a stick of 2" PVC for the vent pipe.  

Oh, I did say it was gross. That's because what happened in the pipe is exactly as I figured would happen. The T with the 90 turn in it was turned the wrong way, towards the end of the pipe.  I took the cap off the end and as suspected, poop and toilet paper.  I mean, fix it now or fix it later....later would be a much worse mess. 

Now, I also had bought an adapter.  It was supposed to be 2 inch that narrows down to the pipe that runs under your sink, that skinny stuff. I know I got the fitting I have from the 2 inch box.  Someone must have thrown a 1-1/2 inch fitting in there, they do that a lot.  You have to check everything, I guess I must not have checked that. So, I wasn't able to finish the under-the-shed stuff, I will have to make yet another trip to Lowe's for the proper size adapter.  It is coming to a close, however, I need to wrap this thing up and get it behind me. I've decided for now to just wait on the drywall. I will see about installing the drywall I have so that I don't have sheets of it sitting up against the wall, I want everything cleaned out of there.  

So what's left is the vanity, finish up the insulation, install the other 6 sheets of drywall that are left - or is it 8? I don't remember, enough to be PITA, and then just clean all my stuff out of there and give the entire place a good Spring cleaning.  I'm intent on getting that vanity drain done tomorrow. Once I get that adapter there isn't much left under the shed.  I've already got a hole in the floor and the drain pipe just sitting through it - I needed it there for a guide to place my incoming drain pipe from the main line.  

One guy called today asking about long term.  I gave him the run down and invited him to take a look. He claims he is looking to buy a 5th wheel trailer for lack of available housing in the area and will be needing a place to park it. Bring it on! The housing situation will be at least partially relieved once the giant, luxury apartment complex they are building on the other side of town is completed. It looks like they still have a ways to go tho.  People have been complaining about the lack of affordable housing in the area for some time. I doubt those apartments will be "affordable", but it may attract people with money out of existing apartments who want a better place to stay. 

Well, it was mid afternoon by the time I got stuck on the pipe adapter, I just ended up going home and mowing the front yard and plowing down junk in the back yard. We are intent on getting that back yard cleaned up -  no small amount of work. I was so sweaty from both working at the park and then working at home that I could literally smell myself.  Yes, I took a shower this morning!  I also took a shower this evening, lol. 

 7 days til departure. I'm still undecided on whether to get 34's or 35's - I need some new jeans. I have torn up and thrown away several pair from working over there and most of what I have left is not in good condition, they just don't have tears in them. I don't need designer jeans but I'm definitely going to buy something. I'm in 34's right now just because those are the only jeans I have that are still decent looking.  They're actually pretty comfortable.  Maybe I'll just pull all my old 34's out and try them all on and see if I have enough that will fit that I can forego the spending spree.  I've gotten much more frugal since getting out of the trucking industry.  It doesn't bother me, either.  As long as I can live comfortably, I have no problem with making a lessor amount of money.  I'm still weighing whether I want to get back into trucking for a year or two and get some debt paid down and get another loan. 

Well, I definitely don't want  to go back into trucking, it's more a thing about prudence and making rational decisions beyond my desire not to have to live that kind of lifestyle.  A couple more years wouldn't hurt that bad, would it? lol, don't ask me, I'll give you an answer that would direct to the - yes - department.  Drive drive drive. Put up with idiots on the road all day long. Worry about where to park at night.  Deal with customers on both ends, shippers and receivers.  

I did my second workout with weights today. I'm doing a workout every 3 days. I do pushups every day as well. Not a lot, but enough to start making a difference with all the muscle I've lost since I got that last job and just drove all over the place instead of the job prior to that, where I was pulling orders and lifting extremely heavy fittings all the time.  I'm also pushing myself to work harder and longer, heat or no.  I really want to get back into shape and although I know that eating habits are the way to get rid of pounds, workouts are the way to get my muscle back. 

Coming up to a very busy weekend and I"m not talking Park stuff.  We have events scheduled to attend that will take us into Sunday. Park stuff will undoubtedly come up - it always does.  

Oh, yes, as far as I can see it, the software issue is resolved.  They fixed it and then told me that no one will be able to see lot 15 - the new lot - because of the way I have it set up and that I need to add some parameters.  He was right, of course, I checked it and sure enough, it's not showing up at all.  I'll fix that tonight, I'm just chilling right now.  I have 2 lots available right now showing on the reservation grid, if someone wanted to come in tonight and just reserve it online, they could do so without lot 15.  I'm going to charge less for lot 15 to see if it will generate some more nomads that need a place to stay overnight in to my place.  Probably between $15 and $20.  I have a size limitation on it, tho and it's only 30 amps.  

Well that was easy.  Lot 15 updated, set a picture in (they fixed their photo glitch, now I don't have to try and resize pictures) so that people understand this is not the regular rv park and it's in the grass so there are no surprised.  

Oh, that reminds me.  I need to go around with a shovel and the chainsaw and cut out roots sticking about the ground. There are several of them in various places throughout the park and I have to mow around the stuff. I want to mow OVER all of it.  

Well enough.  I have stuff to do yet even tho it is 9:00 pm.  

 Well, I feel better today anyway.  Slept much better than the night before.  A week away from departure date, 

3 hours and 21 minutes. That's the longest leg of the flight to AZ and that's quite a long time to sit in cramped seating with my legs poking into the back of the seat in front of me.  Trust me, I don't like the fact that that happens, but I can't shorten my legs for a flight. I can try to slide them sideways, but then that gets very uncomfortable as well. The biggest gripe I have is my knees start hurting - badly.  

According to the 3 flights, I'm going to be crammed into an airplane for a total of 5 hours and 56 minutes.  So, not going to be a fun day.  The alternative is driving there and I definitely don't want to do that.  The point is the getting more leg room costs a lot more money and tho these flights are free, or a least, I didn't have to pay money for them out of pocket, I'm not really looking forward to it. There are one of two routes I will take: either take pain killers or have a few drinks.  Either one will help reduce the knee pain during the LA bound flight.  Probably pain killers will be a better choice, lol, we've all seen what happens with drunks on flights.

Not that I planned on getting drunk, I just don't want any problems with anyone and especially flight attendants.  

I do wonder if I shouldn't just start taking aisle seats so I can stick a leg out to at least get some stretching room?  They may not care for that, tho.  

Today, I'm going to go get dirty, dig out that trench under the shed and get with the vanity. It really needs to be finished and I can get my stuff out of the building and into one of the sheds. I'm going to have to stack stuff pretty high in the sheds, but it's a pretty bad look having all that stuff in the bathroom. Now don't get me wrong, the bathroom is rather large, it's just the way it worked out.  There is plenty of room for my tools against the far wall, it just looks a bit - ridiculous.  

I just know it's going to be a dirty job and oh well, get the dirt part over with and get the drain hooked up.  Or at least, get the drain up through the flooring and into the shed.  

After a couple of weeks, there's only about $50 in the machines coin vaults.  That's not enough to pay for itself and tho there are several people that regularly use the machines, it's not enough.  So, I'll call laundry a fail for getting more people in there.  An expensive fail at that.  When I say pay for itself, I'm not only referring to the monthly payment, I'm also referring to the electricity it costs to run those machines - washer and dryer, plus an electric water heater and an ac unit.  Now, the ac unit I keep set at a high temperature. 

If someone wants to cool it down more while they're in there, fine.  They don't ever turn it back up, tho.  We're talking a pretty good loss here that doesn't make that setup worth it, at least no to me.  There are workers that must just go to laundromats to wash their clothing.  The bathroom gets used regularly, but that's just a convenience.  It doesn't cost them anything and doesn't really do anything for my bottom line excepting to have it available and be able to list it as an available amenity. 

So I'm at the whatever point now.  It's why I am going to install this vanity and then? Probably finish the insulation, there isn't a lot left to do there and then?  Quit working on it for a while.  It's just drywall that needs installed and I see no good reason to pay anyone to do that and I am not that good at installing the stuff.  I wouldn't call the amenities shed a bust, but it didn't do what I hoped it would. Most RV parks have those amenities, so it might have been worth it to bring in a few people, it's not driving traffic to my park in quantities that would have made it noticeable after listing all the stuff on the websites. 

I'm getting a few overnight reservations here and there. Nothing like I hoped for.  Nothing is really going that well with it right now what with 4 lots empty facing another one leaving soon.  I've got ads running, everyone I know knows about the open lots, if they encounter anyone that needs a place, here I am.  What else is there?  I mean, when people are looking for a lot long or short term, they're basically going to Google.  I have my Google site covered.  

Ok. Well that doesn't help. Some of the options for reserving a space are showing no availability when there is availability.  I used incognito window to test all of them and fully 3 options came back with nothing available.  So, I went into the software and deleted all of those. I don't need them.  I didn't know they weren't showing anything.  However, after refreshing the software and yes, still showing that those had been eliminated? It is still showing those options on the website and still saying nothing. 

I have to wonder if this is why I'm not getting more business.  Other options show availability.  So, I sent  a support ticket and informed them what's going on, they can find out why their system isn't working properly. Note that on those options, I had them set up the same as the rest.  They should have shown availability.  This software stuff really aggravates me at times.  If someone clicks on one of the options that shows no availability, they are likely to just move on to another rv park. They have no desire to go sifting through all of the options. Even if I miss a phone call with an inquiry, I call them back they say "we found another place". 

Gag.

Well, hopefully they'll fix that and if they don't, they can tell me why it isn't working properly. That stuff should have fallen off of there when I changed it.  

I'm outta here.

G'day

 Another one of those "Hi there, we are at your RV park, we don't see an office anywhere, do you have anything available for tonight?".  

Lol. What if I didn't? I thought but didn't say. You would have shown up for nothing.  It's amazing how many people have done this, just show up and hope, I guess, there is something available instead of calling ahead.  Well no matter, took her payment over the phone and looked at this motorcoach on the camera.

Wow!  Between that fancy motorcoach and the new looking 4 door, full sized bed dodge ram they were pulling behind it, they must have 300 grand worth of moving parts there.  They didn't fuss about the lot rent, didn't even question it, I just told them the price and it didn't phase them.  

Well, I've slept really good for many nights in a row, so it was not so much fun last night being awake half the night.  I don't know what time I really fell asleep, somewhere around 5 am I think. Of course, now it is late in the day, my version of it anyway, being 9:30 and just getting started.  There isn't any reason for me to force myself out of bed after a night like that, I'll sleep in as long as sleep will continue. 

I got the rest of the mowing done yesterday - which reminds me, writing down the dates. West side - 5/15, east side - 5/16.  

I'm going to go look at harrows today at tractor supply.  They're the only ones in town that sell them and likely anywhere nearby. Beyond that you can buy them online, but the shipping would be ridiculous since it's an all solid metal setup.  The driveway is in bad shape. All the rains have created runners across it where the water is draining and numerous potholes, some of them large.  

I was reading about how to deal with potholes in dirt driveways, for I have tried this in the past in another setting with bad results.  You fill in the pothole but a week later it's just a pothole again.  So the video I was watching made perfect sense:  the walls of the pothole get very rigid.  You can't just fill the holes in, you need to dig up around the holes and break up the stiff, packed dirt.  Otherwise, the dirt or gravel you put in there just bounces right back out every time a vehicle passes over it and walahh. You have a giant pothole again.

I want to deal with it, it's getting bad and I need a solution that doesn't cost a fortune.  A 4 foot wide harrow is around $300.  From what I've seen, for added digging effect, people will put weights on top of the harrow to force the spines to dig down into the dirt better. I intend on pulling it behind my ATV which has a ball hitch on it.  

These are the types of things that make people unhappy.  Some people will complain if there's even a few bumps in the road, but potholes? Now, I could get the shovel out there and dig it up and I may well do that as well.  I think it needs both. Dig it up and then drag the harrow over it as many times as needed.  I know, a harrow is expensive but what else am I to do?  A grader - which is the best option - isn't even rented at the local rental place and any place that does rent them the price is astronomical.  Hiring someone to come out and do it, the same effect.  

It is a risk, buying a harrow and not being completely sure if it will work.  I'm just not willing to pay for a service every time the driveway gets bad - we're talking at least a thousand dollars.  I did look on both Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace - people them for sale for even more money than a brand new one.

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Not a very long day work wise.  I did some stuff over at the property and I went and looked at a harrow at Tractor supply, but nothing like I would have accomplished if I had been well rested. The harrow at Tractor supply, seeing it in person, was nothing near what the price tag suggest it's worth at $376. There is no way I was going to take a risk on that thing.  I spent quite a bit of time looking at different attachments and settled on a thing that has rippers - spikes - that stick into the ground and tear it up as you move along.  Bulldozers have rippers on them as well, they are always mounted to the rear of the machine and they simply tear up the hardened ground.

If it works as the video shows it does, I can tear up the driveway in certain spots. Just got back and forth with those rippers until it's all torn up several inches deep and then just run over it and compact it. I will likely still have to dig out the potholes, but after I dig them out and use those rippers over those areas, it should completely smooth it out. 

This is not a permanent answer.  It is, however, something I can use over and over until/if/when I am better financial situation to be able to do something more permanent.  Mostly, that would be having about 6 inches deep worth of gravel dumped all the way down the driveway and a dozer to spread it.  I think I determined it would take 15, 15 ton truckloads to do the entire length of the driveway, probably around 8 or 9 truckloads to get up to the entrance to the park.  With the price of gravel now high, just 8 truckloads is $6,000 which doesn't include having it spread. 

You can figure another $1,500 to $2,000 to pay for a bulldozer and operator to come out.  So, 8 grand to fix the driveway. Yeah, I don't have that kind of money to spare right now.  I will just hope this attachment will work - it's made to be pulled by ATV's or even a pickup.  My SUV could pull it as well, but it would be easier on the 4 wheeler.  If the attachment works, I can probably expect to have to do it every couple of months during the rainy season.  

It's an answer and at only $207 and from what I saw it doing on the video, I'm willing to take the chance that it will work. 

The tent camper never showed. She texted me on and off today, but she was way behind her driving schedule and finally succumbed to the fact that she wouldn't be able to make it today and therefore, would stop on her way back. From where, I don't know, but coming up from Houston so heading north somewhere.  I haven't had much luck with tent campers even after running a free Facebook ad. And we're talking cheap, I think I have it listed at $8 per night.  Oh well.  I haven't really spent a lot of time with it.  My park is at 4 empty spaces and soon enough, probably more.  

If it goes on too long, I will be tempted to lower the rates once again to get people in there.  I'll give it a week tho. I had some people on the hook yesterday, but they broke free from it when they found something much closer to their workplace. I don't blame them, but they had a very  nice 5th wheel and sounded like great people.  Oh well. My other option is to buy a travel trailer, clean it up and rent it out.  I've read a lot of negative and positive about doing that, I'm really undecided. I've received a lot of calls about it tho.  Do you rent the campers too? No, but I'm thinking about it.

I just don't want to buy a piece of junk.  I don't want a project, either.  As with everything else, even old trailers are going for a mint. They aren't worth anything near what the people are asking for them. I have lowballed several of them to no avail.  They think they can sell them for 2, 3 even 4 times their value.  Good luck. It's really a risk tho to rent one out.  I am responsible for everything working and they - the tenant that rents it - could be decent folk or could be not so great and tear the thing up.  If I do get one, I would want inspection rights to come in and take a look at everything.  Legal? Don't know by force. By volunteering, however, in writing, yes it's legal. They will authorize and inspection or they won't get the unit.  And I don't know how much I would charge.  At least $550, maybe more.  Rentals in the entire region for anything are high.  

I'm just going to keep looking at the Marketplace. Sooner or later, someone who has money and doesn't really care about getting a lot out of the sale of one will post on there.  That's basically what the riding mower was about, the man clearly had money and clearly didn't care about the price.  He just wanted it gone. I think the Lord was involved in that one, it was sitting out there all day and no one ever saw it until I showed up and then all of a sudden there were several people pulling up?  Thank you Jesus! That's what I will say about that. I mean, for $150 and the way that thing runs? I got a steal of a deal!

Plus it's a larger motor for one of those things at 21 cc's.  

Anyway, it's getting near bedtime and I am hoping that I will get some sleep tonight. I'd like to dig out under that shed and get this vanity drain over and done with.  

Oh! That dog pooping everywhere. The older couple sent a pic - the thing had pooped right in front of their door! She was pissed.  She said to not do anything about it, but look what that damned dog of theirs did!  I replied I really have no choice, I need to address them. She said no, you need the money. 

I don't discuss my finances with anyone over there, but apparently they understand that without that park full or near full, I ain't paying the bills and being able to give myself a paycheck of any size. They did help run a park somewhere else for quite while in their past.  They're really nice people.  

Well, time to get offa here. 

 Tuesday - early.

Not going to overheat myself again today as I did yesterday.  I'll be out there at around 7:30 am to finish up the mowing and any future mowings wll be done early as well. It doesn't even have to be done in a single day and tho I like to get the job done, I don't need heat stroke either.  

The first inquiry of my new ad yesterday was a scammer.  Wants to send me a code.  The code is used to somehow use your actual phone number in scams with other people.  These scams you have no knowledge of. "She" instantly blocked me as soon as I told her I knew she was a scammer and reporting to Facebook.  

Well, whatever the case, I'm hopeful I can get a couple of people out of that ad.  Or, at least, give people something to think about before the 1st arrives and they may be thinking about moving.  People get pretty unhappy in poorly run parks where people do whatever they please without any rules or if there are rules, any rule enforcement.  I don't really go around ramming rules down people's throats, I just make my presence known well enough to ensure that people understand there is management on-property. 

Thankfully, the guy with the trailer leaking water put a whole new setup on it and no more leaks.  Water leaking that badly will cost you at the end of the month.  In fact, the bill had gone up since he came in and I was scratching my head.  It makes it warranted and prudent to go around inspecting people's trailers both for electrical infractions and water leaks.  And anything else, such as leaving trash laying around, a nice magnet for rodents.  And then, when you get the rodents, you get the snakes.....and you turn off people cruising through taking a look at the property to see if they want to live there. 

Or, overnighters who are quick to post bad reviews when the slightest thing is off or doesn't go their way....I only have 4 Google reviews so far and thankfully, those are good reviews.  I stopped trying to get people to leave them.  Even people that promise to leave a review without asking them don't do it. They space it out? Or whatever, but prodding them doesn't help so I just leave it up to the individual.  

What I do with the rest of the day after the mowing? Not sure yet. We are in for rain again today, but not til this afternoon. I'll see if the trench is dry enough to dig out and try to get a drain installed for the vanity.  People are using the bathroom, I'd like to get the bathroom finished and get my tools and stuff out of there.  

Well, I'm not getting anything done sitting here.  I'm just hopeful most people have left for the day.

Outta here. 

 It's basically bad news when it comes to people in the park right now. None of these temporary workers were going to stay forever, but a few of them made it sound like they were staying longer than what they actually are.  For example, lot 3 texted me today - he was supposedly sticking around for a year. He's been there for about 3 months. He's leaving Sunday. That was totally unexpected.

Lot 4, 7 and 12 are currently empty.  A few overnight gigs coming up, but nothing to compensate for this kind of loss. Lot 2 will be leaving in about 3 weeks. Lot 5 I'm not really sure about. I need 2 long term immediately, basically.  Well, at least 1 with more needed soon.  

I can't fret about these things, I just have to hope some people show up out of nowhere, say they are staying for awhile, do you have anything? That's pretty much how it happens. I'm probably going to run a boosted Facebook ad. I have ads up, free ones, but I need ads up targeting people looking for long term. 

To that end, I'm going to join a bunch of Facebook groups over in Shreveport - right now actually - be back in a few, lmao. There we go, numerous join requests.  And a huge Dallas group was in the midst of the Shreveport stuff, so I put in a join request there as well. I get lots of visitors from Dallas, I can add that short term is also available on my next ad. I"m going to create a new ad versus keep using the old ones. They don't seem to be effective, I need fresh material with at least a few newer pics. 

It seems to me I should also be joining groups in Carthage, Longview and Tyler.  People move around in this region a lot. 

I did get more than half the park finished today, but I overheated badly. I should have taken more water and sugar free Gatorade with me, I will remember tomorrow morning to go finish that stuff. I ended up soaking wet in sweat - head to toes - I was not feeling well at all. It was hot in the sense of direct sunlight and high humidity.  I felt so bad I just came home and sat down in my cold bedroom office chair and sat there.  I was contemplating going back this afternoon to finish up, but that was a no go.  Hydration!  I had water, didn't bring near enough.

There.  Brand new ad.  Posted all over the place, including an attempt to post in the Dallas group.  Facebook boost added. Now to wait for them to approve or reject it. I have no idea why some of the ads Facebook says is ok and others Facebook says no.  They don't tell you. It's why I don't delete the ads that they accept.   I'm just sitting here thinking to go to bed early and try to get up early. Depending on sleep quality. Get the rest of the mowing done while the temps are still lower.  

I also just realized that most of the pics I have are from winter and not showing all the beautiful greenery in the trees.  I will take a bunch of fresh pics tomorrow and update all of my ads.  I'll be able to get shots with freshly mowed grass.  

Enough.  Ad created, workout completed. I haven't done curls with curl bar in ages.  Gag I'm so out of shape!

 "Your park is the best one in this entire area".  

I hear this a lot, regardless of a couple of people making demands that are beyond anything reasonable.  They are actually talking to me again, they are nosy and want to know everything.  The husband of the grumpies went over there immediately last night, apparently, as soon as they came in.  I didn't hear anything negative had been said to them about me, but I find it suspect that they are addressing new tenants before they even have the rig set up and getting comfy in their new surroundings.  

Maybe it's just because of what the grumps have been doing with me.  I am referring to the new people coming in.  I spent an hour visiting with them - they had me in their trailer and showed me around. They told me they went to all of the parks in the area and mine was "by far" the best.  I will take any compliments I can get.  I'm afraid that title may be lost at some point to that new park that hasn't opened and has been sitting there, idle, for some time now.  

I think the problem with that park is that they want way too much money for it.  And keeping that many sites full, if an investor is looking to profit off of it, is going to be difficult with the competition keeping prices lower than they should be.  I'm considering reaching out to all of the parks in the area, big, small, dumps or whatever they've got and discussing having some sort of board or committee - an association if you will - to get together and discuss all of us raising our rates all at the same time.  

Parks going any direction that is out of our city area are getting at least $10 more per night.  Or, for long term, they are charging separately for electricity.  So, you could bring your monthly lot rent rate down but charge separate for electricity and end up way ahead.  If you don't have meters, such as I, increase the rates $50 per month.  

I was a bit - stupid - to let my contractor who built my park and also built the competing park know how much I am charging per month for rent. He asked and I just blurted it out without thinking.  If they open up and start charging the same rates as all of us, how is that going to pan out?  I probably spend too much time thinking about this. They are 12 miles from downtown, they aren't close to anything.  Their only hope, IMO, is to either cut throat their rates or turn it into a resort. 

Oh well, the contractor gave me a lot of free work, it's probably why I didn't think twice to let him know.  

Anyway, these new people are a 3-some plus 2 dogs. They're in their early 30's, I'm guessing and a 4 year old boy.  They bought property nearby, but that was a fiasco in itself. The lady that owns the property wouldn't sell it to the farmer that owns hundreds of acres that literally surrounds it.  After the deal was done, the farmer asked if they would be interested in a different 6 acre parcel of land and could he have that one?  Turns out the other parcel is much nicer than the one they bought.  The farmer gets the land back and the old lady - grudges, misgivings, who knows - didn't get her way at the end of the day.  

Well whatever. I'm just sitting here, as normal on a weekday morning, drinking my coffee and contemplating getting this grass stuff done and over with and also contemplating, as I have been, what I'm going to do when the winter grass dies off.  It's already starting to do that now.  I wish I could find somewhere that sell hundreds of pounds of bermuda grass seed at bulk prices. I've looked and looked, I can't find a "good" price anywhere.  

I'm going to keep looking, it really doesn't matter where it comes from in the US, it can be shipped, obviously.  I think I ended up putting down 500 pounds of rye grass seed.  That's 2 to 3 grand in terms of buying that much Bermuda seed and an actual truckload of sod is cheaper, amazingly enough.  That doesn't mean it's cheap, per se, it's just less expensive and already grown.  Much easier, but still a bit more than I can absorb into my business checking account right now.  

Maybe the beginning of June?  I don't want to put anything more on credit cards.  Just no thanks.  

Well, while I bake and stew on that thought, it's 9:00 am, there is no rain in the immediate forecast, time to get over there and get this chore over and done with.

G'day.  

 We worked yesterday, but i can say it had nothing to do with the Park excepting to go over there to get a shovel.  Either at the house or at the Park, I see no good reason - for the most part anyway - to be buying duplicitous tools for each place.  If a thing isn't getting that much use, it can be toted between the 2 places.  

Anjway, this pool I bought last year.  We didn't maintain it during the winter. Even being mostly under a canopy, the thing was full of leaves and dirt.  Leaves were built up against the outside of the pool on the bottom and they were wet and stinky.  

It took many hours of two of us constantly working, but the pool is completely cleaned out, the leaves and dirt gone, rinsed out several times and now filled almost all the way up with water.  Turn on the pump and...nothing! Lol.  James had already ordered another one so it won't be sitting there too long without any water pumping or filtration.  I certainly hope not, filling up a pool is not cheap or free. It's probably $100 worth extra on the water bill.

The outside of the pool and the surrounding area actually took much longer than cleaning the inside of the pool itself. I had also bought new patio furniture and a nice looking fence setup to go with the pool. Thankfully, that stuff is still in good shape.  I probably spent a grand or more on that setup, so seeing it back in one piece, clean and functional is great.  The patio furniture was a set with a small round table, 2 rocking, heavily padded lounge chairs and a couch that rocks back and forth, also heavily padded. I bought an extra, outdoor, glass top table to finish it off.  

Anyway, that is done and it feels good to get that over with. The rest of the back yard needs cleaned up, perhaps we will try to start tackling that as well, but the entire concrete area here the pool and accoutrements are is nicely cleaned.

The problem? The next door neighbors. Their yard is, as always, filthy.  They never clean up the leaves and their trees dump s*** all over our back yard. This is where I signed off on the back yard.  I got tired of cleaning it all up and 5 days later, looking almost as bad as it did when I cleaned it up or even worse, depending on rain.  We are on a hill, their stuff just washes into our back yard.  The pool is the first thing it runs into.  So, realistically, a person would have to do a thorough cleaning once a week to keep up with it. 

Now then, onto the park and grass mowing.  I'm going to start writing down in my large notebook the days that I mow it.  I am tired of this person complaining about grass. It gets mowed frequently.  It needs mowed again, yes, the constant rain has it just popping up to the sky in a very short time.  But again, I'm not going to spend the rest of my life mowing every day.  If it's once a week, that is too much. Once every 2 weeks would be good. I'm kind of thinking once every week and a half.  Of course, summer is coming and all of that stuff is going to die anyway. 

Then these people will undoubtedly be demanding summer grass.  Which is on my horizon, I just don't want people telling me what to do.  Customers, yes, boss? No.  Customers are sort of your boss in the sense they can make demands or take their business elsewhere. There is a line where you put up with a customer for so long before you decide this person/people aren't worth the constant bit*****.  

Whatever, it's Sunday, I'm just sitting here drinking my coffee, getting mentally prepared for church and attempting to decide what I'm going to do today after church. Mow lawns at the park or start raking the back yard or, as has become typical for my Sundays, do nothing.  Absolutely. Nothing. Eat, watch tv, hang out, but no work.  The park mowing can wait until tomorrow. In fact, it's probably a much better idea to do so anyway. Sundays the park is basically filled with people hanging out and lots of vehicles.  I do need to go over and collect rent from the new long term people.  They got in late in the day yesterday and I told them I would just come and deal with it tomorrow.  It's nice that that lot refilled as quickly as it did.

Seamless, in fact. Yesterday morning the other people left, yesterday afternoon these people came in. Doesn't take care of the other lots that are going to be emptied, but I'll count my blessings as the come in. Plus, I could see on the camera, it's a late model trailer in very good condition.  

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Well that went south.  Went to church with the boys.  After the service and getting the boys from the children's ministry, one of the volunteers rushed out to tell me how well the oldest boy had done with leading a group and leading in prayer.  Great!  When we walked outside, however, I could tell that something wasn't right with the younger boy.  What's wrong?  Playing on the obviousness that this boy "wasn't good" in church versus his older brother, "you weren't good in church today, I am taking it". 

He shook his head no and proceeded to tell me that he had flipped off an older boy, who in turn, had reported it to the volunteers.  Why the volunteers didn't give me that info, I'll never know, but this is the last thing I want to see happen at church. Take kids, cause trouble.  

THEN, the older one started getting pissy about going home.  I want to go to D&D with mom today!  I have things to do after church, these kids know this. I always go straight to the park and deal with whatever needs to be dealt with.  Today, it was meet and greet new people. Really nice folks. I was there quite a while as we discussed everything, then the boys came in and started playing with their kid.  We get into the car after that and start heading to Applebee's, an after-church custom that started a while back.  

This is when the pissing started bad.  Where is mom? I looked, she was somewhere - not sure where - but the app hadn't updated itself. After telling him she was already there, he started to have a meltdown. Well can you take me? No, I want to go eat at Applebee's, the younger one wanted to as well.  This went back and forth and I eventually just went home.  Told him he can go with mom on Sundays to D&D and I will go to church.  NOOOO!  I want to do both! No, we aren't doing that.  I am not dealing with that kind of attitude every Sunday afternoon after church is out. 

So, next week, it is highly likely that I will go to church without either one of them. The youngest can miss a Sunday, the oldest can do his thing with mom.  If the oldest doesn't like it, I'm shrugging my shoulders. You made your decision, now live with it.  You like that more than church, that's your decision, I'm not going to put up with your attitude.  

Fortunately, after had just discussed this with one of the parents, there is agreement on it.  The child will have to decide which he wants to do, make a decision and that's that.  The boy as adamant that he "can do both". Nope. Not with that kind of attitude. I'm not going to be harassed after church every week because he wants to do something else.

Now then.  They are gone, the youngest is bound to the living room couch - got into serious trouble for his behavior at church today, it's pretty quiet. I think I can spend some time working on a resume.  Or working on the loan. I just kind of think with all my debt, even with overwhelming assets, that a bank is going to frown on it.  I don't know that for sure, of course, but with my finances being a bit iffy, a resume is probably more prudent use of time.  

I guess I should throw in here that I slept very well last night and thoroughly enjoyed the church service this morning. All the nonsense didn't occur until after church. 

I missed an overnight opportunity last night because I had my ringer turned off. Sometimes I forget to turn it back on during the day.  That's money down the drain, I'm going to have to get better at turning that thing on first thing in the morning.  Meanwhile, only 11 days left to go before heading to AZ....I've let 4 people know I'm coming, make that 5, no 6, well you know.  I said something about it on my FB wall and a few people were asking.  I wouldn't mind visiting my friends that used to live in my house, but they are SO far away. The metro Phoenix area is huge.  It's 90 miles give or take depending on where you want to end the metro area. But going east, it is all connected clear out to Gold Canyon. Sort of the same going out to the Winterburg area.  

I dunno if I'll have time to visit them.  The friend whose wife passed away last year I'm definitely visiting. Going to try to get to the house, see a couple of high school friends and obviously my son.  

Anyway, I think I'm done for today beyond attempting some paperwork stuff.